In this episode of the Sendy Mom Podcast, Becky Brouwer highlights the extraordinary bravery of three young women from the Dutch resistance during World War II. She explores their courageous actions against the Nazi regime, emphasizing the importance of standing up for one's values and recognizing oppression. The conversation delves into various forms of resistance, the significance of integrity, and practical ways to advocate for justice in everyday life. Ultimately, it serves as a call to action for listeners to identify their values and respond with courage in the face of injustice.

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Takeaways:

• The story of Dutch resistance fighters inspires us to stand up for our values.
• Bravery can manifest in many forms, not just in loud actions.
• Understanding oppression is crucial to fighting against it.
• Small acts of defiance can lead to significant change.
• Identifying core values is essential for personal integrity.
• Teaching children about values shapes future generations.
• Using unique skills can contribute to the greater good.
• Cognitive dissonance can guide us to align actions with beliefs.
• Building a supportive community amplifies our impact.
• Living boldly in alignment with beliefs is a powerful choice.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Dutch Resistance Heroes
02:57 The Courage of Young Women in War
05:23 Acts of Defiance and Resistance
08:31 Understanding and Upholding Values
11:06 Practical Ways to Stand Up for Beliefs
12:55 Conclusion

Mentioned in the Show:

To Die Beautiful - Buzzy Jackson (novel)

Seducing and Killing Nazis - Sophie Poldermann (non-fiction)

Three Ordinary Girls - Tim Brady (non-fiction)

Episode #9 - Tales from a Sendy Survivor: Faith Robles

Bonus Episode #10 - Maria Montessori

https://nypost.com/2019/12/14/meet-the-dutch-girls-who-seduced-nazis-and-lured-them-to-their-deaths/

In this episode of the Sendy Mom podcast, host Becky Brouwer interviews Ans Brouwer, who shares her extraordinary life story. At 81, Ans reflects on her childhood in the Netherlands during World War II, and the challenges she faced as a beautiful young woman in a music conservatory. The conversation delves into themes of family, faith, personal growth, and the importance of community. Ans emphasizes the value of resilience and the need to embrace life's challenges, inspiring listeners to live purposefully and with courage, surrounding themselves with good influences.

What you’ll Hear:

♛ Ans Brouwer's life is a testament to resilience and courage.

♛ Growing up in war-torn Netherlands shaped Ans's character.

♛ Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal development.

♛ Taking risks is essential for growth and self-discovery.

♛ Music has been a significant part of Ans's life.

♛ Faith can provide strength during difficult times.

♛ Community support is vital for overcoming challenges.

♛ Aging gracefully involves staying active and engaged.

♛ It's important to surround yourself with positive influences.

♛ Embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction of Ans Brouwer

03:30 Childhood in the Netherlands During WWII

05:14 Family Dynamics and Resilience

06:58 Dad's Escape from a Nazi Work Camp

09:14 Adventures and Risks in Youth

10:03 Lessons from Childhood Experiences

11:26 Riding the Barges to School

15:01 Falling in the Ice

17:22 Coping with Adversity and Finding Strength

19:46 Surrounding Yourself with Goodness - Be a Coffee Bean

23:40 Moving to Australia and New Beginnings

25:27 Self Advocacy at the Conservatory of Music

34:10 The Cold War and a New Beginning in Australia

40:29 Desparation and Apples

43:26 Faith and Community Connections and When Your Child Chooses a Different Path

50:38 The Journey to America

53:08 Staying Active and Engaged at 81

55:55 Rapid Fire Questions

01:03:24 Outro with music.mp4

Mentioned in the Show:
The Coffee Bean: Jon Gordon and Damon West

“From the Heart” by Ans Brouwer

Turning Point: The Bomb and the Cold War

“Acts of Oblivion” by Robert Harris

“Three Ordinary Girls” by Tim Brady

Meet my Guest:

Ans Brouwer has lived a remarkable life. She is 81 years old but doesn’t look a day over 65. She acts like she’s about 25 sometimes and is a joy to be around. I love talking to her because she surprises you. She likes to say things that are unexpected and is unapologetic about what she believes and who she is. She was born in the Netherlands during World War II but grew up not knowing hunger. As the oldest grandchild of a large family, they never let the baby be hungry while everyone around her were suffering from the Hunger Winter in the Netherlands. I am excited to help share her story today. I know a lot about Ans. We met in person the day before I got married and she became my mother in-law. You are about to see how lucky I am to have her in my life. Ans is spunky, full of energy, positive, cheerful, and hopeful. Ans is sendy as you will find out because of the sacrifices she has made for her family, her faith, and her personal growth. This is what a real Mormon housewife looks like!

Sendy Spotlight:

Hannie Schaft (1920-1945)

"Composing gives me great pleasure... there is nothing that surpasses the joy of creation, if only because through it one wins hours of self-forgetfulness, when one lives in a world of sound." ~ Clara Schumann

Get some great ideas for how to teach your children to be more creative and how to find joy in creating more!

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Mentioned on the show:
Play Dough Recipe
Things to do when you are bored, can’t play screens and need something fun to do…
Odyssey of the Mind

Music used:
Soirées musicales, Op. 6: IV. Ballade, Clara Schumann, Claudio Colombo
Soirées musicales, Op. 6: III. Mazurka in G Minor, Clara Schumann, Claudio Colombo
Soirées musicales Op. 6: II. Notturno, Clara Schumann/Mika Sasaki (Obsidian)

Episode #012
Every day we show up and perform in life. Do you want to know the secret to performing with joy and fulfillment? Listen to this episode to find out the secrets! Amazing insights from my friend and mentor Dr. Christie Sowby. Subscribe to the channel for more insights from women who have lived a generous life!

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☘️Meet my Guest:
Dr. Christie Sowby is an accomplished pianist, teacher, and leader in the world of music education. She is also my good friend and mentor. She has won awards for her teaching and performing and has even played in Carnegie Hall in New York. She also is a mother of an amazing special needs daughter. She contributes so much to the world of music and is a light to everyone around her. Her desire to just make the world a little better is a true testament to her goodness.

☘️What You'll Hear:
• Christie's belief in the power of support and encouragement from family.
• The importance of pursuing one's passions despite challenges.
• Resilience is key when facing life's unexpected trials.
• Education and continuous learning are vital for personal growth.
• The role of mindset in performance and achieving goals.
• Finding joy in serving others and contributing to their lives.
• The significance of accepting people for who they are.
• Overcoming obstacles can lead to unexpected blessings.
• The impact of a supportive community during difficult times.
• Music can be a powerful tool for connection and expression.

☘️Chapters:
00:00 Intro to Sendy Mom Podcast
00:46 Introducing Dr. Christie Sowby
06:07 The Impact of Supportive Influences
09:16 Learning the Piano
12:53 Seeing Others Deeply
15:04 The Role of Family in Personal Growth
17:41 Taking Risks in Pursuit of Passion
20:08 The Importance of Mentorship
22:33 Enjoying Serving Those who Can't Help Themselves
26:02 Navigating the Challenges of Parenting a Child with Disabilities
34:02 Transformative Life Changes and Resilience
37:50 High Performance Techniques and Mindset
44:29 The Journey of Education and Personal Growth
46:26 Rapid Fire Questions
52:33 Sendy Mom Outro.mp4

☘️Mentioned in the Show:
The Piano Guys - John Schmidt

Episode #001 Sendy Mom Podcast - Radical Acceptance with Miriam Wood

Distinguished Young Women

“The Fearless Mind” Craig Manning

Extended piano technique

Boys in the Boat - Daniel James Brown

Harry Potter - J.K. Rowling

Sendy Spotlight on:
"Yeonmi Park: A voice of resilience, transforming unimaginable hardship into a mission for freedom and human rights."

Enjoy my brief overview of Yeonmi Park who escaped North Korea and has become an advocate for human rights in the world.

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☘️Mentioned in the Show:
In Order to Live - Yeonmi Park

firstanswers.com - Lynn Scoresby

Yeonmi Park Instagram

Liberty in North Korea

Summary:
In this engaging episode of the Sendy Mom podcast, host Becky Brouwer interviews her sister Emily, exploring their shared upbringing, personal challenges, and the principles of resilience and service that have shaped their lives. Emily shares her journey through childhood, education, and the impact of ADHD on her learning and teaching methods. The conversation highlights the importance of family values, personal growth, and the unique path Emily has taken, culminating in Emily's current work in Theatre fitness. In this conversation, Emily shares her journey of finding community, overcoming insecurities, and reinventing her fitness programs after moving to Indiana. She discusses the emotional toll of isolation and how creativity emerged from adversity, leading her to teach and impact youth through theatre fitness. Emily emphasizes the importance of resilience in entrepreneurship and the need for healthy learning environments for kids.

What you’ll Hear:

• Resilience is key to overcoming life's challenges.
• Family support plays a crucial role in personal development.
• Service to others can help overcome feelings of isolation.
• Education can be a struggle, but hard work pays off.
• ADHD can be managed through understanding and support.
• It's important to recognize and harness one's strengths.
• Dreams may change, but the journey is valuable.
• Teaching children principles of service fosters empathy.
• Personal growth often comes from difficult experiences.
• Embracing one's unique qualities leads to success. Community helped me overcome insecurities.
• Reinventing fitness programs was a necessity.
• Isolation took an emotional toll on me.
• Creativity emerged from adversity.
• Teaching youth is my passion.
• Resilience is key in entrepreneurship.
• Healthy learning environments are crucial for kids.
• I want theater fitness to be globally accessible.
• Letting go of insecurities is essential.
• Personal growth comes from overcoming challenges.

Chapters:

00:00 Sisterly Bonds and Backgrounds

05:34 Resilience and Overcoming Challenges

11:54 Tools to Help Children with ADHD

15:44 Teaching Principles of Service

22:47 ADHD and Personal Growth

31:54 Dreams, Aspirations, and Life Choices

35:30 Finding Community and Overcoming Insecurities

36:52 Reinventing Fitness Programs

38:31 The Emotional Toll of Isolation

40:41 Creativity Born from Adversity

42:03 Transitioning to Teaching and New Opportunities

43:25 Resilience in Entrepreneurship

45:06 Impacting Youth Through Fitness and Theater

49:24 Building Resilience in Kids

51:48 The Future of Theater Fitness

54:45 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Insights

01:03:13 Outro words and music.mp3

Bonus Episode:
Sendy Spotlight this week is on Maria Montessori, an influential figure in education known for her innovative approach that emphasizes independence, creativity, and hands-on learning. I highlight her journey as a pioneering woman in medicine and education, her establishment of the Montessori method, and include practical tools for parents to foster these values in their children.

Takeaways:

• Maria Montessori was one of Italy's first female doctors.
• She developed the Montessori method through observation of children's learning.
• Montessori believed in the power of a supportive environment for learning.
• Her first school, Casa de Bombini, opened in 1907.
• Montessori education prioritizes independence and creativity.
• Children learn best when they can choose their activities.
• Practical life skills are essential in Montessori education.
• Encouraging independence builds confidence in children.
• Creativity flourishes in a supportive environment.
• Persistence and resilience are key traits to model for children.

Mentioned in this Bonus Episode:
https://montessori-ami.org/resource-library/facts/biography-maria-montessori

“The Parenting Breakthrough” by Merrilee Browne Boyack
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Episode Description:

In this episode of the Sendy Mom podcast, host Becky Brouwer engages in a heartfelt conversation with her friend Lani Adamson about parenting, family traditions, and the importance of teaching children independence and a strong work ethic. They discuss the challenges of fostering and adopting children, the impact of childhood experiences on personal growth, and the significance of creativity in building relationships. Lani shares her journey of self-discovery and the lessons learned through navigating trauma and parenting challenges, emphasizing the importance of being real and supportive in the lives of children.

What you’ll Hear:

• Being a 'Sendy Mom' involves teaching children essential life skills.
• Work ethic is instilled through hands-on family experiences.
• Encouraging children to take risks builds their self-confidence.
• Family traditions create lasting memories and connections.
• Self-confidence can be nurtured through supportive parenting.
• Creativity is essential for personal growth and expression.
• Starting a business can stem from a passion for creativity.
• Community and relationships are vital in creative pursuits.
• It's important to embrace discomfort in the learning process.
• Teaching children to do hard things prepares them for life. There's a learning curve in trying new things.
• Ceramics can be a fun family activity.
• Adoption can be a challenging but rewarding journey.
• Reactive attachment disorder affects children's ability to connect.
• Trauma can have a lasting impact on family dynamics.
• It's important to be real about struggles to help others.
• Love alone may not be enough for children with trauma.
• Personal growth often comes from facing adversity.
• Finding joy in small moments can be uplifting.
• Exploring new hobbies can lead to personal fulfillment.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Sendy Mom Podcast

00:54 Lani working with her Dad in Construction as a Child

03:05 Teaching Your Children to Work

07:04 Do or Do Not. There is No Try. Whiteboard Messages

08:37 Family Traditions and Memories

13:59 High School Experiences and Self-Confidence

17:30 Teach Children to Have a Full Life through Creativity

23:03 Starting a Ceramics Business

28:17 The Journey of Ceramics and Community

30:16 The Art of Ceramics and Family Engagement

34:42 Navigating the Journey of Adoption

35:03 The Challenges of Fostering and Adoption

38:34 Understanding Reactive Attachment Disorder

44:42 The Impact of Trauma on Family Dynamics

49:51 Growth Through Adversity and Life Lessons

53:39 Rapid Fire Questions

56:21 Exploring New Interests and Hobbies

Mentioned in the Show:

Inventing Anna

I Want to Trust You, But I Don’t

Sendy Spotlight:
Maria Montessori:
"The greatest sign of success for a teacher is to be able to say, 'The children are now working as if I did not exist.'"
"Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed."

https://montessori-ami.org/resource-library/facts/biography-maria-montessori

“The Parenting Breakthrough” by Merrilee Browne Boyack