Co-parenting isn’t easy. Whether you’re navigating divorce, post-divorce custody issues, or figuring things out as unmarried parents, co-parenting can be one of the biggest sources of legal battles. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I break down the realities of co-parenting, why it’s so challenging, and how to keep the peace while prioritizing your child’s well-being.

• Why co-parenting is the biggest challenge in family law: The #1 reason parents end up back in court—and how to avoid it.
• How to let go of control over the other parent’s decisions: Learning to accept that what happens on their time is not your business.
• Why your relationship with your child matters more than anything else: Focusing on building a strong bond, rather than reacting to the other parent.
• The power of boundaries in high-conflict situations: Setting limits on communication to keep emotions in check and reduce unnecessary drama.
• How to simplify co-parenting and keep the focus on your kids: Practical strategies to reduce stress, avoid legal disputes, and make life easier.

Co-parenting isn’t about winning—it’s about raising happy, healthy, well-adjusted kids. If you need more guidance, grab a copy of my book Getting Divorced: Now What? and start taking control of your co-parenting journey today!

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When is the right time to get divorced? That’s one of the most common questions I get asked—and as an attorney, not a therapist, my answer is always based on the legal and financial realities of leaving a marriage. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I break down what you need to consider before filing, especially if domestic violence is part of the equation.

From understanding the legal protections available to debunking common myths about custody, support, and asset division, I’m sharing insights that can help you make informed decisions about your future. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode will give you the clarity you need to move forward with confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why the right time to divorce is different for everyone: If you’re emotionally checked out and unable to participate in the marriage, that’s a strong sign it’s time to move on.
• The legal protections available for domestic violence survivors: Restraining orders can impact custody, spousal support, and even housing rights during divorce.
• Why financial abuse is a form of domestic violence: Controlling money, restricting access to funds, and financial threats can all qualify as coercive control in the eyes of the law.
• How courts handle custody in cases of domestic violence: There’s a legal presumption that an abuser should not have custody, but overcoming that presumption is possible in some cases.
• The importance of documenting abuse for court proceedings: Without evidence like police reports, photos, or messages, proving abuse can be difficult, even if it was ongoing.

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

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Money and divorce are two words that don’t usually go hand in hand—but they should. In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I dive into the financial realities of divorce and how to set yourself up for long-term success. Drawing from my decade of experience in family law, I break down practical tips for becoming financially independent and confident, no matter your starting point.

I also share real-life stories from clients like Lisa, who went from uncertainty to owning her own home, and Joe, who turned financial strain into stability through creative budgeting. Divorce may impact your finances in the short term, but with the right mindset and strategies, you can turn it into an opportunity for growth.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why financial independence is crucial post-divorce: Creating your own income stream brings stability and confidence.
• How to separate wants from needs during divorce: Budgeting realistically helps reduce stress and sets you up for success.
• The importance of understanding court assumptions about income: Courts may impute minimum wage income, so working toward earning that or more is vital.
• Why cutting expenses can empower your settlement decisions: Adjusting your financial habits gives you control over negotiations.
• How side hustles can support your financial journey: Small, consistent earnings can add up to a significant safety net.

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00:00 Introduction to Gavels Down, Voices Up

00:37 Financial Confidence and Divorce

00:59 Navigating Divorce with My Book

01:36 The Impact of Money on Marriage and Divorce

02:15 The Reality of Post-Divorce Finances

03:18 The Importance of Financial Independence

05:27 Strategies for Financial Stability

07:46 Case Study: Lisa's Journey

13:41 Case Study: Joe's Story

15:49 Practical Financial Tips During Divorce

21:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Rachel's upcoming book, "Getting Divorced: Now What?", is available soon. Visit https://rachelkingattorney.com/ for more information and to pre-order your copy.

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