In this episode of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds., we dive into a memorable ride-along experience that perfectly captures a wonderful experience I shared with my grandpa. From responding to two active shootings, a car chase, and physical altercations in a single shift, it was a whirlwind day that left both of us with stories to tell for a lifetime. It was also a day that highlighted his pride in the work done by police officers and the values he instilled in me.

The episode shifts to quiet moments spent at Grandpa’s home, where he’d frequently ask, “Is it getting worse out there?” His question wasn’t just about the chaos on the news but stemmed from his observation of a world seemingly moving away from values he cherished—honesty, hard work, and faith. We discuss how I tried to answer his question with hope, drawing from the resilience I see in families like ours who still prioritize what is good and right and live with faith in a Savior who offers redemption in an increasingly broken world.

Then, in November 2022, life took an unexpected turn. I share the bittersweet news of Grandpa’s cancer diagnosis and his faith in his final days. His peace and assurance, rooted in his trust in Jesus Christ, were profound. Reflecting on the wisdom he imparted to our family, I recount stories from his life—his example of hard work, the value he placed on relationships, and the simple joys of time spent with loved ones. Whether it was lessons learned in at a logging job, the symbolism of a well-cared-for pair of boots, or the importance of pausing to “go fishing” with those who matter most, Grandpa’s life was a testament to what truly endures.

Finally, I share the parts of the eulogy I had the honor of delivering at his service, where I honored his legacy and the lessons he passed down. At its core was his faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ—a faith that gave him peace in life and hope in death. Join me in celebrating a man who left an indelible mark on our family and countless others, reminding us all to live with purpose, cherish our loved ones, and trust in something greater than ourselves.

Life has a way of starting in the most unexpected places. In this episode of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds., we travel through time with stories of resilience, beginning with my ancestors born under remarkable circumstances—a cave deep in the wilderness, a covered wagon on the frontier, and a kitchen turned makeshift delivery room. These moments reflect the grit and determination that shaped generations.

But the journey doesn’t stop there. I’ll share incredible stories from my own career as a police officer, including two unforgettable nights delivering babies—one in the back of a Jeep Cherokee and another in the tight quarters of a single-wide trailer. These tales blend humor, humanity, and the profound realization that life begins wherever it chooses, even in the unlikeliest of places.

In this episode, I sit down with my son, Finnegan, for a lighthearted chat about the evolution of entertainment—comparing today’s video games to the realities of life in the 1900s.

We also touch on the importance of firearm safety and enjoy a candid father-and-son moment filled with laughter and insights. Join us for a fun conversation bridging generations.

In this episode of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds., we begin by exploring how new police officers are shaped through rigorous training, cultural adaptation, and real-world experiences that build their confidence and effectiveness on the streets. Over time, these lessons become second nature—especially the reliance on tools, tactics, and teamwork. But what happens when you step into a role where those resources aren't readily available?

I share stories of transitioning from uniformed patrol to detective work—where the rules, tools, and tactics shift dramatically. Hear about two tense cases early in my detective career: a stabbing carjacking and a shooting investigation. I reflect on how I navigated these dangerous situations without the equipment and protocols I’d relied on for 15 years. Join me as I explore the challenges and lessons of adapting to a new role in law enforcement.

In this episode of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds., I read the 1899 essay "A Message to Garcia" by Elbert Hubbard, a timeless piece on responsibility, initiative, and the power of effort.

A Message to Garcia" by Elbert Hubbard is a short but powerful essay first published in 1899. It tells the story of Rowan, a man tasked with delivering a critical message to General Garcia during the Spanish-American War. The essay celebrates Rowan's determination, resourcefulness, and initiative in completing the mission without excuses or delays. Hubbard uses this story to emphasize the timeless value of reliability, self-reliance, and the willingness to take on responsibilities without question or complaint.

Hubbard contrasts Rowan's commitment with the tendencies of others in society, who often hesitate, question, or avoid responsibility. Through sharp criticism of the workforce, Hubbard laments the common inability to follow through without constant oversight or explanation. He portrays Rowan as a rare individual whose dependability and initiative shine against the widespread inefficiency and excuse-making of others, underscoring the profound need for such virtues in every era.

From navigating the uncertainty of work as a first responder to raising resilient children, the principles of grit, duty, and taking ownership resonate deeply.

Grab a cup of coffee and reflect on how these timeless values apply to the challenges we face today.

This episode begins with the story of a new police officer struggling to pass the rigorous Field Training Program. Discouraged and falling behind, his attitude towards training and his colleagues began to deteriorate. With his career on the line, a crucial pep talk about work ethic, attitude, and building trust through hard work helped him turn things around in just a few weeks. This transformation highlights the resilience and determination required to succeed in law enforcement.

The episode transitions into an inspiring interview with Kaci McNew, a 20-year-old aspiring police officer forging her own unique path into the profession. Rather than heading straight to college, Kaci chose to work as a caregiver for adults with disabilities, a role that has taught her compassion, work ethic, and the value of serving others. Now preparing for an EMT academy, she shares how her experiences have laid a strong foundation for a career in law enforcement.

Together, these stories showcase the grit and life experience needed to thrive in policing and offer lessons for anyone navigating their own career journey.

In this episode of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds, I discuss the story behind establishing the SWAT medic program for our regional team.

Back in 2012, I was approached to help develop a solution to bridge the gap when our team lost firefighter/paramedics as tactical medics. As a police officer trained in emergency medical skills and certified as an EMT, as well as some advanced firearms and tactics training, I helped by using my training and experience to assist with developing a SWAT medic program using law enforcement officers.

I underwent specialized training early in the program—from tactical combat casualty care (TCCC) to adding an IV certification to my EMT credentials. Join me as I walk through the experience of helping to build this program.

In Episode 10 of MCNEW: Duty. Grit. Grinds., we dive into the journey of raising teen drivers and the challenges and lessons that come with it. We’ll explore the balance between privilege and responsibility behind the wheel, emphasizing how young drivers benefit from understanding that driving is earned, not given.

With practical advice for parents from parents, we’ll discuss how teens working to pay for their gas, insurance, and car expenses can instill accountability, resilience, and prepare them for the road ahead—both in life and on the highway.

Special Guests Felicia and Josie McNew.