What is the Anti-Social Social Club?
You ever heard about this term?...... it is that paradoxical vibe where everyone’s talking about how they’re disconnected from the world, yet they're online, posting selfies and thoughts 24/7, doom scrolling just like me on Instagram, it is okay to doom scroll & cut off from the world sometimes but don’t make it habit, block & cut out the social media world sometimes for your mental peace. It is like wearing a mask of “I’m too cool to care,” but secretly being obsessed with how many people are paying attention when you post a reel on Instagram or a picture, I am guilty of this sometimes. Generally after I post, I immediately log off Instagram so I do not get obsessed with the like count & the view count. So, the social media's twisted cousin? Who is that? acting like you are too good for social norms, but always thirsty for validation. I mean who does not like validation & being praised? we all do, balance is key.

The Digital Paradox

We live in an age of hyper-connectivity. Apps like WhatsApp, Zoom, Instagram, Tiktok, and even good old Facebook promise to bring us closer together. And yet, how many of us feel lonelier than ever? I do, I do feel lovely sometimes,

So studies show that excessive use of social media is linked to feelings of isolation and anxiety. Why? Because digital connections, while convenient, often lack the depth and nuance of real human interaction.

Are We Becoming Islands?

There is a famous saying, “No man is an island,” but in today’s world, we are all building our own private islands with Wi-Fi, OTT streaming platforms, Youtube and our curated playlists. And let is be real, islands might look pretty on postcards, but they are lonely places to live.

Why It Matters

This is not just about missing out on brunch dates or weekend plans. It is about our mental health, our ability to collaborate, and even the survival of communities. When we stop interacting in meaningful real ways, we lose the skills to navigate real-world relationships. Ever wonder why ghosting has become so common? It is easier to swipe left than to deal with the complexities of human connection. It is easy to say “thank you next” than you take out the time & maturity to sit & listen to the needs & wants of the other person.

The Fix: Intentional Socializing

So, how do we step out of this Anti-Social Social Club and start building bridges instead of walls? And not burning bridges.

At the end of the day, being part of the Anti-Social Social Club might feel safe especially for your heart right ? , but it is a hollow kind of safety. Life is messy, noisy, and sometimes uncomfortable, but it is also vibrant, colourful, and deeply rewarding when shared with others. So, what is it going to be? Do we keep retreating into our private bubbles.

Thanks for tuning in to my podcast people together people. If this stirred something in you, don’t forget to share it with your friends & family and let’s get the conversation rolling. Until next time, stay thoughtful and stay connected, stay moisturised, stay hydrated, drink water & stay blessed. Love you all.