Episode Summary:
Danny and Tyler are back for Year 3 of The Last Boy Scouts podcast! In this reflective and inspiring episode, the duo discusses their holiday experiences, personal growth, and the tradition of writing letters to their future selves. They share insights on balancing ambition with self-compassion, redefining goals, and embracing the lessons of failure. Tyler opens up about processing life's unexpected turns, including the first anniversary of his brother's passing, while Danny reflects on the importance of gratitude and defending what matters most.

The conversation touches on the value of friendships, navigating life's challenges, and setting realistic goals for the new year. With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, this episode sets the stage for 2025 with themes of resilience, ambition, and community.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Holiday Recap: Danny and Tyler share their Christmas and New Year’s highlights, from family puzzles to meaningful dinners.
• Letters to Self: The emotional and practical lessons from writing and reading letters to their future selves.
• Real Talk on Ambition: Tyler reflects on balancing ambition with patience and learning from setbacks.
• The 85-Year-Old Perspective: What really matters when you look back on life?
• Men Supporting Men: Why surrounding yourself with strong, supportive friends is essential.
• Wrestling and Standards: Danny discusses building a culture of excellence in the wrestling room and beyond.
• Podcast Goals for 2025: Expanding the reach, connecting with new guests, and building community.

In this heartfelt and reflective season finale of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler take a candid look back at the highs and lows of the past year. From personal growth and challenges to shared victories and unforgettable memories, they recap a year filled with lessons about resilience, manhood, and the power of community.

• Why flexibility in goal-setting matters and how to handle setbacks.
• The importance of facing rejection and teaching resilience to the next generation.
• Navigating tough seasons, like loss and change, while holding on to hope.
• A behind-the-scenes glimpse into their business ventures, personal milestones, and the challenges of balancing work, passion, and family.
• The value of meaningful friendships and how to build unshakable connections.

The hosts also share raw and honest reflections about grief, growth, and gratitude—reminding listeners that life’s storms don’t last forever and the sun always finds a way to shine through.

If you're looking for an uplifting, real, and thought-provoking conversation about what it means to live with purpose and persist through life’s challenges, this episode is for you.

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In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler explore what it means to "stand on business" and the importance of loyalty in various facets of life. From reflections on Thanksgiving and family reconciliation to intense rivalries on and off the mat, they explore the moments that challenge our values and require us to choose where we draw the line.

The duo shares personal stories from the jiu-jitsu world, dissecting a contentious one-star review that sparked a discussion about gym loyalty, respect, and the fine line between healthy competition and bad behavior. They also discuss the intersection of sports, aggression, and tribalism, referencing everything from Michigan vs. Ohio State to the infamous "Malice at the Palace."

On a more somber note, Danny and Tyler pay tribute to Kevin, a beloved member of the motorcycle community, and discuss the risks and camaraderie that come with riding.

Join us for an episode filled with humor, raw emotion, and thought-provoking discussions about standing up for what matters most and knowing when to walk away.

In This Episode:

• Reflecting on Thanksgiving and family dynamics
• Gym Loyalty and the Challenges of cross-gym Training
• Rivalries in sports: when competition becomes contentious
• The blurred lines between defending your honor and going too far
• A heartfelt tribute to Kevin and the motorcycle community
• ATC Jeremy’s Instagram for information on Kevin’s wake and family donation support.
• Follow us on Instagram: @LostBoyScouts.

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In this powerful episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Tyler and Danny dive deep into the complexities of aging as men and explore what it means to remain "dangerous" as we get older. Inspired by a poignant quote from Act of Valor, the hosts discuss the sacred nature of living by a code, the role of masculinity as it evolves, and the tension between relevance and wisdom. Along the way, they break down the recent Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight and whether it was staged, touching on age, athleticism, and legacy.

This episode blends humor, heartfelt reflection, and honest insights into the struggles and triumphs of getting older, staying relevant, and passing on wisdom to the next generation.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The Sacred Badge of Danger:

The Act of Valor quote and its resonance with modern manhood.
Why being “dangerous” is a sacred concept and how it evolves with age.
Breaking Down the Tyson vs. Jake Paul Fight:

Was the fight staged, and how did age play a role?
The intersection of spectacle, legacy, and athleticism.
What this fight says about manufactured vs. authentic danger.
The Evolution of Masculinity:

How men adapt to physical decline with age and transform danger into wisdom.
Living by a code and passing it on to younger generations.
The balance between resilience and acceptance in aging.
The Importance of Tribe and Mentorship:

Finding your tribe of like-minded men who inspire growth.
The role of mentors in shaping young men and fostering a sense of purpose.
Personal Stories and Reflection:

Danny’s insights from coaching wrestling and the lessons of resilience.
Tyler’s solo trip to Moab and Durango and how reconnecting with nature-inspired introspection.

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the concept of ownership, exploring how taking responsibility for our actions and choices—good and bad—can transform our lives. They discuss many men's struggles in seeking help, learning from mistakes, and building accountability in their relationships. Through candid stories, humor, and insights from their journeys, they shed light on the challenges of self-improvement, the courage needed to ask for support, and the essential role of accountability in building resilience. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation about stepping up, seizing the moment, and finding strength in living intentionally.

Topics Covered:

• [0:02] Welcome back to the studio (and ongoing technical challenges)
• [3:45] The bus setup: Bringing the podcast on the road
• [5:23] Why we struggle to accept constructive feedback as men
• [10:14] "The Need for Good Men": Finding support and role models
• [14:52] Taking ownership vs. blaming others for setbacks
• [19:08] The concept of homeostasis and managing highs and lows
• [23:47] Breaking down the peaks and valleys of men's mental health
• [29:32] “Soundboarding” as a powerful tool in friendships
• [35:55] The evolving studio setup and learning from mistakes
• [41:02] Taking feedback as guidance, not criticism
• [45:10] The role of jiu-jitsu in teaching humility and resilience
• [51:20] Jiu-jitsu classes as a lesson in asking questions and taking risks
• [56:18] Challenging the perception of "toxic masculinity"
• [1:01:10] The power of extreme ownership in shaping relationships
• [1:05:03] Breaking generational cycles by embracing accountability
• [1:10:49] Redefining masculinity in today's world
• [1:15:23] Facing hardships: Taking ownership instead of blaming others
• [1:20:11] “Stand on Business”: Embracing your role in conflicts and resolutions
• [1:25:05] How owning mistakes builds stronger bonds with family
• [1:30:34] Navigating disagreements and conflict with grace
• [1:35:18] The importance of kindness and grace in owning up to mistakes
• [1:40:00] Wrapping up: How small actions of ownership can transform your life
• [1:43:30] Final thoughts: Why “Owning the Moment” matters in a man’s journey

Ever struggled with tech? Yeah, same here! In this episode, Tyler and Danny come clean about last week’s audio mishaps (don’t worry, we think we’ve got it sorted). From the joys of learning podcasting on the go to deeper conversations about wrestling, jiu-jitsu, and navigating life’s unexpected lessons, the guys explore how to embrace imperfection and keep laughing through the challenges—on and off the mat.

Set against the crisp backdrop of Utah’s mountains, they discuss life’s rapid pace, wrestling with perfectionism, and the importance of staying grounded in the present. They also explore the role of mentorship and how it reflects life’s highs and lows, reminding us that real growth often comes from the hardest lessons.

Grab your winter coat (or, if you’re like Tyler, your flip-flops) and join the conversation as The Lost Boy Scouts continue their journey through the beautiful chaos of manhood, learning, and everything in between.

In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts, Tyler and Danny tackle the ups and downs of their weekend, starting with technical glitches during their mountain recording session and reflecting on the recent belt test. From discussing the importance of perseverance on the mat to digging deep into personal reflections on relationships, the guys share powerful insights about personal growth, conflict resolution, and the journey to becoming better men.

• Tech Troubles in the Mountains: The guys face equipment challenges but keep it real and raw, discussing how they overcome frustrations.
• Belt Test Recap: A proud moment for the community as they celebrate Preston and Dave earning their black belts. Tyler and Danny reflect on what it means to work hard and stay committed.
• Progress & Regression: Why it's crucial to recognize not only our progress but also our ability to bounce back from setbacks.
• The "Same Team" Mentality: How relationships, especially marriage, require constant teamwork and open communication.
• Healing Conflict: Conflict doesn’t mean disconnection; it's an opportunity to grow. The guys share personal stories on navigating tough moments in their marriages.
• Sponsorship Shoutouts: Announcements about collaborations with Mayhem on the Mat, Jitsi Rings, and Element.

Episode Summary:

In this candid and reflective episode, Tyler and Danny dive into the challenges of life both on and off the mat. Broadcasting from the mountains, the duo battles through technical issues while sharing stories from a recent jiu-jitsu belt test, where perseverance and teamwork took center stage. They delve into the complexities of relationships, discussing how they navigate conflicts with their spouses and the importance of being on the "same team." Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the value of learning from both progress and setbacks, whether it’s in jiu-jitsu or life. This episode is a powerful mix of humor, heart, and real talk about manhood, growth, and resilience.

In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler reflect on their journey through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and life's challenges. They discuss the physical toll of training, the anticipation of upcoming belt tests, and the sense of progression that comes from consistency. Shifting gears, the conversation dives deep into personal growth, vulnerability, and the complexities of male relationships. The hosts talk about how men handle conflict, addiction, and the struggle to find a balance between being a "monster" in the right situations and learning when to pull back. They explore trust, personal responsibility, and setting boundaries through raw and honest dialogue. This episode is a candid look at men's mental and emotional battles as they strive to become better versions of themselves.

Show Notes:

• 00:00 – Intro and casual chat about reaching Episode 38
• 02:00 – Cold weather and cowboy hats: life in Utah
• 04:30 – Recap of a grueling Wednesday Jiu-Jitsu session and the challenge of facing tough rounds
• 09:45 – Tyler's experience with Nick Howlett and the "tree trunk" guillotine attempt
• Noon – Physical training: balancing weights and BJJ and the soreness that comes with it
• 16:15 – Belt test preparation and the buzz at the academy
• 19:00 – The importance of consistency in training and life
• 22:00 – Personal progress vs. stagnation: dealing with self-doubt and mental hurdles
• 26:00 – Cutting toxic relationships and emotional baggage
• 31:45 – The internal struggle: examining the root of emotional addiction
• 39:15 – The challenges of male communication and relationships
• 44:00 – Rumination, scorekeeping, and the toll it takes on mental health
• 53:30 – Navigating family dynamics and maintaining healthy boundaries
• 01:06:00 – Addiction and regression: the slippery slope of falling back into old habits
• 01:18:00 – Porn addiction and the emotional residue it leaves behind
• 01:32:00 – Jiu-Jitsu community highs and lows, staying grounded amid growth
• 01:40:00 – Embracing slow progress and finding pride in who you've become