In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, we tackle the gut-wrenching reality of feeling alone and trapped in a life you worked so hard to build. Drawing from my personal experience of 15 years stuck in a marriage where resentment and guilt consumed me, I share the hard truths about how abandoning yourself to make others happy only leads to isolation and frustration.

We explore why your family doesn’t need a “nice guy” but a leader—a man who stands firm in his values, sets boundaries, and keeps his word. I break down two powerful tools you can use today to reclaim your integrity, rebuild trust, and start leading both your family and your own life with purpose.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re losing yourself in the grind of daily life, this episode will challenge you to step up and take control. Tune in and learn how to stop drifting and start leading.

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In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob Wischer, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Dan Storey, a renowned author, motivational speaker, and master practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). Dan shares his transformative journey from a competitive athlete to one of the top natural physique bodybuilders in the world. Together, they explore how understanding behavioral psychology can help men break free from limiting beliefs, regain their integrity, and rediscover their purpose. Tune in to learn actionable insights on cultivating persistence, overcoming self-doubt, and making meaningful life changes. Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, career burnout, or personal growth hurdles, this episode is packed with tools to help you thrive.

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In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Andrew Heatherly, founder of Wiser Divorce Solutions and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast. Together, they unpack the financial and emotional challenges of navigating midlife divorce and how to turn adversity into a path toward personal growth and purpose.

Andrew shares actionable insights on avoiding common financial pitfalls, rebuilding social connections, and using tools like the Japanese concept of Ikigai to discover your life’s purpose. Whether you’re in the middle of a divorce or simply seeking a fresh start, this episode will equip you with the strategies to rebuild with confidence. Don't miss this powerful conversation on reclaiming your life and redefining what’s possible after setbacks.

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In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, dives deep with Jonathon Aslay, one of America's top midlife dating coaches and author of What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?. They discuss the journey of self-discovery, healing from emotional wounds, and how finding purpose can transform your life. From navigating the challenges of online dating to cultivating emotional resilience, Jonathon shares powerful insights for men looking to reclaim their identity and deepen their relationships. Whether you're feeling lost in life, struggling to connect with others, or wondering how to love yourself, this episode offers actionable advice and inspiration to help you show up as the man you’re meant to be.

Feeling like you were abandoned or cast aside after divorce? You’re not alone—and there’s a way forward.

In this powerful episode, Bob welcomes Josh Tomioni, coach, podcast host, and father of three, to discuss the hard truths about navigating life’s toughest transitions. From overcoming contentious divorces to rebuilding purpose and identity, Josh shares his journey of failure, healing, and rediscovery. Together, they break down the five biggest traps men face during and after divorce, from self-care neglect to unhealthy relationships, and offer actionable insights to reclaim masculinity and authenticity.

Josh also reveals how embracing failure can become a badge of honor and how men can connect with their true purpose, free from societal noise. Don’t miss this raw, eye-opening conversation that will challenge and inspire you to keep moving forward.

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In this deeply personal episode, I share my untold story of navigating a 19-year ill-fated marriage, battling depression, and losing myself to bad habits and a lack of purpose.

From being out of shape and isolated to finding my true calling and rebuilding my life, I’ll walk you through the drastic changes I made to reclaim control. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that doesn’t align with who you are, this episode will show you that transformation is possible—and it starts with one decision. Tune in for practical insights and inspiration to take the first step toward the life you deserve.

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In this compelling episode of Men Becoming Better Men, The Relationship Engineer sits down with Sophia Torrini, a certified neuro-change consultant and emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner trained by Dr. Joe Dispenza. Sophia shares her powerful journey of overcoming chronic illness and limiting beliefs to lead a purpose-driven life, helping others do the same through neuroscience, trauma-informed techniques, and reality hacking.

Discover how EFT can release emotional blocks, rewire your brain, and improve mental clarity, even for the most skeptical men. Sophia also discusses the science-backed benefits of tapping, its roots in clinical trials, and how it helps shift trauma into empowerment.

Whether you're stuck in a cycle of stress, battling unprocessed emotions, or seeking alignment with your life's purpose, this episode delivers actionable strategies to help you reclaim your power. Stay tuned for insights on rewriting your personal narrative and tools for becoming the man you were meant to be.

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In this transformative episode of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast, The Relationship Engineer is joined by Matt Cook, a health and sex researcher with over 25 years of experience and the head of the largest alt health online university. With insights that have helped over 80,000 people, Matt dives deep into how men can reclaim their purpose, improve their relationships, and achieve peak health and vitality.

Key topics include:

• The surprising link between purpose, sex drive, and success.
• How to overcome struggles with intimacy, pornography, and low testosterone.
• Simple lifestyle changes to boost health, motivation, and relationships.
• Why most relationship advice fails—and the real secret to lasting intimacy.
• Practical tips for creating a life of abundance and love.

Matt shares actionable strategies from his new book, Masculine Maximizer, and offers insights into improving men’s physical and emotional well-being. Whether you're seeking to reignite your marriage, overcome personal struggles, or live out your life's purpose, this episode provides the roadmap to becoming the best version of yourself.

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