Episodes

  • Ep: 8 - Don’t Allow Economic Strain to Strain your Relationship

    Ep: 8 - Don’t Allow Economic Strain to Strain your Relationship
    May 5 2024

    In this episode we are discussing the challenges ​we are facing due to financial strains, including the impact of inflation. We explore the psychological effects of struggling to make ends meet and the importance of support within a relationship during difficult times. The conversation covers personal anecdotes, the stresses of dealing with increased living costs, strategies for economizing, and the value of gratitude and clarity in a partnership amidst economic difficulties. Additionally, We touch upon our Airbnb rental properties as a side project and supplemental income to survive through their financial hardships.

    00:00 Opening Conversation: Struggles with Vision and Finances

    00:15 The Frustration of Financial Constraints

    01:46 Exploring Solutions and Shared Struggles

    03:48 The Impact of COVID and Economic Changes

    07:54 Adjusting to Rising Costs and Budgeting Strategies

    10:14 Personal Reflections on Fast Food and Childhood

    13:59 Navigating Economic Strain in Relationships

    17:15 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Communication

    18:31 The Impact of Mental Exhaustion on Relationships

    19:10 The Importance of Support in Relationships

    20:17 Financial Struggles and Relationship Dynamics

    20:52 Sacrifices and Long-Term Goals in Partnerships

    21:45 Emotional Vulnerability and Gender Expectations

    28:51 Gratitude and Appreciation in Relationships

    32:34 Inviting Audience Engagement and Property Promotion
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    38 mins
  • EP: 7 - Intimacy, Finances, and Growth

    EP: 7 - Intimacy, Finances, and Growth
    Apr 5 2024

    In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, hosts Kiara and Chris delve into the complexities of relationships, covering topics such as the significance of intimacy, managing finances together, overcoming complacency, and the importance of growth and shared goals within a partnership. Through sharing personal stories and insights, they explore how these issues can strain relationships and discuss strategies for addressing them, emphasizing the importance of communication, effort, and when necessary, the courage to move on for personal happiness and fulfillment.


    00:00 Welcome to the Love Life Podcast!

    00:21 Easter Celebrations and Family Outings

    01:42 The Crawfish Boil: A Three-Day Process

    02:40 Reflecting on Effort and Anxiety in Event Planning

    04:43 Complacency

    11:24 Growth and Support in Relationships

    24:54 Financial Disagreements and Bill Management

    28:31 Financial Responsibilities in Relationships

    30:25 Constant Financial Arguments

    32:01 The Importance of Appearance in a Relationship

    36:00 Cleanliness and Organization at Home

    41:49 External Messes and the Importance of Cleanliness

    45:33 The Role of Intimacy in Relationship Longevity

    56:38 Concluding Thoughts on Relationship Dynamics
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    57 mins
  • EP: 6 - Money, Love, and More in Relationships"

    EP: 6 - Money, Love, and More in Relationships"
    Mar 8 2024
    In this episode of Love Life Podcast, Kiara and Chris engage in an insightful discussion on 4 key relationship topics: the necessity of expensive first dates, the link between household chores and sexual activity, the pros and cons of couples combining finances, and the appropriate contexts for correcting a partner. They delve into personal experiences and societal observations to shed light on these subjects, offering their perspectives on maintaining respect, financial responsibility, and intimacy in a romantic partnership. Additionally, the episode touches on sensitive topics like prenuptial agreements, arguing respectfully, and the importance of privacy in a couple's disputes. Join Kiara and Chris as they navigate these complex issues and share valuable advice for couples at any stage of their relationship. 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Questions 00:09 Do First Dates Have to be Expensive? 00:29 Sharing Personal First Date Experiences 02:26 The Importance of Simplicity in First Dates 02:55 The Test of Choosing the Date Venue 03:23 The Impact of Social Media on Dating 04:21 The McDonald's Date Test 06:20 The Role of Finances in First Dates 06:50 Transition to Next Relationship Question 14:56 Understanding Financial Responsibility in Relationships 15:43 Discussing Joint Accounts and Financial Habits 17:00 The Importance of Financial Independence 18:19 The Pros and Cons of Prenuptial Agreements 26:49 Navigating Disagreements and Arguments in Relationships 30:51 Maintaining Privacy and Respect in Public Disputes 31:33 Wrapping Up and Engaging with the Audience
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    33 mins
  • Ep: 5 - Realities of Relationship Failures in 2024

    Ep: 5 - Realities of Relationship Failures in 2024
    Feb 23 2024
    Why Relationships Fail: Discussing Common Pitfalls on the Love Life Podcast with Kiara and Chris In episode five of 'Love Life' podcast with Kiara and Chris, the duo discusses five reasons why relationships fail, particularly in 2024. They point out the draining influence of social media on relationships, the pivotal role of communication, the fatal thrust of infidelity, the strain of financial issues, and the gap that lack of emotional support brings. Sharing personal experiences and tips, they emphasize the need for active listening, necessary compromises, assertive expression of one's feelings and thought-out future plans to ensure a healthy relationship. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Welcome 00:07 Discussing the Five Reasons Why Relationships Fail 00:52 Deep Dive into Social Media Distractions 01:28 Personal Experiences and Observations on Social Media Distractions 04:06 The Impact of False Comparisons on Social Media 15:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships 25:52 Addressing Infidelity in Relationships 29:50 The Reformed Cheater: A Personal Journey 30:42 The Art of Faithfulness: A Personal Perspective 31:34 Understanding Infidelity: Causes and Consequences 35:05 The Role of Communication in Preventing Infidelity 36:12 Financial Infidelity: A Hidden Threat to Relationships 37:54 The Impact of Spending Habits on Relationships 39:53 Financial Priorities: A Key to Relationship Success 49:22 The Importance of Emotional Support in Relationships 53:07 Growing Apart: The Silent Killer of Relationships
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    54 mins
  • Ep: 4 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 16-20 Explored

    Ep: 4 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 16-20 Explored
    Feb 14 2024
    Love Life Podcast: Milestones, Health, and Embracing Change in a Relationship In the final part of their four-series discussion focused on key relationship milestones, Love Life Podcast hosts Kiara and Chris share their experiences to foster deeper understanding and perspective on the various stages of a relationship. They delve into topics like managing health challenges, maintaining a balanced diet, sustaining commitment and even tackling different methods in parenting. They also share the lessons learned in the course of their romantic journey and open up about the significance of embracing change together in order to grow together. In this episode they encourage proactive health management, respectful communication about parenting styles, the importance of preserving the 'spark' in a long-term relationship and creating space for dialogue about financial management. 00:00 Introduction to the Love Life Podcast 00:28 Discussing Health Challenges in Relationships 05:34 Importance of Regular Health Checkups 07:51 Supporting Each Other Through Health Challenges 08:10 Building a Strong Foundation in Relationships 08:54 Parenting Styles in Blended Families 14:08 Raising Boys: A Mother's Perspective 20:37 Renewing Commitment in Relationships 21:20 The Importance of Continual Dating in Relationships 22:03 Prioritizing Your Significant Other 23:16 The Struggles of Modern Relationships 23:52 The Role of Music in Relationships 24:35 Reflecting on the Relationship Journey 31:34 The Impact of Living Together 33:48 Embracing Change in Relationships 38:04 The Future of the Relationship 41:49 Conclusion and Looking Forward
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    42 mins
  • Ep: 3 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 11-15 Explored

    Ep: 3 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 11-15 Explored
    Feb 14 2024
    Navigating Relationship Milestones: Discussing Financial Goals, External Pressures & Maintaining Independence In part 3 of their relationship milestones series, the hosts explore financial goals, handling external pressures in relationships, and the importance of maintaining some level of independence. They delve into discussions about financial fiduciary responsibilities in managing shared expenses, debts and eliminating financial infidelity. The host emphasizes the importance of having financial independence and setting long-term shared goals. They also touch on dealing with external pressures like job demands and family obligations. Lastly, they share the significance of spending time apart and rekindling romance through new activities, date nights, and vacations. Listen in as they journey through their personal experiences and provide valuable insights. 00:00 Anxiety triggered by Debt 01:54 Intro 03:10 External Pressures 21:40 Traveling Together 24:29 Puerto Rico Trip 27:55 Denver, CO Trip 31:10 Categena, Colombia Trip 36:17 Cabo San Lucas, Mexico Trip 40:50 Tulum, Mexico Trip 44:16 Jamaica Trip 48:22 Financial Milestones 56:51 Taking Time Apart 01:00:43 Rekindling Romance 01:06:15 Outro
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Ep: 2 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 6-10 Explored

    Ep: 2 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 6-10 Explored
    Feb 14 2024
    Navigating Relationship Milestones: Our Experiences and Insights In this episode of the Love Life podcast, hosts Kiara and Chris delve deep into the subject of relationship milestones, exploring issues like sharing goals, navigating parenting, cooking together, building trust and their styles of communication. They share their insights on building a healthy and long-lasting relationship, and how adjusting to each other's lifestyles and communication styles shaped their bond. The conversation takes a candid turn as they open up about their journey of navigating through life together and the lessons they have taken from their experiences. 00:00 Marker 00:00 Introduction to the Love Life Podcast 00:20 Discussing Relationship Milestones 00:29 Shared Goals 00:56 The Struggles of Long-Distance Work 01:05 The Importance of Being Close to Family 01:54 The Journey of Renovating a Property 03:06 The Challenges and Rewards of Working Together 10:22 Moving in Together: The Early Days 15:19 Navigating Pet Peeves and Adjusting to Shared Living 15:31 The Importance of Cleanliness and Organization 22:07 The Transition to Early Bedtimes 23:47 Early Morning Routines 24:44 Night Out Experiences 25:01 Parenting Styles and Challenges 30:06 Cooking Together 37:28 Building Trust in Relationships 46:19 Communication Evolution 51:02 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview
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    52 mins
  • Ep: 1 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 1-5 Explored

    Ep: 1 - The Journey of Love: Relationship Milestones 1-5 Explored
    Feb 14 2024
    Love Life Podcast: Relationship Milestones Explored In this episode of Love Life Podcast,hosts Kiara and Chris take the listeners on a personal journey as they share their own relationship milestones - from their initial spark, defining the relationship, dealing with distance and meeting each other's families, to their first and last big fight. They also delve into how these experiences have played major roles in strengthening their bond. Their insightful stories shed light on how they navigated through life's challenges and grew together as a couple, emerging stronger and more unified. They also touch on topics like parenting, health, and generational wealth, providing a holistic view of love and life. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Theme 00:20 Starting the Conversation: Relationship Milestones 01:17 Milestone 1 - The Initial Meeting: A Walk Down Memory Lane 01:54 The Breakup and Reunion: A Tale of Love Lost and Found 09:26 Milestone 2 - Defining the Relationship: Expectations and Realities 17:07 The Turning Point: When They Knew They Found 'The One' 22:00 Navigating Relationship Challenges 23:24 Milestone 3 - First Challenges 25:55 Overcoming Trust Issues 32:05 Milestone 4 - Meeting Each Other's Children 36:25 Discussing Future Family Plans 42:39 Milestone 5 - First Big Fight
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    44 mins