Reflections, Growth, and Gratitude—Celebrating this past year!
What was you biggest challenge or triumph of 2024?

In this special year-end episode of the Milk and Madness podcast, we reflect on their inaugural year of podcasting. What a year its been and it hasn't been without challenges and triumphs. We launched this podcast a had some personal milestones like job changes and kids starting school. We covered a lot of important parenting topics throughout the year, such as bullying, family dynamics, and perimenopause, and we aspire to continue next year. We want to thank all our listeners and encourage you to continue connecting and sharing. We wish you all a wonderful holiday period. Eat too much, laugh too hard and be filled by the presence of loved ones.

What we discussed:

00:00 Welcome to the Year-End Special!

00:57 Reflecting on Our Podcast Journey

02:37 Key Learnings and Challenges

04:23 Parenting Milestones and Changes

09:07 Unexpected Challenges and Personal Growth

17:33 Looking Forward to the Future

22:42 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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Career Crossroads, Coping, and Community—Facing the Struggles of Unemployment
Ever felt lost without a job? How do you stay positive during a job search?

In this episode of Milk and Madness, we discuss the challenges and emotional impacts of facing unemployment. We share our personal experiences of career uncertainty, stress, and the importance of identity in both our professional and personal lives. We talk about the struggles of job searching, the importance of networks, and the broader implications on mental health and family dynamics. Through this episode, we aim to normalise these feelings and encourage listeners to reach out for support. Remember, these challenging times are temporary.

What we discussed:

00:00 Welcome to Milk and Madness

00:19 Identity Shifts in Parenthood

01:18 Facing Unemployment

03:02 Navigating Job Search Stress

05:28 The Importance of Networks

13:49 Financial Security Concerns

19:53 Words of Encouragement

20:45 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

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Toys, tantrums, and tussles— kids fighting and arguing is a tale as old as time.
In this episode of Milk and Madness, we dive into the fascinating world of sibling dynamics. We share candid stories from our own childhoods and parenting experiences, unpacking the common challenges of fights for attention, toy disputes, and sibling brawls.

But it’s not all conflict! We celebrate the bright side of sibling relationships, from shared laughter to teamwork, and explore how to guide kids toward healthier, more empathetic interactions. We also touch on the potential long-term effects of sibling aggression and why it’s crucial to address rivalry thoughtfully.

What we discussed:
00:00 Welcome to the Milk and Madness Podcast

00:20 Diving into Sibling Rivalry

01:08 Personal Stories of Sibling Fights

02:37 Reflecting on Childhood Conflicts

04:10 Navigating Sibling Dynamics

05:09 The Role of Parents in Sibling Fights

09:09 Physical Play and Roughhousing

10:55 Balancing Discipline and Play

19:42 Positive Sibling Interactions

30:25 The Impact of Sibling Aggression

33:19 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

Resources:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-science-of-siblings/202311/the-long-term-impact-of-sibling-aggression-on-adults

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationships/202002/sibling-bullying-and-abuse-the-hidden-epidemic

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Cookie, Hot dog, Penis or Vagina? What's your approach when discussing body parts with your kids?
In this episode of Milk and Madness, we dive into the important and sometimes awkward topic of how to talk to our kids about their private parts. We explore whether to use anatomical terms or fun nicknames, the significance of setting boundaries, and how to teach kids about personal safety. Sharing our personal experiences, we highlight the importance of creating an open environment where children feel comfortable discussing sensitive issues, including potential abuse.

What we discussed:
00:00 Welcome to Milk and Manners

00:19 Introducing the Topic: Talking to Kids About Private Parts

01:04 Personal Upbringings and Family Approaches

02:54 Navigating Conversations with Kids

09:13 Teaching Boundaries and Safety

22:58 The Importance of Using Correct Terminology

27:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Resources:
My Body, My Choice: Teaching Kids Consent by Crystal Hardstaff
My Body is Mine by Crystal Hardstaff
C is for Consent by Eleanor Morrison
My Body Belongs to Me from My Head to My Toes by Dagmar Geisler
Yes! No!: A First Conversation About Consent by Jessica Ralli and Megan Madison
Don't Hug Doug (He Doesn't Like It) by Carrie Finison

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Ever wondered if signing kids up for activities after school is worth the time, cost, and juggling?
In this episode of Milk and Madness, we dive into the world of extracurriculars. We talk about our own childhood experiences, the pressures today’s parents feel to keep up, and the tricky balance between encouraging resilience and knowing when it’s okay for a kid to quit.

From navigating jam-packed schedules to the costs that add up, we reflect on how to make choices that genuinely benefit our kids. Most importantly, we talk about why it’s essential to listen to what kids really want - so their activities stay fun and meaningful. Tune in as we weigh the pros, cons, and unexpected lessons from these extra activities. And don’t forget to share your thoughts with us—what’s your take on extracurriculars?

What we discussed:
00:00 Welcome to the Milk and Madness Podcast

00:23 Exploring Extracurricular Activities

00:57 Dee's Childhood Experiences

03:04 Nhi's Childhood Experiences

06:00 Modern Parenting and Extracurricular Pressure

09:34 Balancing Extracurricular Activities

16:01 A Mother's Perspective on Sports

19:51 Balancing Kids' Extracurricular Activities

20:46 Managing Weekend Schedules

24:12 The Challenge of Quitting

26:26 Life Lessons Through Sports

34:05 Swimming Lessons: A Parent's Perspective

37:28 Final Thoughts on Extracurricular Activities

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Is having kids something you want to do.... one day? Or have you been trying for a while? Is someone you know going through IVF?

In this episode of the Milk and Madness podcast, we are joined by a special guest, Phuong Chandler, a nurse manager at Melbourne IVF with nearly a decade of experience. Phuong educates us novices about the intricacies of In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), including what it entails, when to seek advice, and various treatment options such as Ovulation Induction (OI) and Artificial Insemination (AI).

We'll discuss the entire IVF process, from medication to egg collection, fertilization, and embryo transfer.
We also speak about (and want to highlight) the importance of seeking advice early, the impact of health and lifestyle on fertility, and the emotional and financial burdens associated with IVF. The episode aims to support and educate listeners who may be trying to conceive or considering IVF treatments.

What we discussed:
00:00 Welcome to Milk and Madness

00:20 Introducing Our Special Guest: Fung Chandler

01:14 Understanding IVF: Basics and Initial Steps

03:24 Ovulation Induction and Tracking Your Cycle

06:49 Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) Explained

09:43 The IVF Process: From Egg Collection to Embryo Transfer

18:58 Challenges and Emotional Impact of IVF

24:42 Health, Lifestyle, and Financial Considerations

26:56 Surrogacy and Final Advice

28:04 Wrapping Up and Looking Ahead

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Have you ever used these phrases- "Use your words" or "Everything will be OK"? We have....

In this episode of the Milk and Madness podcast, we explore the profound impact of language on children's development and behaviour. We share personal anecdotes and techniques for balancing positive reinforcement with allowing kids to learn from failure, influencing self-esteem, emotional growth, and resilience. We cover the importance of using clear, positive instructions, managing swear words, and the role of tone and body language in communication. We believe in avoiding negative labels, modelling emotional regulation, and providing an environment for children to thrive within set boundaries.

What we discussed:
00:00 Welcome to the Milk and Madness Podcast

00:22 The Power of Language in Shaping Young Minds

01:06 Personal Reflections on Language and Parenting

02:48 Navigating Encouragement and Failure

06:45 Impact of Childhood Labels and Encouragement

15:42 Swearing and Tone: Teaching Kids About Language

18:52 Navigating Language with Kids

20:01 Ambrose's Naughty Words

22:30 Gentle Parenting and Tough Love

24:28 The Importance of Fairness

26:24 Phrases to Avoid with Kids

31:10 Building Resilience and Grit

32:57 Wrapping Up: The Power of Words

Sources mentioned:
7 things not to say to a child

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How do gender norms impact our parenting? When you think of gender norms, what comes to mind?

In this episode of the Milk and Madness podcast, Nhi and Dee tackle the influence of gender norms within their childhoods and now how it impacts their parenting.

They discuss how societal expectations shape children's behaviours, and self-expression, sharing personal anecdotes from their diverse upbringings and current parenting journeys. They emphasize the need to foster self-worth, promote qualities like leadership and bravery, and support kids in their identities beyond traditional norms.

What we discussed:

00:00 Welcome to the Milk and Madness Podcast

00:21 Understanding Gender Norms

01:50 Personal Experiences with Gender Norms

06:18 Parenting and Challenging Gender Norms

08:55 Raising Boys and Girls: Different Challenges

14:57 Supporting Children in Defying Gender Norms

22:52 Supporting Ambrose's Expression

23:34 Navigating Gender Norms with Kids

24:29 Encouraging Individuality in Children

25:23 Challenging Gender Stereotypes

30:04 Reflecting on Personal Experiences

36:11 The Power of Language in Parenting

40:08 Concluding Thoughts on Gender Norms

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