Paint for Thought Podcast

By: Nicholas J Goblirsch
  • Summary

  • With a snap of a finger, we wish we can make change in our lives with no pain, no stress, no fear, just the results we want. Unfortunately this will never be true. As a former Corporate HR Executive turned professional House Painter, I understand how the decision to make a change in our lives affects us and those closest to us. In HR I helped colleagues deal with uncontrollable change and as a painter I get to change the color of space that surrounds us. Join me for each show where learnings are shared from my own experiences making significant changes in my life, as well as others who have stories of their own to share. Find a happier life to live when you have the tools to see when change is necessary, decide to make a change, have the courage to accept the changes to come, and how to destroy the fear that is holding you back.
    2024
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Episodes
  • 033: Navigating Emotional Intelligence and YOU in Changing Spaces
    Nov 7 2024

    In this enriching 33rd episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, co-hosts Nick Goblirsch and Linda Payne delve into the transformative power of emotional intelligence (EI) and its application in both personal and professional settings. Throughout the episode, they share personal anecdotes and insights about how understanding emotions can lead to more meaningful relationships and effective decision-making.

    Nick and Linda explore how emotional intelligence impacts professional environments, especially in leadership roles. They discuss how being attuned to the feelings and motivations of oneself and others can drive positive change within organizations. The hosts also offer practical advice on fostering positive thoughts and behaviors, addressing common misconceptions around emotional intelligence, and highlighting its necessity in creating supportive communities.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Emotional intelligence is vital for maintaining satisfying personal and professional relationships.

    • Understanding emotions can help in managing stress and making informed decisions.

    • Practicing EI in leadership roles can significantly enhance team dynamics and organizational success.

    • Men, in particular, may face challenges in embracing emotional intelligence due to societal norms.

    • Positive thoughts lead to positive behaviors, which can create a more fulfilling and impactful life.

    CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

    EMAIL:

    nick@bucketsofchange.com

    lpayne@lpdivorce.com

    OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

    Linda Payne

    Web: www.lpdivorce.com

    Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

    Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

    Nick Goblirsch:

    Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

    Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

    TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

    Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 032: Exploring Evolving Gender Roles in Family and Workplace Dynamics
    Oct 31 2024

    In this episode of the "Buckets of Change" podcast, co-hosts Nick and Linda delve into the evolving landscape of gender roles, both in family settings and the workplace. They reflect on their experiences growing up and how traditional gender roles have shifted over time. The discussion kicks off with Nick and Linda sharing personal anecdotes about their upbringing and the societal expectations they observed. They explore how these norms have transformed from the rigid models of past decades to the more flexible arrangements seen today.

    Throughout the conversation, Nick and Linda address the impact of societal expectations on personal and professional life choices. They highlight the pressures faced by both men and women in adhering to outdated norms and the importance of embracing change. The hosts also discuss the influence of media and pop culture on perceptions of gender roles, underscoring the progress made towards gender equality. Linda brings her legal expertise to bear on how gender roles can affect relationship dynamics, particularly in the context of marriage and divorce. The episode concludes with an emphasis on the need for open communication and adaptability in achieving balance and harmony in personal and professional partnerships.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Evolving Gender Roles: The episode explores how traditional gender roles have evolved over the decades, influencing personal relationships and professional dynamics.

    • Cultural Influences: Media and pop culture have played significant roles in shaping societal perceptions of gender roles, contributing to their gradual evolution.

    • Challenges and Pressures: Nick and Linda discuss the pressures from societal norms and expectations, highlighting the challenges faced by individuals striving to balance personal and professional responsibilities.

    • Embracing Change: Change is a constant theme, with both hosts encouraging listeners to embrace fluidity in gender roles and to communicate openly about expectations and desires.

    • Legal Insights: Linda provides her perspective as a divorce attorney, pointing out how unmet expectations regarding gender roles can strain relationships and lead to marital breakdowns.

    CHECK OUT Never Enough: When achievement Culture Becomes Toxic and What We Can Do About It by Jennifer Breheny Wallace, especially for Parents and Coaches https://www.amazon.com/Never-Enough-Achievement-Culture-Toxic/dp/0593191862

    CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

    EMAIL:

    nick@bucketsofchange.com

    lpayne@lpdivorce.com

    OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

    Linda Payne

    Web: www.lpdivorce.com

    Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

    Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

    Nick Goblirsch:

    Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

    Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

    TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

    Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

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    51 mins
  • 031: Happy Anniversary - A Transformative Year of a Family Law Coach & Podcast Host
    Oct 24 2024

    This 31st episode explores the intricacies of Linda's one-year anniversary on her journey from a successful family law litigator to a divorce coach and consultant. The conversation delves into the motivations behind her career change, the emotional turmoil involved, and the growth she has experienced over the past year. The dialogue is rich with reflections on taking risks, dealing with fear, and embracing uncertainty to pursue a more fulfilling professional life.

    The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs that indicate a change is necessary and how self-awareness plays a crucial role in making life-altering decisions. Nick and Linda discuss their personal experiences with professional transformations and the lessons learned from those experiences. The episode is filled with actionable insights for listeners considering a career switch or significant life change, spotlighting the necessity of taking responsibility for one's happiness and the potential for personal growth that comes with embracing change.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Recognize the signs when change is necessary in your career or personal life and give yourself permission to pursue it.

    • Understand that taking responsibility for your own life decisions can unlock limitless possibilities for happiness and success.

    • Allow yourself time to heal and reassess your priorities when navigating major changes.

    • Embrace the transformative power of change, acknowledging that each individual's journey is unique and evolves over time.

    • Use personal experiences and growth to positively impact others, as Linda has done in her new career path.

    CONTACT Nick & Linda directly, via email, to schedule your free 20 minute change chat to see if they can offer the guidance an coaching you need to begin your journey towards making and managing chasnge in your life. Remember to put "CHANGE" in the subject line and they will get back to you right away.

    EMAIL:

    nick@bucketsofchange.com

    lpayne@lpdivorce.com

    OTHERS WAYS to connect with the show:

    Linda Payne

    Web: www.lpdivorce.com

    Instagram & Facebook: @lp_divorce

    Facebook: LP Divorce Services, LLC

    Nick Goblirsch:

    Instagram: @bucketsofchange and @iheartpaintingnj

    Facebook: @iheartpaintingnj and https://www.facebook.com/iheartpaintingnj

    TikTok: @nickgoblirsch

    Music on this composed and performed by Esme Cruz - "Testing Kites (Instrumental)". So grateful for your talented tunes.

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    1 hr and 6 mins

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