• I Still Need a Father Figure | w Forrest Laurent | Ep 101
    Dec 13 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, Forrest Laurent returns for a deep and meaningful conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. This discussion spans various topics including overcoming personal struggles, the impact of family and fatherhood, dealing with loss and grief, and the challenges of being an influencer. Forrest shares his experiences with handling temptations, the importance of compatibility in relationships, and finding guidance without a father figure. The conversation is thoughtful, introspective, and aims to offer insights for fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:01:06 Catching Up: Life Updates and Reflections

    00:02:39 Navigating Personal Challenges and Faith

    00:05:20 The Impact of Influence and Public Perception

    00:10:04 Fatherhood and Family Dynamics

    00:15:13 Managing Temptations and Online Presence

    00:18:32 Platform Mission and Social Responsibility

    00:22:51 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned

    00:28:43 Reflecting on Life Choices

    00:29:21 Grading Life and Accountability

    00:30:32 Challenges in Relationships

    00:32:05 Understanding Compatibility

    00:36:10 Impact of Single-Parent Households

    00:39:38 Concerns About Life and Missed Opportunities

    00:43:10 Navigating Fatherhood and Guidance

    00:54:31 Embracing the Journey

    00:57:13 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #singleparents #blendedfamily #Parenting #RealConversations #Stepmother #Stepfather #Motivation #Enmeshment



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    59 mins
  • Navigating Fatherhood and Blended Families: Deep Conversations on The Dear Son Show | Ep 100
    Dec 5 2024

    In this insightful episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D. Johns and J. Black dive into the complex yet rewarding journey of fatherhood and blended families. Joined by guest Tim Nicholas, they unpack their personal experiences and challenges, including topics like acceptance, enmeshment, discipline, and communication. Through meaningful dialogue, they explore the ups and downs of co-parenting and the importance of being present and intentional as a father. This episode is a heartfelt look at how fatherhood shapes lives and the vital role men play in the nurturing of their children, regardless of biological ties.


    00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:17 Catching Up with the Hosts

    00:02:08 Introducing the Topic: Black and Blended

    00:02:31 First Impressions and Challenges

    00:04:48 Personal Stories of Blended Families

    00:07:46 Navigating Relationships and Acceptance

    00:12:57 Dealing with Co-Parenting Dynamics

    00:17:11 Overcoming Personal Fears

    00:26:44 The Role of Communication

    00:41:31 The Human Side of Parenting

    00:41:43 Redemption and Acceptance

    00:42:31 Navigating Complex Family Dynamics

    00:44:40 The Darkest Hour: Overcoming Challenges

    00:45:04 Marriage Milestones and Longevity

    00:46:06 The Impact of Children on Marriage

    00:48:15 Understanding Enmeshment

    00:50:13 Setting Boundaries and Protecting Marriage

    00:56:20 Parenting Challenges and Communication

    01:05:54 Final Thoughts and Takeaways



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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Winning the Battle, Losing the War: Navigating Parenthood | The Dear Son, Network ®
    Nov 22 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss a wide range of topics relevant to fathers and parents. They begin by sharing their personal experiences with their children's education, focusing on finding the right balance between guiding them and allowing independence. Conversations cover understanding life's battles versus wars, the role of cliches, and the importance of forward thinking. They address the dichotomy of allowing children to pursue their passions versus steering them towards more lucrative careers, and how to prepare them for life's challenges. The episode also touches on serious issues like violence in schools and balancing protection with necessary exposure to real-world problems. The hosts emphasize the importance of meaningful conversation, lifelong learning, and the entrepreneurial spirit in their communities.


    00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:34 Morning Greetings and Updates

    00:01:05 Football Season and Rivalries

    00:02:32 Today's Topic: Winning the Battle, Losing the War

    00:04:13 Parenting Perspectives on Education and Career Choices

    00:10:54 Real-Life Examples and Lessons

    00:20:22 The Impact of AI on Future Careers

    00:21:17 Navigating Passion and Practicality in Career Choices

    00:23:06 Balancing Dreams and Financial Stability

    00:24:43 Parental Guidance in Career Decisions

    00:26:27 The Importance of Challenging Your Child's Decisions

    00:29:36 The Role of Exposure in Child Development

    00:31:51 Addressing Violence and Safety in Schools

    00:39:12 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowth



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    43 mins
  • 2024 Presidential Election Reflections | Ep 98 | The Dear Son, Show
    Nov 15 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in a heartfelt discussion that touches on life through the lens of fatherhood. They explore the impact of recent elections, the role of societal and emotional factors in decision-making, and how these elements intersect with their responsibilities as fathers. The conversation also delves into the importance of community, personal growth, and preparing the younger generation for the complexities of the world. Additionally, they discuss how political outcomes can affect personal priorities and the importance of maintaining perspective amid shifting societal dynamics. The hosts emphasize resilience, education, and adaptability in navigating life's challenges, both personal and communal.


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:14 Hosts Reconnect and Catch Up

    00:00:48 Grandfatherhood and Family Updates

    00:01:28 Election Week Reflections

    00:02:06 Fatherhood and Family Dynamics

    00:03:45 Election Reactions and Personal Insights

    00:05:17 Voting Perspectives and Personal Experiences

    00:10:08 Economic Impacts of Political Outcomes

    00:13:15 Navigating Political Conversations

    00:16:24 Aligning Votes with Personal and Community Values

    00:23:56 Election Emotions and Reactions

    00:24:43 Criticism and Expectations of Vice President Harris

    00:27:56 Global Perspectives and Leadership Concerns

    00:30:09 Impact on Children and Society

    32:24 Parental Guidance and Real-World Lessons

    00:40:53 Podcast Reflections and Community Engagement

    00:41:55 Gratitude and Future Plans

    00:46:28 Closing Remarks and Outro



    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowth



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    47 mins
  • The Pressure of Being Strong: Navigating Fatherhood and Vulnerability
    Sep 26 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jay Black engage in a heartfelt discussion about the pressures of fatherhood, the struggles of being perceived as strong, and the importance of vulnerability. They reflect on their personal experiences, share lessons learned from their fathers, and discuss how they are navigating these concepts with their own children. The conversation explores various perceptions of strength, the consequences of unaddressed emotions, and the importance of seeking help and support. Tune in for an insightful dialogue on the realities of fatherhood and life.


    00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:23 Summer Reflections and School Preparations

    00:01:45 Family Dynamics and Upcoming Events

    00:04:13 The Burden of Strength

    00:06:07 Lessons from Our Fathers

    00:12:08 Emotional Vulnerability and Strength

    00:14:31 The Importance of Releasing Emotions

    00:16:29 Unlearning Old Habits

    00:17:26 Sweat Hurts: A Family Car Ride Story

    00:17:52 Parenting Frustrations and Realizations

    00:18:20 A Lesson in Communication

    00:20:09 Reflecting on Past Mistakes

    00:21:12 The Journey Back to College

    00:25:44 The Importance of Spiritual Strength

    00:27:28 Balancing Strength and Vulnerability

    00:33:38 Business Decisions and Family Lessons

    00:34:38 Final Thoughts and Farewell


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    35 mins
  • Tolerating vs Enabling Behaviors in Children
    Sep 3 2024
    Join hosts J Black and D Johns on The Dear Son Show as they dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood, parenting, and life lessons. In this episode, they discuss the critical distinctions between tolerating and enabling behaviors in children, reflect on their personal experiences with these challenges, and share valuable insights on maintaining balance and accountability within the family. Tune in for relatable stories, practical advice, and a heartfelt dialogue aimed at fostering better father-child relationships.00:00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:00:26 Host Introductions and Personal Updates00:00:55 Family Transitions and Upcoming Events00:03:49 Finding a Church Home00:06:31 Main Topic: Tolerate vs. Enable00:20:57 The Pressure of Overachievement00:21:23 Facing Adversity in the Real World00:22:11 Parental Expectations and Communication00:23:26 Managing Relationships and Expectations00:26:19 Enabling vs. Tolerating Behavior00:27:49 Parenting Styles and Household Dynamics00:34:32 Problem Solving and Accountability00:39:09 Final Thoughts and EncouragementKey Takeaways:Certainly! Here are three key points from the script:1. **Introductory Conversation and Personal Updates**: The hosts, Jay Black and Dee Johns, kick off the show with a casual conversation catching up on life. Jay shares a personal update about his family, including his son's upcoming fatherhood and another child's departure for college. Dee provides insights into his recent travels and plans, with both hosts reflecting on the challenges and transitions their families are experiencing.2. **Parenting Styles and Challenges**: A significant portion of the conversation revolves around parenting styles, specifically between tolerating and enabling behaviors in children. The hosts discuss how different approaches can impact children’s development, citing personal examples and experiences. They explore the consequences of each style and emphasize the importance of balance and accountability in parenting.3. **Personal Accountability and Support Systems**: The hosts delve into the importance of personal accountability and support systems, particularly within the context of family and community. They highlight the significance of having tough conversations, the impact of personal upbringing on their parenting choices, and the necessity of creating resilient and responsible individuals. The discussion includes references to personal and professional experiences, reinforcing why these lessons are vital.Summary completed! How else can I assist you with this script? #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowthFollow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. follow this podcast, 2. turn on the auto-downloads,3. give this podcast a 5-star rating, 4. leave a stellar written review, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.comLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcastThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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    42 mins
  • With My Bear Arms: A TSA Nightmare
    Jul 9 2024

    In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major milestone in their journey.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs

    00:00:40 Airport Incident Unfolds

    00:01:46 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:02:16 Weekly Catch-Up

    00:03:14 Travel Experiences and Reflections

    00:04:37 The Airport Incident Revisited

    00:09:17 Legal Consequences and Reflections

    00:16:11 Gun Culture and Personal Experiences

    00:19:57 Judgment and Grace

    00:21:59 Facing the Consequences

    00:22:47 The Complexity of Loyalty

    00:24:32 Father-Son Conversations

    00:26:22 Real-Life Examples and Lessons

    00:31:20 Gun Safety and Family Dynamics

    00:39:02 Trademarking Success

    00:46:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


    Key Takeaways:


    1. **Gun Safety and Legal Consequences**: The speakers discuss the importance of gun safety, especially when traveling, sharing a personal story about accidentally carrying a loaded weapon in an airport. They highlight legal consequences, such as fines and losing TSA pre-check status, and reflect on the oversight and responsibility necessary to avoid such situations.


    2. **Judgment and Understanding**: There's an emphasis on not being judgmental and understanding the context of others' actions. They point out how quick judgments can be misleading, sharing anecdotes about people making assumptions without knowing comprehensive details, thus advocating for empathy and broader awareness.


    3. **Influences and Life Lessons**: The conversation ties back to the influence of one's social circle on decision-making and the importance of teaching children about responsibility and the repercussions of their actions. They touch on personal growth and learning from mistakes, as well as the impact of one's environment in shaping behavior and choices.


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowth



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    47 mins
  • Navigating Life's Challenges: The Fight Within | Ep 94
    Jun 4 2024
    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and the challenges they face. They discuss personal struggles, including health issues, aging parents, and the evolving dynamics of family leadership. The episode touches on themes of resilience, the importance of understanding one's 'why,' and the impact of personal battles on family and business. They also reflect on the balance between external motivations and internal well-being, emphasizing the significance of staying true to one's core values. Alongside personal anecdotes, they explore how pride, loyalty, and the need for self-accountability shape their journeys. The hosts conclude with aspirations for the show's growth and the importance of maintaining its integrity and message.00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Son Show00:00:19 Hosts Introduction and Initial Banter00:00:47 Life Challenges and Family Situations00:03:23 Conversations with Dad00:05:23 The Fight of Life00:08:50 Business Ventures and Loyalty00:11:18 Impact on Family and Parenting Challenges00:15:36 Balancing Family and Business00:22:33 Reflecting on the Evolution of Our Message00:23:45 The Importance of Internal Motivation00:25:44 Balancing Determination and Well-being00:27:01 Learning from Life's Storms00:27:46 Confronting Passivity and Reclaiming Drive00:30:07 Standing Firm in Business Decisions00:32:56 The Struggle with Pride and Asking for Help00:36:24 The Value of Genuine Conversations00:40:41 Future Plans and Personal Growth00:42:42 Closing Thoughts and GratitudeHere are three key takeaways from this episode:1. **Family Dynamics and Communication**: The conversation delves into how current life struggles, such as personal and health issues, affect family dynamics. It highlights the importance of open communication within the family, especially with children, to help them understand changes and challenges.2. **Personal Growth and Reflection**: Both hosts discuss the need for personal reflection and growth. They emphasize the necessity of being still and introspective to understand life's bigger picture. This includes revisiting and standing firm on certain principles and decisions to avoid compromising their personal and family values.3. **Business and Life Balance**: The hosts touch on balancing business ventures with personal life. They share insights on how to stay true to their original motivations (their "why") and avoid getting sidetracked by external pressures. This balance is essential for maintaining their integrity and ensuring that their business goals align with their personal values and family well-being. #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowthFollow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.comLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcastThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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    44 mins