Scandals. Lies. Leadership Failures. When these things play out before you they can lead you into a place of questioning and deconstruction. Some people call this discernment but there are times that we cannot see the dysfunction until we are out of the system or we have a catalyst event.

Religion Business and Church Disrupted are two voices who are calling out the church not because they hate it but because they want to see it function in a healthier way.

Have you been impacted by church or ministry scandal? Or was it another life event that caused you to question?

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*Content Warning* We begin to discuss Toxic Teachings on sex at the 38min mark

Cognitive Dissonance and cult like mentality often leads to deconstruction. Deconstruction can happen when someone begins to question the belief structure of the institution they are apart of.

When leaders like, Mark Driscoll, make statements of "get on the bus or get run over by the bus" that is a massive problem. Rise and Fall of Mars Hillhttps://www.christianitytoday.com/podcasts/the-rise-and-fall-of-mars-hill/ Behind the Bus Podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/bbtbpod/https://www.youtube.com/@thebodiesbehindthebushttps://open.spotify.com/show/10b0rbS8MNB7UjNIlWUAmf?si=97612fcbea024871

When healing teachings go awry and lead people astray. Money money money! - This can go two very different ways, you can have a church that teaches you that money is evil OR that you will get all of the things.

https://www.youtube.com/@thereligionbusinesshttps://youtu.be/0NUzf4lY7Ns?si=TCUac1W5IQPVAqCd

We briefly discuss our time in Egypt and how churches view money in a completely different way.

Teachings on s*x. In this we discuss a myriad of dysfunctional teachings that we either directly experienced or we know to be prevalent in the church.

Our go to resources for all things sex and marriage:

https://baremarriage.com

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Welcome to Coffee Chats, grab a cup and join us as we talk about Ian's experience with a cult when he was a young kid. If you are not watching this one might I suggest that you do as our facial expressions and physical banter make the episode.

Want to put a little apology in here for any offensive comments unintentionally made.

Scott Patterson, it would literally be a dream to have a conversation with you….I think I may have to invest in some Luke’s mugs and coffee blends for our future chats on the channel!

What kind of randomness would you like to hear from us in the future?!

In this episode we are talking about our messy middle. This one was hard for us, maybe me (Lauren) the most. We touched on a lot of vulnerable parts of our journey through deconstruction. We discuss the different practices we explored as we questioned our faith; things like communing with nature, exploring "new age" practices and ascribing different names to God. Teasing apart things such as sin, relating to God and the deep wrestling if we truly believe the Bible where it says, "he who seeks shall find" (Matthew 7:8)

We would love to hear your thoughts.Is there any part of our journey that you are vehemently against?

Have you ever thought about the things we bring up?

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In this conversation we delve into the concept of deconstruction in faith, exploring its definition, emotional impact, and the journey individuals undergo when questioning their beliefs. Emphasizing the importance of understanding the catalyst for deconstruction, the process involved, and the historical context of questioning faith. We advocate for empathy within the church and encourage individuals to navigate their deconstruction journey with openness and support.

Some Key Takeaways:

• Deconstruction is a process of re-examining one's beliefs.
• It can lead to a range of emotions including anxiety and confusion.
• The catalyst for deconstruction often stems from church hurt or trauma.
• Deconstruction is often misunderstood as purely destructive.
• Doubt is a natural part of faith and should be embraced.
• The church should provide a space for questioning and empathy.
• Historical figures in faith have also undergone deconstruction.
• There is a time for both tearing down and rebuilding in faith.
• Navigating deconstruction requires support and understanding from the community.
• The journey of deconstruction can ultimately lead to a stronger faith.

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**Trigger Warning, Childhood $*xual Abuse is mentioned in this episode** Please take care when listening and if you need a place to talk feel free to reach out at livingmosaicpod@gmail.com

In this episode we explore the complex journey of faith deconstruction, focusing on our personal stories of trauma, doubt, and the search for understanding within the context of church experiences. We share our individual paths, highlighting the impact of painful events on their beliefs and the importance of community support during this process. We emphasize that questioning faith is a natural part of the journey and advocate for open discussions about these experiences.

Some Key Takeaways

• Deconstruction is often a painful and complex journey.
• Personal trauma can significantly impact one's faith.
• Community support is crucial during deconstruction.
• Questioning beliefs is a natural part of faith.

• Healing from church-related trauma takes time.
• It's important to seek understanding and clarity in faith.
• Doubt does not equate to a lack of faith.
• Everyone's journey through deconstruction is unique.
• Open discussions about faith can foster unity rather than division.

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The Living Mosaic podcast, hosted by Ian and Lauren Miller, explores the complexities of life, faith, and healing through personal stories and open dialogue. The podcast aims to create a space for discussion about the messiness of life, the impact of faith, and the importance of community in the healing process. With a focus on inviting listeners into conversations rather than preaching, the Millers share their experiences and encourage others to engage in meaningful dialogue.

✨Life can be messy and broken, but beauty can emerge.

✨The podcast is born from personal pain and healing journeys.

✨Faith plays a significant role in their lives and discussions.

✨They aim to facilitate open conversations about difficult topics.

✨The Millers are not theologians but share personal experiences.

✨They encourage listeners to think critically and engage.

✨The podcast will include stories from guests and experts.

✨Empathy and communication are vital for human connection.

✨The vision is to create a community around shared experiences.

✨They invite listeners to participate in the dialogue.

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