From Surviving To Thriving

By: Ray Bourcier
  • Summary

  • From Surviving To Thriving. I support parents becoming the parents that their kids need them to be and becoming the parents they may have always needed but never had so that you can give your best to yourself, your loved ones, and your dreams. We're not a podcast about information. We're a podcast about transformation. We're about taking unwavering action with the support you need to break the cycles and overcome the struggles that define you. Episodes are released every Monday consist of what helped me and many others overcome their struggles. We cover discussions, tools, skills, stories, and interviews with exceptional people who have overcome their struggles on their journey. I'm Ray Bourcier, and after nearly three decades of my struggles with no support, that began at age five. I've overcome a life stuck in survival mode, and I'm here to serve you the support that you may have never had but have always needed so you too will move beyond survival mode and start thriving. Join our tribe http://empowerup.info/fstt Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myempowerup Twitter: @EmpowerUp
    Copyright 2023 Ray Bourcier
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Episodes
  • Supporting drop out students going back with Lynn Teatro [39]
    Aug 8 2022

    Student drop out rates are only getting worse, and it's a challenge for students to go back after they've already made the decision. But if your student is considering going back to finish high school, college, or university, there are things that can help you, help them. Lynn Teatro helps parents to help their students succeed in their choices to go back and complete their education. As a fellow college drop out, I wish I had the support that Lynn provides. Everyone's journey is unique, but the synchronicities of this episode will help you see that everything comes to the right people, at the right place, and the right time! There's no better time to support your student then right now.

    In this episode, we cover:

    • Don’t overthink opportunity when it presents itself
    • The staggering numbers of post secondary drop out
    • Why giving your kids a voice and helping your kids to self-advocate matters
    • The importance of meal time and daily celebrations
    • Getting kids involved in groceries and meal prep at a younger age


    About Lynn Teatro:

    How long does it take for a 30 year old single parent with social anxiety, depression, and two kids to complete a 3 year Bachelor of Science Program in Psychology? 2 years. Actually, 23 months. With a B+ average. That’s a 3.3 GPA in Amerispeak.

    Few people would call me brilliant. And I am not particularly organized. However, I did have a few things in place and some experiences that, without me knowing, helped me commit to that path and succeed.

    Since graduation, I have done a lot of research on tertiary school education (i.e. university, college, trade school) and found learning tools and experiences that would have helped me get higher grades and even pursue graduate school. I may yet do that in the next five years. I loved attending and learning at university. Just wish I had been encouraged to go on.

    I since learned to overcome my anxiety which interfered with asking and responding to questions, getting help, organizing my thoughts in a cohesive manner, and doing those dreaded class presentations. I had total stage fright. Now I enter speaking competitions just for shits and giggles. I’ve won a few of them, too.

    I am retired from social service work now and I am appalled at the dropout rate of students in post secondary education. It is 35% in Canada. 40% in the US. Part of this problem lies squarely on the shoulders of the post secondary institutions. But there are tools and tricks students can learn to increase their chances of success.

    And that’s where I come in.

    I want students to learn to understand and accept themselves as the brilliant, gifted, and unique people that they are. And can become.

    I want them to appreciate their talents, their skills and their values, so they can use them to succeed at higher education and succeed the careers that will flow from this new knowledge.

    I want them to succeed in life.

    No regrets.


    About the Host:

    Raymond Bourcier - Conscious parent coach, stay-at-home father, husband, author, podcaster

    A college and university environmental science graduate, Ray grew up in a toxic family and a toxic situation in Northern Ontario, Canada. As a result, he experienced the first of many PTSD events at age five, which would begin his nearly three-decade struggle with anxiety and depression.

    Spending most of his life in survival mode without support, he eventually discovered and developed ways to overcome his struggles when nothing else worked.

    With a passion for helping others, he made it his mission to help transform the lives and impact the worlds of eleven million people so they too can give their best to themselves, their loved ones, and their career.

    An ancient Chinese proverb that Ray loves states, "To know the road ahead, ask those...

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    24 mins
  • Optimism and self-love with "G.I" Jane Foster [ep38]
    Aug 1 2022

    Becoming the parent they need you to starts with you getting to a place where you're happy with yourself and who you are. It's challenging to be optimistic and positive when the world throws curve balls in your way that you can't control, so take it from Jane Foster how you too can overcome everything and grow.

    In this episode, we cover:

    • The importance of putting yourself first
    • How to bring out the positivity in our children
    • Re-enforcing their successes


    About GI Jane Foster

    Jane Foster, aka GiJane, is the President of GiJane Presentations. She relays real life stories of joining the US Navy and intercepting morse code from the Russians during the Vietnam War. Jane also shares her sickness with Covid 19 and shares it in her book, "The Gift of Covid 19, How Learning to Love Myself Saved my Life". Jane's high energy, positive mindset and compassion motivates her audience to take action. Jane is a board member of the Optimist Club of Perdido Bay where we "Bring out the Best in Kids".


    The Gift of Covid-19: How learning to love myself saved my life. https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Covid-19-Learning-Myself-Saved/dp/B099BWT8XG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=35V8XRZ7I9UYY&keywords=GiJane+Foster&qid=1658690949&sprefix=gijane+foster%2Caps%2C86&sr=8-1


    About the Host:

    Raymond Bourcier - Conscious parent coach, stay-at-home father, husband, author, podcaster

    A college and university environmental science graduate, Ray grew up in a toxic family and a toxic situation in Northern Ontario, Canada. As a result, he experienced the first of many PTSD events at age five, which would begin his nearly three-decade struggle with anxiety and depression.

    Spending most of his life in survival mode without support, he eventually discovered and developed ways to overcome his struggles when nothing else worked.

    With a passion for helping others, he made it his mission to help transform the lives and impact the worlds of eleven million people so they too can give their best to themselves, their loved ones, and their career.

    An ancient Chinese proverb that Ray loves states, "To know the road ahead, ask those coming back." Ray is on the road back to offer you the support you need every step on your journey so that you, too, will be on the same road back. Ray believes that only those who've walked that road can truly understand the struggles that you go through.

    Together, we will become the rising tide that lifts all boats.

    Together, we are unstoppable.

    In his off time, you can find Ray spending time with his daughter, reading books, watching hockey, and contemplating whether pineapple belongs on pizza.

     

    Check Us Out:

    Join our Tribe: http://www.worldsbest.support  

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myempowerup/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmpowerUp

    To Get our FREE Transformational Blueprints: https://www.giftfromray.com

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    17 mins
  • Success in lose/lose situations [37]
    Jul 25 2022

    Being a parent isn't easy, and there are many landmines that can drop your self-confidence and self-esteem with one action. But understand that there is no perfection. Everyone is perfectly imperfect. So when you find yourself in a perceived lose/lose situation with your kiddo, you sometimes have to take a 30,000-foot view to find the successes. And that's exactly what I want to help you with here today. Finding success when you find yourself in lose/lose situations.

    In this episode, we cover:

    • An example struggle which led to a lose/lose situation in my day.
    • The complexity of success and what it may look like.
    • The choices
    • The best tools and techniques can't always overcome this one thing.
    • Where the work starts and unhooking.

    About the Host:

    Raymond Bourcier - Conscious parent coach, stay-at-home father, husband, author, podcaster

    A college and university environmental science graduate, Ray grew up in a toxic family and a toxic situation in Northern Ontario, Canada. As a result, he experienced the first of many PTSD events at age five, which would begin his nearly three-decade struggle with anxiety and depression.

    Spending most of his life in survival mode without support, he eventually discovered and developed ways to overcome his struggles when nothing else worked.

    With a passion for helping others, he made it his mission to help transform the lives and impact the worlds of eleven million people so they too can give their best to themselves, their loved ones, and their career.

    An ancient Chinese proverb that Ray loves states, "To know the road ahead, ask those coming back." Ray is on the road back to offer you the support you need every step on your journey so that you, too, will be on the same road back. Ray believes that only those who've walked that road can truly understand the struggles that you go through.

    Together, we will become the rising tide that lifts all boats.

    Together, we are unstoppable.

    In his off time, you can find Ray spending time with his daughter, reading books, watching hockey, and contemplating whether pineapple belongs on pizza.

     

    Check Us Out on:

    Join our Tribehttp://www.worldsbest.support  

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myempowerup/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmpowerUp

    To Get our FREE Transformational Blueprints: https://www.giftfromray.com

    Music from Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/all-good-folks/take-on-the-world

    License code: SGUHZVOB6KC5ZICQ

    https://uppbeat.io/t/hemlock/moving-on

    License code: VQXARD9AYEFZN45A

     

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