Hey, hey, everyone! Andee here! 🖐️ Let’s dive into a topic that is near and dear to so many of us—because, let’s be honest, we’ve all tried it—corrective parenting. You know, the old-school model of using rewards and consequences to manage behavior that doesn’t work long-term. Today, I’m breaking down exactly why.

In this episode, we’re getting real about:

• The history of corrective parenting (hello, rats and pigeons 🐀🐦) and where it all began.
• Why rewards and punishments only create short-term behavior changes (and leave you exhausted).
• The hidden costs of corrective parenting—on your relationship, your child’s confidence, and their sense of safety.
• What neuroscience and developmental psychology have to say about how kids actually learn and grow.

I’m also sharing what I know works: the Connective Parenting approach. No sticker charts, no bribes, no taking away their favorite toy. Just real connection that helps your kids want to listen to you. Sounds dreamy, right?

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re stuck on the hamster wheel of correcting and consequencing, this episode is for you. We’re talking about kicking those old techniques to the curb and stepping into something that feels so much better—for you and your kids.

And don’t forget, if you’re new to Connect Method Parenting, I’ve got a FREE course to get you started! We’ll cover the biggest parenting challenges and how connection changes everything. You can grab it here: cmp.works/course

Let’s break up with corrective parenting and step into a developmentally appropriate way of raising our kids. It’s time. 💪

Catch you in the episode!

xoAndee

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Whether it’s January or August, Monday morning or Thursday afternoon, the opportunity to start fresh is always available.

In this episode, we explore:

• Reinvention vs. Progress: How fundamentally transforming your mindset, routines, and beliefs can change everything.
• The Power of Questioning Norms: Why parenting by default rules (early bedtimes, dinner table behavior, etc.) might not work for your family and how to redefine them intentionally.
• Facing Limiting Beliefs: From tech struggles to driving challenges in foreign lands, we discuss how to confront things that are holding you back.
• Redeciding and Letting Go: How to consciously recommit to what serves you and release the rest—be it habits, routines, or unrealistic standards.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• You have the power to create new starts anytime—no need to wait for a new year, new month, or new week.
• Reinvention isn’t about big, sweeping changes; it’s about questioning what’s working and what’s not, even down to your choice of coffee mugs. ☕
• Letting go of outdated rules and expectations allows you to show up authentically for yourself and your family.

💡 Parenting Nugget: Reinvention as a parent means recognizing and questioning automatic responses. It's about staying connected and present, even when kids are at their most challenging.

🎙️ Bonus Moments:

• The wisdom of a 25-year-old calling me out on my outdated beliefs.
• Embracing the balance of 50/50 joy and growth in life.

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Weaknesses—we all have them, but most of us try to hide, fix, or fight them. Here’s the thing: embracing your weaknesses isn’t just good for you; it’s good for your parenting. When you understand and accept all parts of yourself, you show up with more patience, compassion, and connection for your kids.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

• Why avoiding your weaknesses keeps you stuck and drains your energy.
• How embracing your imperfections helps you stay calm and regulated in challenging parenting moments.
• The surprising ripple effect this has on your relationship with your kids.

Parenting isn’t about getting it all right; it’s about creating a space where both you and your kids feel seen and understood. And that starts with how you see yourself.

Tune in to discover how owning your weaknesses can make you a stronger, more connected parent.

Let me know what you think—I’d love to hear what weaknesses you’re learning to embrace!

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