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In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.

Key Concepts Explored:

What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:
- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure
- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want
- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you
- Fantasy relationships and passive dating
- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growth

Common Questions Addressed:
- What if I'm truly too busy to date?
- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?
- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?
- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?
- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?

Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?
If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:
- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns
- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy
- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025
- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating

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The Dating After Divorce Academy provides:
- Clear strategies to date efficiently
- Support in overcoming mindset blocks
- Tools to evaluate potential partners
- A process for authentic connection
- Community of like-minded women

Additional Resources:
- Episode 219: Thoughts About Dating at Your Age
- Episode 220: Dating Older and Younger Men

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Are you limiting your dating pool based on age? In this episode, I challenge the common assumptions about dating older men and reveal why your dating filters might be holding you back from finding true connection.

Key Insights:

• The truth behind the "nurse with a purse" stereotype and why it shouldn't dictate your dating choices
• Why age filters often mask deeper fears about dating and settling
• How to shift from fear-based dating to confidence-based choices
• The power of staying neutral when meeting new people
• Practical strategies for evaluating potential partners beyond their age

Quotable Moment: "Don't use being open about age against yourself. The choice of who you end up with is always yours."

Action Steps:

1. Examine your current age filters and identify the real reasons behind them
2. Practice curiosity instead of judgment when meeting new people
3. Focus on lifestyle compatibility rather than age-based assumptions
4. Trust your ability to say "no" when someone isn't right for you

Ready to Transform Your Dating Experience? Book a private consultation call with me to develop your personalized dating strategy. Visit http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to find a time that works for you.

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Is your age holding you back in dating? I hear this concern from so many women in our community. Today, let's unpack what's really going on when we let age become a barrier to love.

Key Insights:

• Age anxiety peaks when dating because we've internalized limiting societal messages about women and aging
• These beliefs impact not just how we date, but how boldly we live our entire lives
• Your age is just a number - what matters is the life you choose to live at any age

Here's the truth: The "age problem" in dating isn't about the number. It's about the stories we tell ourselves. I see clients in their 40s saying men their age are "too old," while my clients in their 50s and 60s express the same concern. What's fascinating? The issue isn't age - it's about energy alignment and lifestyle compatibility.

Ready to transform your approach to dating after divorce? Let's work together to move past age anxiety and create authentic connections. Schedule your consultation call at http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to explore private coaching or join our Dating After Divorce Collective.

Remember: The person who's right for you isn't looking for a number - they're looking for YOU.

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Next episode: We'll explore how age filters and preferences impact our dating choices - you won't want to miss it!