If We Only Knew Then

By: Nora McMahon and Paul Overton
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  • Join us on a path towards self actualization with "If We Only Knew Then," a podcast that dives deep into the realms of mental health, personal development, spirituality, living with intention, and the hard earned wisdom that midlife offers. Hosted by Nora McMahon and Paul Overton, each episode is an exploration of the human experience, offering insights, tools, and stories that empower and inspire. Through conversations that address the complexities of modern living while honoring timeless wisdom and spiritual truths, Nora and Paul offer practical strategies for enhancing your mental well being, navigating life’s challenges with resilience and unlocking your true potential. Whether you're seeking guidance on mindfulness practices, strategies for emotional wellness, or simply a dose of inspiration to live a more fulfilling life, "If We Only Knew Then" is your go-to source. Tune in to gain valuable perspectives, cultivate inner peace, and embark on a voyage of growth and self-discovery. Don't miss out on the opportunity to expand your mind and join a community dedicated to self growth. Subscribe now to "If We Only Knew Then" and walk with us towards a more conscious, empowered, and fulfilling life experience.
    2024
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Episodes
  • Finding and Creating Opportunities in Difficult Times

    Finding and Creating Opportunities in Difficult Times
    Dec 16 2024
    In this conversation, Paul and Nora discuss the challenges of navigating uncertainty in life, particularly in the context of personal struggles and creative solutions. They explore the importance of creating intentional spaces that reflect one's internal state and how these environments can impact mental wellbeing. The discussion also touches on the significance of mindset and community in finding opportunities during adverse times, emphasizing the need for connection and support. In this conversation, Nora and Paul explore the importance of creating a nurturing space, taking small actions during uncertain times, and the power of presence and mindfulness. They discuss the significance of community and connection, the distinction between self-care and self-soothing, and the impact of language on mental health. The dialogue emphasizes the need for incremental change and the importance of celebrating small victories in personal growth. In this conversation, Nora and Paul explore the importance of self-care, community engagement, and finding joy amidst uncertainty. They discuss the significance of serving others while recognizing personal limits, the necessity of rest, and the impact of small actions. The dialogue emphasizes the need for kindness, setting boundaries, and the transformative power of beauty and joy in daily life. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace life fully and cultivate inner joy, regardless of external circumstances. takeaways Everything feels chaotic, but creativity can be a refuge. Working on personal projects can help maintain mental health. Intentional living spaces can reflect and improve our internal state. It's important to ask how we want to feel in our spaces. Decluttering can lead to a clearer mind and better focus. Community support is crucial during uncertain times. Finding opportunities in adversity requires a shift in mindset. Grieving is a necessary part of processing challenges. Creating a protective space can help manage external chaos. Connection with friends and family can provide strength. Space is essential for mental well-being. Taking small actions can help overcome paralysis. Mindfulness practices can ground us in the present. Anxiety and anger can distort our identity. Building community is crucial during uncertain times. Self-care involves nurturing actions, not just indulgence. Self-soothing helps regulate our nervous system. Words and self-talk shape our reality. Celebrate small victories to boost morale. Incremental change is key to personal growth. Self-care is essential for showing up for others. Serving others can shift focus away from personal struggles. Burnout is real; recognizing it is the first step to recovery. Rest is not a luxury; it's a necessity for well-being. Engaging with beauty and nature can provide solace in tough times. Small actions can create significant impacts in the community. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental health. Kindness towards oneself and others fosters a supportive environment. Life is fleeting; prioritize joy and meaningful connections. Inner joy should not be dictated by external circumstances. titles Navigating Uncertainty: Finding Joy in Chaos Creating Spaces of Solace in Turbulent Times The Art of Intentional Living: Design and Mindset Thriving Amidst Adversity: A Conversation on Community Finding Opportunity in Uncertain Times: A Guide The Power of Environment: How Spaces Affect Us Sound Bites "I charge you $40. Consultation." "Space is number one." "Just take any small action." "Get rid of some of the clutter." "Don't identify with your anxiety." "Words matter, yeah." "Don't be a dick to future Nora." "How can I be of service?" "We all need rest." "Engage with nature and art." "Be kind to yourself and others." "Life's not guaranteed tomorrow." "Come to it as a full thing." Chapters 00:00 Navigating Uncertainty: Personal Struggles and Creative Solutions 08:59 Creating Intentional Spaces: The Power of Environment 18:01 Finding Opportunity in Adversity: Mindset and Community 19:00 Creating a Nurturing Space 20:57 Taking Action in Uncertain Times 23:53 The Power of Presence and Mindfulness 26:01 Navigating Anxiety and Identity 30:58 Building Community and Connection 34:57 Self-Care vs. Self-Soothing 40:54 Self-Care and Future Self 42:46 Serving Others and Community Engagement 44:57 Recognizing Burnout and the Need for Rest 49:35 Finding Beauty and Joy in Uncertain Times 54:55 The Impact of Small Actions 01:01:36 Setting Boundaries and Kindness 01:05:47 Embracing Life and Inner Joy Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot
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    57 mins
  • Bonus Episode: Coping with Election Anxiety and How to Stay in Your Power

    Bonus Episode: Coping with Election Anxiety and How to Stay in Your Power
    Jul 19 2024

    Summary: In this bonus episode, Nora and Paul discuss the anxiety surrounding the future, both on a personal and global level. They emphasize the importance of choosing love over fear and the need to focus on inner peace and self-awareness. They also discuss the need for kindness, integrity, and dignity in a world that is divided. They encourage listeners to take action in small ways and to reject violence and othering. They also discuss the role of systems and the need for radical acceptance and radical kindness. They advise listeners to stop consuming excessive news and to refuse to give away their power to external forces. The conversation explores the importance of being kind to people while being ruthless to systems. It emphasizes the need to see beyond political differences and recognize the multifaceted nature of individuals. The discussion also touches on the power of universal truth and the importance of legislating from a place of compassion and understanding. The hosts encourage listeners to focus on connection, community, and intergenerational wisdom. They discuss the value of meditation, radical kindness, and radical joy in navigating anxiety and fear. The conversation concludes with a reminder to laugh and find humor in the absurdity of life.

    Keywords: anxiety, future, love, fear, inner peace, self-awareness, kindness, integrity, dignity, division, violence, systems, radical acceptance, radical kindness, news consumption, power, kindness, systems, people, political differences, universal truth, legislating, compassion, connection, community, intergenerational wisdom, meditation, radical kindness, radical joy, anxiety, fear, laughter

    Takeaways

    • Choose love over fear and focus on inner peace and self-awareness.

    • Practice kindness, integrity, and dignity in a divided world.

    • Take small actions and reject violence and othering.

    • Seek radical acceptance and radical kindness.

    • Limit news consumption and refuse to give away your power. Be ruthless to systems and kind to people

    • Recognize the multifaceted nature of individuals beyond their political beliefs

    • Legislate from a place of universal truth and compassion

    • Focus on connection, community, and intergenerational wisdom

    • Practice meditation, radical kindness, and radical joy to navigate anxiety and fear

    • Find humor and laughter in the absurdity of life

    Titles

    • Radical Acceptance and Radical Kindness

    • Taking Small Actions for Positive Change Seeing Beyond Political Differences

    • The Power of Kindness and Ruthlessness



    Sound Bites

    • "I have to come from kindness and love and connection and not let the anxiety drive this car off the cliff of the abyss because I can't be in my power otherwise."

    • "There's only two choices. You can choose fear or you can choose love."

    • "We just want peace and sanity and for the entire world to get their shit together and understand that when you divide, you cause violence."

    • "Be ruthless to systems, be kind to people"

    • "Find out who they are beyond how they vote"

    • "Almost everybody you run across has these facets of themselves"

    Chapters

    00:00

    Introduction and Context

    02:38

    Building Inner Peace and Self-Awareness

    05:29

    Radical Acceptance and Radical Kindness

    07:19

    Participating in Democracy

    09:07

    Zooming Out and Embracing Reality

    11:48

    Spiritual Crisis and Embodying Values

    13:52

    Being Part of the Solution

    18:11

    Working Within and Changing Systems

    22:18

    Recognizing the Violence in Politics

    24:30

    Stop Arguing with Reality

    28:13

    Recognizing the Multifaceted Nature of Individuals

    30:40

    The Importance of Connection and Intergenerational Wisdom

    35:17

    Finding Humor in the Absurdity of Life



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    53 mins

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