“The biggest element is the motivation, because if they are motivated to work on recovery, they will recover well and fast.” - Kiat Yong

The discovery of a spouse’s affair is never a pleasant one, but the road to reconciliation and healing is possible, says Kiat Yong, a seasoned counselor with Focus on the Family Singapore. Kiat Yong delves into the emotional turmoil that both the betrayed and the betrayer experience, while giving hope to couples by clearly laying out the practical steps they can take to rebuild their marriage. Tune in to discover how couples can navigate this storm and emerge stronger!

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” - Tricia

(Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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“I think even just recognising within ourselves at the points that we are totally triggered and need to take a pause from this conversation...” – Grace Chua

Navigating the ups and downs of marriage takes self-awareness, empathy, communication, and teamwork. It's no easy task, whether you're in your first year or have been married for years.

Whether you're dating, thinking of marriage, or married for years, the insights from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, will help you strengthen your bond and provide language for everyday struggles.

Tune in to discover how to face love's challenges together!

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A lifetime of love and romance requires intentional effort and attention. Yet in times of busyness and with overwhelming priorities to tend to, our marriages can often take a back seat. No matter the state of your relationship today, we want to help you, and your spouse thrive.

Visit our website at www.family.org.sg/resources for articles and resources today.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.

“Dating it's also a journey of self-discovery not just other-discovery… even if it doesn't work out, you come out with a better awareness of who you are as a person.” -Elvin Foong

Dating isn't just about finding the right partner—it's also a journey of self-awareness! The journey towards marriage is one which requires wisdom and perspective from older ones, courage to confront differences, and understanding another’s values and habits.

Tune in to this episode to hear from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, as they share their insights on all things dating, marriage and relationships!

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Know of couples who are getting married soon? Do invite them to check out our upcoming Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop in November 2024.

Husband-and-wife trainers Nam Seng & Sok Mian will help couples learn to:

• Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
• Plan and manage family finances well
• Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
• Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop

Couples can look forward to two weekday online sessions

and one onsite session on a Saturday.

Register Now: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Do note that if you are based in Singapore, one-time gifts above SGD$50 or monthly donations above SGD$10 are eligible for 250% tax-deductible benefits.