In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most!

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:44 Holiday Season Excitement

01:05 NAACP Event Recap

01:30 Community Engagement

03:06 Support and Viral Success

04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun

04:50 Navigating Life's Storms

10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges

11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments

22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations

25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story

26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines

28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support

30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms

33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times

34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships

38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems

41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity

44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes

51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned

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In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing career labels that may not fit. Furthermore, the episode addresses the significance of maintaining core values through life transitions, and offers thoughtful advice on navigating relationships and friendships. Don't miss the insights packed into this episode. Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe to 'The Dear Son, Show' for more inspiring discussions.

00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show

00:31 Holiday Reflections and Lessons Learned

02:36 Football Talk: Celebrating Wins and Rivalries

03:21 Promoting the Book and Special Offers

05:03 The Importance of Labels and Identity

08:57 Parenting: Balancing Labels and Passions

17:03 Encouraging Children's Interests and Outlets

21:57 The Role of Labels in Self-Worth and Identity

22:59 Navigating Life Transitions

23:45 The Importance of Core Values

25:11 Embracing New Chapters

26:05 Reflecting on Personal Growth

29:03 The Pressure of Expectations

31:42 The Role of Support Systems

33:19 Managing Emotional Reactions

37:08 The Value of Communication

44:51 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for our sons and daughters through thoughtful guidance and intentional parenting. Don't miss out—join the conversation and be sure to like, share, and subscribe to our channel!

00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show

00:17 Hosts' Banter and Water Intake Challenge

01:40 Today's Topic: Dear Son, My Ceiling is Your Floor

03:01 Fatherhood Reflections and Advice

06:18 Emotional Regulation and Communication

17:02 Adapting to Change and Technology

21:09 Projecting Fears and Playing Small

22:34 The Power of Words and Fear Projection

23:02 Avoiding Negative Predictions

23:26 Encouraging Risk-Taking and Growth

24:21 Personal Experiences and Lessons

26:16 Teaching Resilience and Adaptability

26:58 Fostering Creativity and Ownership

34:42 Sibling Competition and Development

37:39 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness

39:34 Parenting Reflections and Future Hopes

43:11 Cherishing Moments and Living with Children

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Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay engaged with our empowering content!

00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter

00:26 Health and Wellness Journey

01:48 Fraternity Life and Personal Growth

05:42 Seeing It Through: The Importance of Perseverance

06:45 Parenting and Personal Accountability

12:37 Community and Relationships

17:47 Motivations and Adjustments

24:29 The Burden of Being Wrong

25:09 Personal Growth and Humility

26:01 Parenting Challenges and Mistakes

29:19 Finding Your 'Why'

35:47 Supporting Young Black Boys

39:53 Encouraging Open Communication

51:13 The Importance of Internal Motivation

#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk

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Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac on 'The Dear Son, Show' as they delve into the essence of marriage and fatherhood. This episode unpacks the highs and lows of being a husband and father, providing unparalleled insights through lived experiences. They discuss the importance of having a supportive partner, the irreplaceable moments in fatherhood, and the realities of navigating marriage. With candid anecdotes and valuable life lessons, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom for anyone navigating these crucial roles. Don’t miss out—watch, like, and subscribe for more enlightening conversations!

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Being a Husband

01:14 Welcome to the Dead Son Show

02:19 The Joy and Challenges of Content Creation

03:21 The Value of Real Conversations

07:07 Managing Expectations in Relationships

18:06 The Importance of Growth in Marriage

21:55 Learning from Past Relationships

25:52 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

26:26 The Importance of Receptive Partners

26:42 The Concept of Nagging

26:45 Reflections on Past Relationships

27:37 The Value of Hindsight

27:42 Marriage: The Good and the Bad

33:46 Fatherhood: Unconditional Belief

36:18 Balancing Parenting and Childhood

38:04 The Joy of Watching Children Grow

39:33 The Complexity of Adult Children

43:21 The Interconnectedness of Life Choices

47:59 Closing Thoughts on Parenthood and Marriage

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“Better Man. Better Father.”

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What do you do when your son steps to you like a man? In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, things get real. A father faces a moment every parent hopes to avoid — his son challenging his authority. What starts as tension turns into a powerful conversation about respect, maturity, and what it really means to grow into manhood.

And just when it feels like things are cooling down, the conversation takes another turn. The son asks for advice about dating a young woman who already has a child. The father’s response? Honest. Unfiltered. And full of wisdom that comes from experience.

This one isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present. It’s about listening, learning, and leading with love.

#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk

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