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  • Episode 92- Hidden Scars: Emotional, Psychological, stalking, financial, and physical abuse

    Episode 92- Hidden Scars: Emotional, Psychological, stalking, financial, and physical abuse
    Oct 29 2024
    Segment 1: Stories of Survival and Tragedy This episode focused on real-life stories of victims who have endured abusive relationships, sharing stories can be impactful while also being respectful to those involved. Here are three cases that highlight different aspects of abusive relationships. These are based on common patterns and anonymized for privacy, reflecting real experiences. Content Warning: Let listeners know upfront that these stories may be triggering and encourage self-care. To begin, let’s talk about some stories—stories of survival and tragedy. Abuse doesn’t discriminate; it affects people of every background, gender, and age. Each story serves as a reminder of the horrors some people endure and the resilience they show in surviving and sometimes escaping these situations. Recognizing the Signs Emotional Abuse and Isolation Psychological Abuse and Stalking Financial and Physical Abuse So, what are the warning signs to watch for? Abuse isn’t always physical. It often begins subtly, escalating over time, and can include emotional, verbal, psychological, financial, and sexual abuse. Here are some red flags to keep in mind: Isolation: If your partner tries to cut you off from friends, family, or activities you enjoy, this can be a major warning sign. Abusers often isolate their partners to gain control. Excessive Jealousy and Possessiveness: Jealousy may be normal in relationships to a degree, but extreme possessiveness and demands for constant updates on your location, who you’re with, and what you’re doing can indicate a deeper issue. Frequent Criticism and Verbal Abuse: Abuse can start with comments that undermine your confidence. Phrases like “You’re worthless” or “No one else will love you like I do” can chip away at self-worth over time. Controlling Behavior: Abusers often control finances, social activities, and personal decisions. They may check your phone, manage your money, or try to control every aspect of your life. Physical Abuse or Threats of Violence: This might seem obvious, but it can start small, like grabbing or pushing, before escalating. Even threats of violence, while not physical yet, are a form of abuse and should be taken seriously. Love-Bombing and Apologies: A common cycle is intense affection followed by an abusive episode and then a flood of apologies, gifts, and promises it won’t happen again. This can create confusion and make the victim feel responsible. Take Sarah, for instance. Sarah was 24 when she met someone she thought was the love of her life. But things changed. He started controlling her friendships, checking her phone, and later became verbally abusive. Eventually, this turned into physical violence. Sarah later shared that she often felt isolated, fearing she’d be judged or blamed. But one day, she found the courage to leave after connecting with a support group. Today, she speaks out to help others understand they’re not alone and that it’s possible to go. Surviving and escaping an abusive relationship is hard, but there are resources and people ready to help. Let’s talk about support systems. 1. Hotlines and Crisis Centers: There are national and local hotlines dedicated to helping people in abusive situations. The National Domestic Violence Hotline, for example, operates 24/7 and offers confidential support. Calling a hotline can connect you to local resources, emergency shelters, and counseling services. 2. Friends and Family Support: Opening up to trusted friends or family members can be difficult, but it’s often a critical step. They can provide support, a place to stay, or even accompany you to appointments if you need. 3. Counseling and Support Groups: Counseling—whether for the survivor or for friends and family—can be life-changing. Many counselors specialize in trauma and domestic abuse, and support groups can be a powerful reminder that no one has to go through this alone. 4. Legal Resources and Protection Orders: If physical abuse is involved, legal options such as protection orders can create a barrier of safety. Many organizations offer legal assistance to those who need it. Surviving abuse isn’t the end of the story—it’s a chance to rebuild, heal, and reclaim power. We want every listener to know that whether you’ve experienced abuse or know someone who has, hope and support are always available. Healing is a journey, and every survivor deserves a life of peace, dignity, and love. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please reach out. Remember, reaching out is not a sign of weakness, but of incredible strength. In our next episode, we’ll talk with a therapist who specializes in helping survivors rebuild their lives, so tune in next week for expert insights on healing and growth. 1. National Domestic Violence Hotline (United States) Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | TTY: 1-800-787-3224Text: Text "START" to 88788Website: thehotline.orgDescription: Offers 24...
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    12 mins
  • Episode 90-I dated a psychopath (Evie and Ramon)

    Episode 90-I dated a psychopath (Evie and Ramon)
    Aug 22 2024
    Abusive relationships are complex and devastating, affecting many aspects of the victim's life. Here are some key facts that provide insight into abusive relationships: 1. Definition of Abuse Abuse can be physical, emotional, psychological, financial, or sexual. It involves patterns of behavior meant to gain or maintain power and control over another person. 2. Signs of an Abusive Relationship Physical Abuse: Includes hitting, slapping, choking, or using weapons.Emotional Abuse: Involves manipulating, belittling, or threatening to undermine the victim's self-worth. Psychological Abuse: Includes tactics such as isolation, gaslighting, or constant surveillance to control the victim.Financial Abuse: Involves controlling or limiting access to money, preventing the victim from working, or sabotaging their financial independence.Sexual Abuse: Includes any non-consensual sexual activity or coercion. 3. Frequency and Prevalence Global Impact: Abusive relationships are a global issue, affecting millions of people across various cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds. Statistics: In the U.S., approximately 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner contact sexual violence, or intimate partner stalking with impacts such as injury or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). 4. Cycle of Abuse Tension-Building Phase: The abuser’s behavior becomes increasingly tense and unpredictable.Incident Phase: The abuse occurs, whether physical, emotional, or otherwise. Reconciliation Phase: The abuser may apologize, promise change, or act lovingly to make amends.Calm Phase: The relationship appears to return to normal, but tension gradually builds again, leading to a cycle. 5. Impact on Victims Mental Health: Victims often suffer from anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other mental health issues.Physical Health: Abuse can lead to physical injuries, chronic health problems, and sometimes, long-term disabilities.Economic Impact: Abusive relationships can severely impact financial stability due to limitations on employment, financial control by the abuser, and legal costs. 6. Barriers to Leaving Fear: Victims may fear retaliation from the abuser or worry about their safety or the safety of their children. Isolation: Abusers often isolate their victims from family and friends, making it harder for them to seek help.Economic Dependence: Financial control by the abuser can make it difficult for victims to become financially independent and leave.Love and Hope: Victims may still love the abuser or hope that they will change, which can delay leaving the relationship. 7. Support and Resources Hotlines: Many countries have hotlines for immediate support. For instance, in the U.S., the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides confidential support 24/7.Shelters and Services: Many organizations offer emergency shelters, counseling, legal assistance, and other resources for victims of abuse.Legal Protections: Many jurisdictions have protective orders and legal measures to help victims escape and protect themselves from abusers. 8. Prevention and Education Awareness: Educating people about the signs of abuse and healthy relationships can help in early intervention and prevention. Empowerment: Empowering individuals through education and resources helps to recognize abusive patterns and take action to protect themselves. 9. The Role of Society Supportive Communities: Building a supportive environment that does not tolerate abuse and encourages victims to seek help can make a significant difference. Legislation and Advocacy: Advocating for stronger laws and support systems for victims of abuse is crucial for addressing and preventing domestic violence. Understanding these facts helps to create a more informed perspective on abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of support, intervention, and education in combating and preventing abuse. Top of Form Bottom of Form Welcome back to [Murder, Blood, and Psychopaths]. I’m Your host [Eileen], and today’s episode will delve into a fascinating and alarming topic: dating a psychopath. Specifically, we will explore the story of Evie and Ramon, who met through mutual friends and are currently in what seems to be a blissful honeymoon phase. But underneath that charming exterior, Ramon has a dark side. Trigger Warning: This episode discusses psychological manipulation and toxic relationships. If these topics are too upsetting for you, please take care of yourself and feel free to skip this episode. Segment 1: The Honeymoon Phase Let’s start with Evie and Ramon’s story. They met through mutual friends, and their connection seemed instant and electric. During the honeymoon phase, everything feels perfect. Ramon appears charming, attentive, and seemingly ideal. This is often the phase where a psychopath’s manipulative traits are less apparent, overshadowed by their ability to charm and impress. Psychopaths are skilled ...
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    1 hr and 55 mins
  • Episode 89- I was dating a psychopath Christine and Kevin.

    Episode 89- I was dating a psychopath Christine and Kevin.
    Aug 21 2024
    Episode 89- I was dating a psychopath, Christine and Kevin. Welcome to Murder, Blood, and Psychopaths, the podcast that explores the complexities of relationships and mental health. I’m your host, Eileen, and today’s episode tackles a crucial and often misunderstood topic: what happens when a man enters a relationship with a woman who exhibits psychopathic traits? We'll dive into the signs and the emotional impact and provide vital advice for men who find themselves in abusive relationships. Let’s start by understanding what it means to be in a relationship with someone who has psychopathic tendencies. Psychopathy is characterized by a lack of empathy, manipulative behavior, and a tendency to exploit others. In relationships, this can manifest as charming yet deceitful behavior, emotional manipulation, and a complete disregard for the partner’s well-being. Imagine this: A man meets a woman who is initially captivating, full of charm, and seemingly perfect. Her charisma and allure draw him in, and he quickly becomes infatuated. But as the relationship progresses, he notices troubling signs. These can include: Over-the-top charm and flattery that feels overwhelming but appealing. Inconsistencies in her stories and a tendency to lie or manipulate facts.A lack of empathy for others, including him, where his feelings are often dismissed or belittled. Exploitative behavior, where she uses his vulnerabilities or resources for her gain. The man might initially be swept off his feet by the excitement and intensity of the relationship. However, over time, the emotional toll becomes evident. He may feel confused, devalued, and constantly on edge. The relationship can often become a cycle of idealization, devaluation, and discard. If you’re in a relationship like this, here are some critical signs to watch for and steps to take: Recognize the Patterns: Understanding the characteristics of psychopathy can help you identify troubling behaviors. If you notice persistent manipulation, deceit, or emotional abuse, it’s crucial to acknowledge these patterns.Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and stick to them. Psychopaths often test limits, so being firm and consistent is vital. Protect your emotional and physical space.Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or a mental health professional. Talking to someone who can offer perspective and support is essential. Don’t isolate yourself, as isolation can make it harder to see the situation clearly.Document Everything: Keep records of incidents and communications. This can help you identify patterns and provide evidence if needed. Prioritize Self-Care: Take care of your mental and physical well-being. Engage in activities that restore your self-esteem and sense of self-worth.Consider Professional Help: Therapy can be incredibly beneficial. A therapist can help you process your experiences and develop strategies for coping and eventually Leaving a relationship with a psychopath can be challenging, especially if there is emotional or financial dependency. It's essential to prepare for potential fallout and ensure your safety. This might involve seeking legal advice or creating a safety plan. Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where you are valued, respected, and treated with kindness. It’s never easy to face the truth about a partner, especially when it involves psychopathy and abuse. However, recognizing the problem and taking steps to protect yourself is a powerful act of self-care. That’s it for today’s episode of Abusive Relationships. We hope this discussion has provided insight and guidance for those who might find themselves in similar situations. Remember, reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Stay tuned for more episodes as we explore essential topics related to relationships and mental health. If you found today’s episode helpful, please leave us a review and subscribe for more valuable content. And as always, take care of yourselves and each other. This is Eileen, signing off. Thank You all again for your support. I appreciate you. The sources below were pivotal in helping me conduct the research for the episode. I want to thank you for supporting me and my guests. You are Loved. The information shared was between the sources below. You can further dive into this case by clicking on the links. I can be reached at mbpatpodcast.eandj@gmail.com or reach out to us at MBP (Murder, Blood and Psychopath) Podcast (@murderbloodandpsychopath) • Instagram photos and videos. Watch I Dated a Psycho - Free TV Shows | Tubi (tubitv.com) How Common Is Domestic Violence? Signs, Statistics, Support (healthline.com) Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org)
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    51 mins
  • Episode 88-Abusive relationship awareness dating.

    Episode 88-Abusive relationship awareness dating.
    Aug 20 2024

    Episode 88-Abusive relationship awareness dating.

    Welcome back to Murder, Blood, and Psychopaths, where we dive deep into stories that make you question everything you thought you knew. I’m your host, Eileen, and today, we have a tale that’s enchanting and chilling. It’s the story of Florid and JC—a seemingly perfect match that hides a dark and unsettling truth. The truth is no one gets into abusive relationships because they want to. Fear kept and kept a lot still in bondage. The road is a long one, but we must find courage. Florida was able to get out of the relationship before he escalated his rage to murder. Florida has trauma, but she will not fault any guy because of his mistakes. Florida experienced what a lot of us have in her relationship. Getting out is never easy. There must be steps to ensure the survivor's safety at all costs. “Data from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence suggests that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men have experienced some form of physical violence, sexual abuse, or stalking by an intimate partner”. How Common Is Domestic Violence? Signs, Statistics, Support (healthline.com). There is help via the domestic violence hotline. Please reach out for help. You are loved and supported.

    Thank You all again for your support. I appreciate you. The sources below were pivotal in helping me conduct the research for the episode. I want to thank you for supporting me and my guests. You are Loved. The information shared was between the sources below. You can further dive into this case by clicking on the links. I can be reached at mbpatpodcast.eandj@gmail.com or reach out to us at MBP (Murder, Blood and Psychopath) Podcast (@murderbloodandpsychopath) • Instagram photos and videos.

    Watch I Dated a Psycho - Free TV Shows | Tubi (tubitv.com)

    How Common Is Domestic Violence? Signs, Statistics, Support (healthline.com)

    Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org)
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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Episode 87- Killing Time with John Wayne Gacy: Defending America’s Most Evil Serial Killer on Death Row with Guest Karen Conti.

    Episode 87- Killing Time with John Wayne Gacy: Defending America’s Most Evil Serial Killer on Death Row with Guest Karen Conti.
    Jun 11 2024
    Episode 87- Killing Time with John Wayne Gacy: Defending America’s Most Evil Serial Killer on Death Row with Guest Karen Conti. Welcome to Episode 87 with Guest Karen Conti. In this episode, Karen unpacks her history with Serial killer John Wayne Gacy. Karen represented serial killer John Wayne Gacy in his final death row appeals back in 1993-4. Friday, May 17th marked the 30th anniversary of his execution, and my book, “Killing Time with John Wayne Gacy: Defending America’s Most Evil Serial Killer on Death Row,” was published by Black Lyon in March. Karen’s book is about conversations with Gacy over countless hours on death row and how she forged a strange relationship with him to do her job. She discusses his obsession with clowns, his dark sense of humor, and how he dehumanized the victims of his crimes. Karen talks about her strong belief that there are additional victims and that Gacy did not act alone. Karen is a seasoned speaker, having hosted radio shows for over 30 years in Chicago and being a legal analyst on all local and national news networks. John Wayne Gacy was born on March 17th, 1942, in Chicago. John Wayne Gacy was an American serial killer and sex offender. He raped, tortured, and murdered 33 young boys and young men. 26 victims were buried under the crawl space of his home. 3 were buried around his property, and 4 were discarded in the Des Plaines Rivers. John was captured after he was implicated in the disappearance of 15-year-old Robert Piest in Des Planes raised suspicion. Gacy was the last person to see Robert Alive. On March 1980 Gacy was convicted of killing 33 young men and boys. On May 10th Gacy was executed by lethal injection at the Stateville Correctional Center In Joliet. As of 2024 28 victims have been identified and 5 are still unknown. Meet Karen Conti Karen Conti has been a litigator and trial lawyer for 37 years, trying hundreds of cases and handling numerous high-profile and noteworthy cases across the country including a U.S. Supreme Court appeal in a ballot access case on behalf of the Democratic Party. She obtained a reversal by the Illinois Supreme Court in favor of women’s rights in the workplace and represented serial killer John Wayne Gacy in his final death row appeals. She also secured a large settlement in a wrongful arrest and injury suit against the Chicago Cubs and Los Angeles Dodgers stemming from the May 2000 Wrigley Field brawl and obtained a $1.2 million verdict as the lead trial attorney against one of the nation’s largest homebuilders. She is licensed in Illinois and California and is a certified mediator and collaborative lawyer. Conti has represented many indigent clients and non-profit organizations. She is currently the founder of Conti & Dolan, with offices in Chicago and Lincolnwood, Illinois. For the past 20 years, Conti has focused on family law and was appointed by the Illinois House Speaker to help rewrite the family law code in Illinois. She served as an adjunct Professor of Law at the University of Illinois for 15 years and DePaul University for seven years, as well as teaching and lecturing at Stanford University and American University. A ubiquitous media personality, Conti hosted a radio show for nearly 30 years on major Chicago stations and has been the designated legal analyst for WFLD TV in Chicago for over 25 years. She’s also appeared as a legal analyst on MSNBC, Fox News, News Nation and CNN and has been featured on Tru TV, Under Scrutiny, TODAY, American Justice, Good Morning America and more. She’s also been a contributor to The Chicago Sun-Times and a columnist for The Chicago Daily Law Bulletin. Conti has achieved numerous recognitions, including one of the “100 Women Making a Difference in Chicago” by Today’s Chicago Woman, Leading Lawyers-selected as one of the top lawyers in the nation and one of “40 Under 40 Illinois Lawyers to Watch” by Chicago Lawyer magazine. In addition to producing and writing radio and television show segments, Karen’s creative talents include writing humorous speeches and musical parodies for political figures and media personalities. She is an avid athlete, having run marathons, taking second place in a state bodybuilding competition and winning the “Most Fit Lawyer” competition in Chicago. Her contact information to Reach out: hello@karenconti.com. Visit our website at: www.contidolanlaw.com Click on the link below to meet Karen Conti https://vimeo.com/102785802 Listen to Her podcasts here: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Legal/Karen-Conti-p1291825/?topicId=290825050 Karen’s authored Killing Time with John Wayne Gacy: Defending America’s Most Evil Serial Killer on Death Row. I read the book and I recommend purchasing it. Thank You Karen for being an amazing guest. She is a trial blazer. I loved having her own to discuss our opinions about the death penalty. We believe the guilty party should serve their sentence behind bars without ...
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  • Episode 86-Bonus Interview episode with guest Aiden Gabor.

    Episode 86-Bonus Interview episode with guest Aiden Gabor.
    Jun 3 2024

    Welcome to Episode 86-Bonus Interview episode with guest Aiden Gabor.

    I had the pleasure of interviewing Aiden about his true crime that he authored called Conflicting Loyalties: My Life as a Mob Enforcer Turned DOJ Informant by Aiden Gabor.

    This book was inspired by true events from Aiden’s life. In this episode Aiden shares a few details about his association with the Mob. I purchased the book . The link for the book is below. About Aiden the author his Bio and information is belows. I was to giving a special and warm thank you to Aiden for coming on the podcast and sharing his story.

    Bio: Aiden Gabor was still a teenager when Department of Justice agents approached him with an ultimatum: spend his life in prison for racketeering, embezzlement, extortion, and conspiracy to commit murder, or become an undercover agent. Conflicting Loyalties is a sharp, honest memoir in three parts: the bloody life of a mob soldier from outside la famiglia; the death-defying, paranoid existence of an informant bringing down corrupt politicians and police departments from the inside; and unexpectedly finding peace late in life through the Baha’i faith while coping with an ALS diagnosis. Conflicting Loyalties is a visceral tale of a man who gambles with his own life to save it, dodging his fate while searching for an identity, a father, and a family. It is for readers of Gianni Russo’s Hollywood Godfather, Joe Pistone’s classic Donnie Brasco, and anyone interested in mob life, police and political corruption, and finding peace after a life of violence.

    Aiden Gabor is a former associate of a well-known crime family. He worked undercover for more than a decade as a confidential informant for the Department of Justice, serving as a police officer in undisclosed locations. He is responsible for helping the DOJ arrest and convict more than a dozen high-ranking police officers and politicians. He has written one of the best books about the mob and now has found peace in the Baha’i faith. In 2020, Aiden was diagnosed with ALS. He lives with his wife. Thank You all again for your support. I appreciate you. The sources below were pivotal in helping me conduct the research for the episode. I want to thank you for supporting me and my guests. You are Loved. You can further dive by clicking on the links. I can be reached at mbpatpodcast.eandj@gmail.com or reach out to us at MBP (Murder, Blood and Psychopath) Podcast (@murderbloodandpsychopath) • Instagram photos and videos.

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    36 mins
  • Episode-85 Part 4 The Finale-The people V Kraft (Randy Steven Kraft) Final Conviction.

    Episode-85 Part 4 The Finale-The people V Kraft (Randy Steven Kraft) Final Conviction.
    May 28 2024

    Episode-85 Part 4 The finale-People V Kraft (Randy Steven Kraft) Final Conviction.

    PEOPLE v. KRAFT (2000) | FindLaw” “An Orange County jury convicted defendant Randy Steven Kraft of the first-degree murders of Edward Daniel Moore (count 1), “John Doe Huntington Beach” (count 2), Ronald Gene Wiebe (count 3), Keith Daven Crotwell (count 4), Mark Howard Hall (count 5), Scott Michael Hughes (count 6), Roland Gerald Young (count 7), Richard Allen Keith (count 8), Keith Arthur Klingbeil (count 9), Michael Joseph Inderbieten (count 11), Donald Harold Crisel (count 12), Robert Wyatt Loggins, Jr. (count 13), Eric Herbert Church (count 14), Geoffrey Alan Nelson (count 16), Rodger James DeVaul, Jr. (count 18), and Terry Lee Gambrel (count 19).  (Pen.Code, § 187;  unless otherwise specified, all statutory references are to the Penal Code.) The jury further convicted the defendant of the sodomy of Inderbieten (count 10) (§ 286) and inflicting mayhem on Nelson (count 15) (§ 203).   The jury found true an allegation that defendant had personally inflicted great bodily injury in committing sodomy against Inderbieten (§ 12022.7) and the related special-circumstance allegation of murder in the commission of sodomy (§ 190.2, subd. (a)(17)(D)).   With respect to counts 6,  7, 8, 9, 11, 12, 13, 14, 16, 18, and 19, the jury also found true special circumstance allegations of multiple murder (§ 190.2, subd. (a)(3)).   The jury acquitted the defendant of the charge of sodomy against DeVaul (count 17) and the related special circumstance allegation. The jury subsequently fixed the penalty at death”. Randy Kraft is still sitting on death row.

    Thank You all again for your support. I appreciate you. The sources below were pivotal in helping me conduct the research for the episode. I want to thank you for supporting me and my guests. You are Loved. The information shared was between the sources below. You can further dive into this case by clicking on the links. I can be reached at mbpatpodcast.eandj@gmail.com or reach out to us at MBP (Murder, Blood and Psychopath) Podcast (@murderbloodandpsychopath) • Instagram photos and videos.

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    Recent Developments: The body of the teen now identified as Schlicht was found on Sept. 14, 1974, as two people were off-roading on a fire road northeast of Laguna Beach, California, the release said. The death of the 17-year-old was initially determined to be accidental due to alcohol and diazepam intoxication. prosecutors described Kraft, a former computer programmer, as a fetishist who kept some of the dismembered parts of his victims in his freezer. After his conviction, he told the judge, "I have not murdered anyone and I believe a reasonable review of the record will show that." John Doe's death got another look in November 2022, when sheriff's department investigators submitted tissue samples to a private forensic biotechnology company to develop a DNA profile. Investigators then loaded the profile into a genealogy database to begin building a family tree. That eventually led them to Kansas City, Missouri, to obtain a DNA sample from a woman believed to be the victim's mother.

    The sheriff's department is now investigating Schlicht's homicide case. Anyone with information related to the case is asked to contact Orange County Crime Stoppers at 1-855-TIP-OCCS or crimestoppers.org.

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