Narcissists in Divorce: The Narcissist Trap

By: Dr Supriya McKenna
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  • Narcissism expert Dr Supriya McKenna tackles head on the issues that occur when divorcing a narcissistic personality type. In this podcast she is often joined by veteran UK solicitor Karin Walker.

    In this podcast Dr Supriya offers up her years of experience working in this field, whilst interviewing a variety of allied professionals to also bring you their advice and expertise.

    A former family doctor, Supriya is a best selling author in the field of narcissism.

    Her new 2024 book, the first of her 'Narcissists in Divorce' series, is now available from Audible as an audiobook, as well as in paperback and Kindle formats. It's called Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving, and it will teach you how to assess whether your partner is a true narcissist. With easy-to-read case histories and in-depth questionnaires, you’ll learn about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and how to deconstruct narcissistic behaviours. You'll discover the predictable divorce and separation behaviours to expect from a narcissist, and their impact on you and your children.


    You’ll also learn why these relationships are so difficult to break free from, and why you may be struggling. With guidance to help you decide whether or not to leave your relationship, you’ll also learn essential strategies to build your resilience – regardless of what choice you ultimately make.


    It will be followed in late summer 2024 by the second book in the series - Narcissists in Divorce: From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth. Exposing the dangerous inadequacies of family justice systems across the world, it is a complete, no nonsense guide to navigating child-related and financial issues that occur during divorce. It details how to minimize and deal with post separation abuse, how to parent alongside a narcissist, and how to make up for the deficiencies of the narcissistic parent to protect your children. Legal strategies for both the finances and children issues are covered in detail, as are physiological hacks to help you cope with the divorce process, which, sadly, is abusive in itself. Dr Supriya even covers how to recognize and deal with narcissistic divorce lawyers; how exactly to find a lawyer who can help you; court ordered psychological evaluations; and much much more.


    (Dr Supriya's other recent book, 'The Narcissist Trap - The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders', explains how anyone can be pulled into a narcissist's orbit - at work, at home, in social circles, and anywhere else, and may be useful for people who are trying to support their loved ones who are divorcing narcissists. The book is also a must read for anyone wanting to understand this damaging condition).

    in 2020 Dr Supriya also conceived and wrote, with UK Family lawyer Karin Walker, Narcissists and Family Law: A Practitioner's Guide, the only book about narcissism specifically to educate family lawyers.

    Supriya and Karin have trained thousands of family law professionals in how to manage narcissistic divorces. With legal tips, advice for lawyers and more, this podcast is invaluable for anyone who suspects their spouse or partner might be narcissistic, as well for family lawyers, wishing to be able to better represent their clients.

    For online courses, including 'Is my Partner a Narcissist?' and 'Demystifying The Narcissist' online courses, visit DoctorSupriya.com. And for more resources, and to contact Dr Supriya, please do visit TheLifeDoctor.org.

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  • Is your partner a narcissist? With Stowe Family Law.
    Jul 26 2024

    In this episode, in which she was interviewed by Stowe Family Law, Dr Supriya McKenna gives some pointers to help you identify whether you are in a relationship with a narcissist, with family lawyers Liza Gatrell and Matthew Taylor. They discuss the reasons why it is so important to know whether your partner is a narcissist before you consider divorcing them, and highlight some interesting legal tips that might be of use during your divorce.

    Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders. Her forthcoming book, the second in the Narcissists in Divorce series (From Leaving to Liberty) will be out soon.

    This podcast was brought to you in association with Stowe Family Law, the largest family law firm in the UK, as part of their Stowe talks series.

    The Stowe talks podcast and video series are designed to help people go through a relationship breakdown and all the challenges this brings, covering topics including narcissism, domestic abuse, supporting children, finances and navigating the family court.

    Follow the link for Stowe talks podcast series on Spotify or watch their video series on YouTube

    More resources for you:

    Listen to the audiobook sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving here
    Read a sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving on Amazon here and of The Narcissist Trap - The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders, here

    If you want to be sure that your partner is a narcissist the 'Is your partner a narcissist? Knowing for sure' online course is out now, as is the 'Demystifying the Narcissist' online course - and, due to popular demand, the 'Divorcing a Narcissist' online course is on its way.
    Please head over to doctorsupriya.com for online course information and updates.

    For more free information and blogs, and to contact Dr Supriya for 1:1 coaching, visit thelifedoctor.org...

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    58 mins
  • The Communal Narcissist
    May 22 2024

    In this episode Dr Supriya describes a lesser known outward presentation of narcissism – that of the Communal (or 'altruistic') Narcissist.

    More resources for you:

    Listen to the audiobook sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving here
    Read a sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving on Amazon here and of The Narcissist Trap - The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders, here

    If you want to be sure that your partner is a narcissist the 'Is your partner a narcissist? Knowing for sure' online course is out now, as is the 'Demystifying the Narcissist' online course - and, due to popular demand, the 'Divorcing a Narcissist' online course is on its way.
    Please head over to doctorsupriya.com for online course information and updates.

    For more free information and blogs, and to contact Dr Supriya for 1:1 coaching, visit thelifedoctor.org...

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    19 mins
  • How to parent alongside a narcissist - Part 2, with Dr Supriya McKenna
    Dec 15 2023

    In this episode, in which she was interviewed by Stowe Family Law, Dr Supriya McKenna explains how to communicate with a narcissistic co-parent to reduce the narcissistic supply. She explains the concept of parallel parenting, and how to deal with being triggered by communications from the narcissist. She also gives her top tips for building evidence for court in your communication with the narcissist, explains how to stick to your boundaries with the narcissist and explains the serious pitfalls of the family court and child arrangements orders. They discuss Live with orders, and the importance of having a very detailed parenting plan or child arrangements order. They also discuss the benefits of being a litigant in person, once the non narcissistic parent feels able to do this, to reduce the narcissist's ability to financially abuse them through repeated litigation.

    Dr Supriya is an Amazon no 1 bestselling author in the subject of narcissism, and the author of the new books Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving and The Narcissist Trap :The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders.

    This podcast was brought to you in association with Stowe Family Law, the largest family law firm in the UK, as part of their Stowe talks series.

    The Stowe talks podcast and video series are designed to help people go through a relationship breakdown and all the challenges this brings, covering topics including narcissism, domestic abuse, supporting children, finances and navigating the family court.

    Follow the link for Stowe talks podcast series on Spotify or watch their video series on YouTube


    More resources for you:

    Listen to the audiobook sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving here
    Read a sample of Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving on Amazon here and of The Narcissist Trap - The Mind-Bending Pull of the Great Pretenders, here

    If you want to be sure that your partner is a narcissist the 'Is your partner a narcissist? Knowing for sure' online course is out now, as is the 'Demystifying the Narcissist' online course - and, due to popular demand, the 'Divorcing a Narcissist' online course is on its way.
    Please head over to doctorsupriya.com for online course information and updates.

    For more free information and blogs, and to contact Dr Supriya for 1:1 coaching, visit thelifedoctor.org...

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As a senior social worker, this audiobook is professionally invaluable - highly recommended.

If you are in the social work profession and are dealing with clients affected by narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), Supriya McKenna's latest audiobook is a game-changer. This audiobook dives deep into the complexities of NPD and its impact on relationships, offering practical advice and insights that are both accessible and useful.

Supriya kicks things off with a strong preface and introduction, setting the stage for an in-depth exploration of narcissism. She explains the fundamental characteristics of NPD with real-life examples, making it easy to understand and recognise these behaviours in your clients.

One of the best parts is how she breaks down different types of narcissists, helping you identify these personalities in your caseload. Supriya also goes into the psychological roots of NPD, giving you a solid foundation for developing effective support plans.

For those dealing with the fallout of narcissistic relationships, Supriya offers compassionate advice on fostering resilience and coping strategies. The audiobook also includes practical tests and tools to identify narcissistic traits, which are very handy for real-world application.

A standout section focuses on the impact of narcissistic parents on children, with valuable tips on how to protect and support young ones in these tough situations. This is especially relevant if you are working in child welfare or family services.

The final chapters are all about empowerment and healing. Supriya's motivational advice helps clients reclaim their strength and move forward from toxic relationships.

In general, Supriya's audiobook is a must-listen for social workers. It is packed with expert knowledge and practical tips that will help you support clients dealing with narcissistic dynamics. Whether you are new to the field or a seasoned professional, this audiobook offers insights and tools that will make a meaningful difference in your practice.

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So grateful I found this podcast!!

Highly recommended and definitely buy the book! Both have been a huge help throughout the stressful process of leaving my marriage and getting divorced. Thank you so much for what you do!

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