• Indecent Proposals
    Dec 13 2024

    In this episode of the Hold My Hoops podcast, hosts Lucy and Aly delve into the complexities of relationships, focusing on the importance of transparency, the consequences of inviting third parties into marriages. They share personal stories and insights, emphasizing the need for open communication and the dangers of ignoring red flags.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Recap of Previous Conversations

    02:58 The Impact of Transparency in Relationships

    05:53 Exploring the Consequences of Inviting Third Parties

    08:55 The Role of Social Media in Modern Relationships

    12:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations in Relationships

    15:09 Navigating Difficult Conversations

    16:46 Understanding Receptiveness in Communication

    18:43 Expectations vs. Reality in Relationships

    20:50 The Importance of Clear Communication

    23:00 Learning to Express Desires

    24:55 The Art of Delivering Messages

    26:15 Finding Common Ground in Conversations

    28:30 Insights from 'The Later Daters' Show

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    30 mins
  • Modern Dating "Don'ts"
    Dec 6 2024

    In this episode of the Hold My Hoops podcast, hosts Lucy and Aly have an honest conversation that highlights the importance of transparency and honest communication in relationships. They also explore common patterns in modern dating, the necessity of setting boundaries, and the role of security in fostering healthy connections.


    Chapters

    00:00 Lost Connections: A Weekend of Worry

    03:00 The Miscommunication Mystery

    05:59 Holiday Preparations and Family Dynamics

    08:54 Reality TV Reflections: Love and Relationships

    12:05 The Importance of Transparency in Relationships

    14:56 Counseling Insights: Building Stronger Marriages

    15:55 The Importance of Transparency in Relationships

    17:49 Patterns in Modern Dating

    19:45 Understanding Relationship Dynamics

    21:44 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

    23:35 The Role of Trust and Security

    25:57 Navigating Friendships Between Genders

    28:47 Protecting Your Relationship

    29:10 Wrapping Up and Future Conversations

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    30 mins
  • Black Friday Daze!
    Nov 29 2024

    In this episode of Hold My Hoops Podcast, the hosts Aly & Lucy, discuss various themes surrounding holiday preparations, the shift from material gifts to experiences, the importance of family dynamics and love languages, and the value of time spent together. They reflect on personal experiences with loss and the lessons learned about appreciating life and being intentional with loved ones, especially during the holiday season.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Context Setting

    00:51 Exploring Online Casket Purchases

    02:53 The Concept of Eco-Friendly Caskets

    04:45 Reflections on Family and Loss

    06:44 Black Friday Shopping Experiences

    10:18 Nostalgic Black Friday Memories

    12:10 Couponing and Grocery Shopping Insights

    14:09 Couponing and Holiday Preparations

    15:28 The Shift from Gifts to Experiences

    18:29 Navigating Family Dynamics and Love Languages

    22:06 The Value of Time and Life Lessons

    24:25 Reflections on Loss and Appreciation

    27:56 Intentional Living and Holiday Connections

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    29 mins
  • Hair Dyes & Family Ties
    Nov 22 2024

    In this lively podcast episode, hosts Lucy and Aly share humorous anecdotes about their weekends, focusing on hair care mishaps and family dynamics. They reflect on aging and how perceptions of age change over time, especially in relation to their children. The conversation transitions into Thanksgiving traditions, exploring cultural expectations and the evolution of holiday meals, ultimately advocating for enjoying food that everyone loves rather than adhering to obligatory dishes. The conversation also touches on the significance of being intentional with family time, especially in light of unexpected losses. Humor is interwoven throughout, particularly in discussions about life and death, showcasing the lighter side of serious topics.


    Chapters

    00:00 Weekend Recap and Hair Adventures

    02:54 Family Dynamics and Hair Care

    06:01 Reflections on Aging and Perceptions

    09:00 Thanksgiving Traditions and Cultural Insights

    12:18 Redefining Thanksgiving Traditions

    15:03 Flexible Thanksgiving Celebrations

    17:30 Shifting Family Dynamics and Meal Times

    20:15 The Importance of Family Connections

    22:25 Being Intentional with Time

    24:40 Humor in Life and Death Discussions

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    26 mins
  • Deadlocked Friendships?
    Nov 15 2024

    In this episode of 'Hold My Hoops Podcast, Aly and Lucy explore the complexities of women's relationships, the impact of political decisions on personal lives, and the importance of maintaining friendships despite differing opinions. They also emphasize the importance of understanding and communication in friendships, especially when opinions differ, and highlight the need for respectful discourse among women.


    Chapters

    00:00 Welcome Back and Fun Facts

    03:13 Holiday Traditions and Family Dynamics

    04:37 Deadlocked Friends: Navigating Divisiveness

    06:28 The Importance of Understanding in Friendships

    10:46 Communication Styles and Respectful Discourse

    11:44 The Divide Among Women: Relationships and Ideologies

    12:39 Impact of Politics on Personal Decisions

    14:30 Shaving Heads: A Symbol of Rebellion

    15:53 Navigating Friendships Amidst Differences

    17:51 The Importance of Honest Conversations

    20:58 Delivering Difficult Messages with Care

    22:55 Embracing Differences in Friendships

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    24 mins
  • Ladies, We've Got To Do Better!
    Nov 4 2024

    In the inaugural episode of 'Hold My Hoops', Aly and Lucy explore the dynamics of friendship, the necessity of honest conversations, and the challenges of modern dating. They emphasize the importance of having someone who can provide truthful feedback while maintaining love and respect. The conversation shifts to the current state of dating, where women often feel objectified and struggle to maintain their self-worth.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Hold My Hoops

    02:52 The Importance of Honest Conversations

    06:11 Navigating Modern Dating

    09:00 Class and Respect in Relationships

    12:00 Expectations in Dating Dynamics

    14:48 The Importance of Chivalry

    18:00 Parenting and Raising Respectful Young Men

    22:00 Setting Standards in Dating

    23:57 Empowering Women in Relationships

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    24 mins