Episodes

  • ️ 93. Cold Chaos, Cider, and TikTok Troubles: Navigating 2025 SO FAR!

    ️ 93. Cold Chaos, Cider, and TikTok Troubles: Navigating 2025 SO FAR!
    Jan 18 2025

    🎙️ Episode 93. Cold Chaos, Cider, and TikTok Troubles: Navigating 2025 SO FAR!

    Episode Summary
    Welcome back to Chaotic Compass! In this episode, Stefanie dives into the chaos of winter, fires up her microphone to review a new cider, and discusses the wild dynamics of January 2025. From freezing temperatures to TikTok controversies and a heartfelt moment about fire prevention, this episode blends lighthearted humor with real-life seriousness.

    What You'll Hear in This Episode

    🥶 Winter Woes: Stefanie battles sub-freezing temperatures, snow chaos in the South, and recalls her childhood snow "fashion."

    🍎 Cider Spotlight: A review of North Country Hard Cider's "Honey Badger"—find out if it’s worth a sip.

    🔥 Fire Safety Anecdotes: Stefanie’s Pop-Tart toaster story and tips on fire awareness for families.

    🏠 Mother Nature Mayhem: Thoughts on California wildfires, relief efforts, and how to help.

    📱 TikTok on Trial: Stefanie’s take on Congress’s approach to banning TikTok and its impact on creators and businesses.

    🎤 Throwbacks & Nostalgia: From baggy jeans to learning tech with your mom—Stefanie compares generational gaps to Congress's understanding of tech.

    Featured Cider

    North Country Hard Cider: "Honey Badger"

    Based in Dover, New Hampshire. Check them out for more unique cider flavors!

    Resources Mentioned

    North Country Hard Cider (Add their link to your show notes!)

    Fire safety resources from the American Red Cross.

    TikTok ban developments—check out articles for the latest updates.

    Action Items for Listeners

    🍏 What’s your favorite winter cider? DM me on Instagram with your recommendations!

    🔥 Share your funniest childhood fire-safety fail—bonus points if it involves Pop-Tarts!

    📱 Are you affected by the TikTok ban? Let’s discuss!

    Let’s Connect!

    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite platform.
    💻 Visit me at Chaotic Compass.
    📱 Follow along on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.
    ✉️ DM me or drop your chaos stories—I’d love to share a laugh with you!

    Don’t Forget
    If you loved this episode, share it with a friend who hates the cold, loves cider, or has strong feelings about TikTok! And leave a review—it helps the chaos continue
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  • 92. Snow, Sickness, and Surviving Solo Parenting: Navigating this Week's Chaos

    92. Snow, Sickness, and Surviving Solo Parenting: Navigating this Week's Chaos
    Jan 10 2025

    🎙️ Episode 92. Snow, Sickness, and Surviving Solo Parenting: Navigating this Week's Chaos

    Episode Summary
    Hey there, it’s Stefanie! Buckle up, because this week I’m spilling all the tea about the absolute chaos of my life lately. From surviving the post-holiday stomach bug apocalypse (spoiler alert: we made it!) to sneaking away for a rare kid-free weekend, and then getting snowed in with friends, this episode has it all. Oh, and did I mention solo parenting while trying not to burn the house down? Yeah, it’s been a week. Grab your drink of choice and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even feel a little better about your own life.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode

    Norovirus: The Holiday Hangover Nobody Wanted
    Just when we thought we’d escaped the holiday madness, the stomach bug came for us. It started with my mother-in-law and then struck poor Liam just in time for New Year’s. Nothing says “Happy New Year” like cleaning up puke and praying you’re not next.

    Weekend Getaway to Culpeper, VA
    My husband and I finally ditched the kids for a weekend! Culpeper was a dream—breweries, cideries, and even a retro arcade where I could relive my Street Fighter glory days. Shoutout to Old Trade Cidery for their epic flights of cider. And Throwback Arcade? You’re my new happy place.

    Snowstorm Shenanigans
    We got trapped by snow while visiting friends outside Richmond, turning a casual hangout into an overnight adventure. Turns out, snowstorms have a way of derailing your plans and school schedules, but hey, we made the best of it with good wine and great company.

    Solo Parenting: Send Coffee (and Cider)
    With my husband off on a work trip, I had to manage all the things. Early-morning theater drop-offs, kid-wrangling, and even feeding his fish (which I’m pretty sure hates me). Let’s just say, I’ve never been more ready for Kylie to get her driver’s license.

    Shoutouts from the Chaos

    Old Trade Cidery: Second only to my one true cider love, Sly Clyde. 💻Wesbite here

    Throwback Arcade in Culpeper: Unlimited free-play pinball and retro games—yes, please! 💻Website here

    Culpeper’s Main Street: Y’all are killing it with the cute shops and small business vibes.

    Coxy, Cute Farmhouse Airbnb - Link here

    Let’s Connect!

    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite platform.
    💻 Visit me at Chaotic Compass.
    📱 Follow along on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.
    ✉️ DM me or drop your chaos stories—I’d love to share a laugh with you!

    Challenge for My Listeners
    Got a crazy story to share? Message me, and you might just inspire a future episode!

    Before You Go
    If you laughed, nodded along, or just feel a little better about your life after listening, hit subscribe and leave a review. Share this chaos with your friends and family—you know they need it too. Thanks for keeping me caffeinated and motivated, y’all!
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  • 91. Chaos Before the Storm: Navigating the Holiday Mayhem

    91. Chaos Before the Storm: Navigating the Holiday Mayhem
    Dec 20 2024

    Episode 91. Chaos Before the Storm: Navigating the Holiday Mayhem

    Host: Stefanie Wainwright

    The holidays are here, and they’re bringing all the chaos! From anxiety-inducing chorus concerts to Target shopping mayhem, and even a heated family debate over Santa’s funding, this episode is packed with stories that will make you laugh, cringe, and nod in solidarity.

    In This Episode

    🎵 Chorus Concert Chaos: No seats, overcrowded rooms, and a short daughter you can’t see—navigating a fifth-grade chorus concert turns into a test of patience and endurance.

    🎯 Target Trouble: Stefanie recounts her adventures in pre-Christmas shopping madness, including losing her husband repeatedly, a near cart theft, and hiding in the men's shampoo aisle to escape the chaos.

    🎅 Santa's Funding Debate: A lighthearted yet intense discussion among the kids about how Santa finances his operation leads to an unexpected twist—getting the waitress involved!

    📸 Family Photo Fiasco: Stefanie shares the drama behind capturing the perfect family photo when her almost-14-year-old stepson refuses to smile.

    Takeaways:

    Managing expectations during the holidays can help preserve your sanity.

    Sometimes, you just have to laugh through the chaos—because what else can you do?.

    Let’s Connect!

    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite platform.
    💻 Visit me at Chaotic Compass.
    📱 Follow along on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.
    ✉️ DM me or drop your chaos stories—I’d love to share a laugh with you!
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  • 90. Midlife Chaos-Navigating Life's Shifting Landscapes

    90. Midlife Chaos-Navigating Life's Shifting Landscapes
    Dec 2 2024

    Episode 90: Surviving Midlife Chaos – Family, Work, and Finding Humor in the Mess

    Hey there, it’s Stefanie from Chaotic Compass! This is a big one—Episode 90! 🎉 I’m talking about the beautiful disaster that is midlife chaos. From raising four kids in a blended family to juggling a job, businesses, and everything in between, my life is a constant whirlwind of “what the heck just happened?” moments.

    In this episode, I dive into the nitty-gritty of what midlife chaos looks like for me and how I’m finding ways to laugh through the madness. If you’ve ever struggled with the mental load of parenting, battled the chaos of family photo day, or just felt done with it all, you’ll want to stick around.

    Here’s What I’m Chatting About:

    🎉 Celebrating Episode 90 and Turning 39: A milestone podcast episode and birthday reflections (nope, not 40 yet!).
    📸 Family Photo Drama: Trying to coordinate schedules for four kids, three parents, and a photographer while everyone showers on time.
    🍗 Thanksgiving Chaos: Hosting 14 people, sneaking in store-bought sides, and surviving the holiday with laughter (and maybe some vodka).
    👩‍👧‍👦 Parenting Wins: My boys took showers without being told! Small victories in a world of chaos.
    📆 Midlife Goals vs. Survival Mode: Why living day-to-day keeps me from achieving those big dreams—and how I’m working to change that.
    💆‍♀️ Self-Care Lessons: Why I’m learning to prioritize myself and embrace imperfections (even when the shoes on the stairs drive me insane).

    What I’m Loving Right Now:

    ✨ “Stop saying sorry. Do better.”
    ✨ “Midlife chaos looks different for everyone, but the chaos is always temporary.”
    ✨ “Current me isn’t serving future me, and it’s time to fix that.”

    Let’s Connect!

    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite platform.
    💻 Visit me at Chaotic Compass.
    📱 Follow along on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.
    ✉️ DM me or drop your chaos stories—I’d love to share a laugh with you!
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  • 89. Where the Hell Have I Been? - Navigating My Come Back

    89. Where the Hell Have I Been? - Navigating My Come Back
    Nov 15 2024
    In this episode of Chaotic Compass, I open up about the chaos and craziness of the past six months. I reflect on family life, work, and the personal moments that have kept me away from the podcast. Here's a breakdown of everything I cover:Episode Highlights:1. Where Have I Been?I start by catching up with you all and explaining the long gap between episodes. Life’s been a bit wild lately with work, family, and managing two businesses. My husband, Ryan, and I run a fishing charter and a mobile marine repair service. On top of that, I work as a business analyst for a construction company. And, of course, I’ve been juggling the activities of four kids, from theater rehearsals to soccer games and everything in between.2. Summer Adventures and Family LifeI dive into our family’s summer activities, including:Vacation in Ocracoke, NC: One of our favorite family getaways.Concerts: Took Kylie to see Laufey (a Scandinavian artist) and Conan Gray, which turned into some fun mother-daughter bonding.Boating: A spontaneous day of bar-hopping with Ryan that was so much fun.Sunrise on the Boat: I talk about how I asked Ryan to get up at the crack of dawn to watch the sunrise on the boat — definitely a peaceful moment that I’ll never forget.3. Business and Life ChaosWith two businesses to manage, kids to shuffle around to their activities, and a full-time job, things have been nonstop. Honestly, Ryan and I often feel like unpaid Uber drivers, just trying to get the kids where they need to be.4. Personal Milestones and AnniversariesI celebrate five years of marriage to Ryan (though it was a very quiet celebration with no social media posts). We also hit a big milestone of nine years together — the longest relationship of my life, which is a bit wild to think about!5. Fun Nights and Local SpotsI share some of our fun date nights, including:Music Bingo at Sly Clyde Ciderworks: Ryan and I totally dominated a few rounds of bingo.Local Hangouts: Our favorite spots like the Yorktown Pub, our neighbor’s pub, and others that serve cheap drinks and have great vibes.6. Birthday ChaosBoth Kylie and Liam celebrated their birthdays in September, and I recount the chaotic birthday bash we threw for them. There was a lot of drama, mostly from the 12-year-old boys, but it was a memorable night filled with good music, food, and laughs.7. Adulting MomentsI share a funny (and slightly embarrassing) adulting moment: finally paying off my overdue library fines from 2020! I had a stack of books just collecting dust and now, after years, I’m officially an adult with an up-to-date library card!8. Getting Older & Health UpdatesI reflect on the first gray hair I found while on vacation in Ocracoke (it totally shocked me) and I talk about my recent knee surgery. After years of dealing with a torn meniscus, I finally had surgery, and I’m still in the recovery process. It's been a bit of a journey, but I’m getting there!9. A Summer Full of Work & StressI admit that this summer was tough. There were a lot of moments where I felt completely overwhelmed and like I was just about to lose it. But I pushed through, and now I’m trying to figure out how to find better balance between work, family, and podcasting.10. Looking Forward to the FutureI wrap things up by sharing my desire to get back into a more regular podcasting schedule. With the busy holiday season ahead, I know it’s going to be tough to balance everything, but I’m determined to keep pushing forward. And I want to remind you that it’s okay to have those tough moments and to keep going — even when things feel chaotic.Takeaways from This Episode:Life is chaotic, but it’s important to find moments of peace.Self-care can be as simple as enjoying the sunrise or a quiet moment.It’s okay to take a break, but don’t forget to show up for the people who matter in your life.It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, but you can always pick yourself back up and keep moving forward.Listener Challenge:Take a moment this week to find your "sunrise moment" — even if it’s just a few minutes to slow down and appreciate the little things in life. Whether it’s a peaceful walk or just sitting in the quiet, make time for you.Connect with Me:Instagram: @chaoticcompassTikTok: @chaoticcompass (if you can figure out how to find me)YouTube: Chaotic Compass PodcastFacebook: Chaotic Compass Podcast (for the old-school crowd!)The Chaotic Compass podcast was created by me, Stefanie Wainwright. I’m a wife, a mom, and a business owner whose life is chaotic all the time. This podcast is meant to help you find the funny and the good while navigating through the chaos. Enjoy!
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  • 88. Monthly Recap: Navigating Traveling Solo, All The Musicals, and New Kid Language

    88. Monthly Recap: Navigating Traveling Solo, All The Musicals, and New Kid Language
    May 31 2024

    In today’s episode, it’s the monthly recap. Why are ya’ll so obsessed with these episodes? I’m here for it just freaking weird. We talk about me traveling multiple times solo recently. I tell you about our oldest kids’ musicals (high school musical: the musical: the series lol). And I also talk about new words kids are saying. I mean what the hell is a skibidy toilet anyways guys? Let’s go!

    For more content, check out my YouTube page here and my website here.

    Thanks for the love!

    The Chaotic Compass podcast was created by Stefanie Wainwright. Stefanie is a wife, a mom, and a business owner whose life is chaotic all the time. This podcast is meant to help you find the funny and the good while navigating through the chaos. Enjoy!
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  • 87. FAMILY EPISODE : Navigating Our Family of 6 Making A Podcast Episode

    87. FAMILY EPISODE : Navigating Our Family of 6 Making A Podcast Episode
    Apr 29 2024

    In today’s episode, it’s the whole fam! Yes all 6 of us sit down. We ask random questions, reminisce about our past times as a family and try our best to not talk over each other. Editing this episode took me FOREVER. But we have lots of laughs and it gives you a glimpse in what our life looks like on a regular basis. It’s chaos, you guys! Let’s go!

    For more content, check out my YouTube page here and my website here.

    Thanks for the love!

    The Chaotic Compass podcast was created by Stefanie Wainwright. Stefanie is a wife, a mom, and a business owner whose life is chaotic all the time. This podcast is meant to help you find the funny and the good while navigating through the chaos. Enjoy!
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  • 86. Mental Load: Navigating An Invisible Burden

    86. Mental Load: Navigating An Invisible Burden
    Apr 5 2024

    In today’s episode, I talk about mental load. What the heck is that? I discuss what it looks like in my life. I also give ways to work through it with your partner or someone you may be trying to delegate some of your tasks to. Let’s dive in!

    For more content, check out my YouTube page here and my website here.

    Thanks for the love!

    The Chaotic Compass podcast was created by Stefanie Wainwright. Stefanie is a wife, a mom, and a business owner whose life is chaotic all the time. This podcast is meant to help you find the funny and the good while navigating through the chaos. Enjoy!
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