In today’s episode, we explore how to reclaim your inner power during life’s toughest moments.

When challenges arise, it’s easy to slip into a victim mindset, asking, “Why is this happening to me?” But what if we could shift the narrative to “Why is this happening for me?”

Join me for practical strategies to find strength and resilience amidst life's most challenging moments.

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In this episode, we dive into the journey of building your dreams right where you are, focusing on the unique strengths, wisdom, and resources you already have.

This is for the women who feel it's time to take action but might be stuck waiting for the “perfect” moment or feel the pull of comparison.

Discover practical steps you can take today to lay a strong foundation, embrace your present resources, and shift your mindset to thrive in your 30s and 40s.

Tune In If You Want To:

• Stop waiting and start taking action with what you already have.
• Build confidence and momentum by focusing on today.
• Understand how to build on the foundation you already have and create a life you’re excited about.

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In this episode of Becoming Stacy, we dive into the one thing that’s guaranteed on your journey to success—but it’s also what holds most people back from ever taking that first step.

What is it?

The F Word....

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Failure! Tune in as I unpack why failure is not only inevitable but essential for growth and long-term success.

Learn how to shift your mindset, embrace setbacks, and use failure as a stepping stone instead of a roadblock.

• The Real Barrier to Success: Fear of failure can paralyze you, but avoiding failure only keeps you stuck.
• Reframing Failure: Why failure isn’t the opposite of success but a critical part of the process.
• Fail Fast, Fail Forward: How to embrace failure as a learning tool and move through it faster.
• Mindset Shift: Practical tips for changing how you approach failure, setting process-oriented goals, and bouncing back from setbacks.
• Failure as a Teacher: Why some of your biggest lessons will come from the times you fall short—and how these lessons will fuel your growth.

• “Failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s a necessary part of it.”
• “If you’re going to fail, you might as well fail forward.”
• “Success doesn’t teach you as much as failure does. It’s where the real growth happens.”

1. Normalize failure: Stop fearing it and start accepting that it’s part of the journey.
2. Learn from setbacks: After a failure, evaluate what went wrong and how you can improve.
3. Surround yourself with support: Create an environment where failure is understood and encouraged as part of growth.
4. Focus on the process: Set goals based on effort and action rather than outcomes, so you can fail forward without feeling defeated.

• Think and Grow Rich- By: Napoleon Hill Use my Failing Forward Guide to unpack what might be holding you back: DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE COPY HERE!

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In this episode of 'Becoming Stacy,' I discuss how women can embrace their femininity in a predominantly masculine society.

Sharing my experiences and challenges of balancing work, home responsibilities, and the importance of embodying feminine energy. I also emphasize the significance of self-reflection, open communication with partners, and creating a lifestyle that aligns with one's authentic self.

I also provide practical tips for incorporating joy and self-care into daily routines, ultimately aiming to inspire you to thrive by integrating both masculine and feminine energies.

We address the dualities within traditional household roles and the increased pressures on women today, balancing work and home responsibilities.

Let’s explore how integrating feminine energy and traditional roles can contribute to a more fulfilling and less stressful life!

00:00 Welcome and Show Appreciation

00:54 Embracing Femininity in a Masculine Society

03:26 Balancing Traditional and Modern Roles

06:45 Communicating and Sharing Responsibilities

08:31 Finding Joy in Traditional Roles

13:02 Personal Journey and Career Decisions

18:12 Reflecting on Personal Needs and Joys

22:41 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this deeply personal episode of Becoming Stacy, I share my recent journey through grief after experiencing not one, but two profound losses: the passing of my cherished pet and the unexpected departure of a beloved friend who was more like family.

Just days before these events, I attended a grief and loss conference that offered valuable insights—little did I know how soon I would need to apply those lessons to my own life.

Join me as I reflect on the raw emotions that surfaced during this time, from the heartbreak of loss to the struggle for acceptance in the face of life’s harsh realities.

I’ll discuss the importance of stopping to embrace these feelings rather than rushing through them, highlighting how this pause allows us to fully appreciate the moments we have.

Through shared experiences and practical takeaways from the conference, I’ll explore how we can honor our loved ones while also making the most of today.

This episode is an invitation to cherish every connection, find meaning in our grief, and seize the moments that matter before they slip away.

Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about love, loss, and the beauty of living intentionally.

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WELCOME BACK & please don't mind the sound quality, bear with me...

Let's talk all about perceptions and how they shape your reality. We are going to edit the story that your inner narrative continues to tell you so it becomes your most TRUE version!

Understanding Self-Worth and Living in the Present

In this episode of 'Becoming Stacy,’ Stacy takes listeners on a reflective journey during a road trip to Lake Michigan.

She shares personal updates about her family's changing plans due to her son's new sports commitments and deliberates on potentially downgrading their boat.

Stacy dives deep into the theme of self-worth, emphasizing that self-perception influences how we view others' judgments.

She advocates for living in the present, focusing on daily growth, and reassessing relationships that may not support personal development.

Stacy underscores the importance of resilience through hardships, acknowledging negative thoughts, and understanding one's true worth.

The episode concludes with Stacy's encouragement to subscribe to her email list for more motivational content and to follow her on Instagram.

00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Update

01:00 Life Update and Commitment to Moderation

06:03 Understanding Self-Worth and Perception

11:00 Embracing Hardships for Growth

14:06 Navigating Relationships and Communication

15:20 Closing Chapters and New Beginnings

16:10 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

22:04 Conclusion and Staying Connected

MOCKTAIL RECIPE:

3 oz. Organic Margarita Mix (original)

1 oz. 100% pomegranate juice

1 can lime La Croix or Bubbly

2 slices of fresh jalapeño

1/2 fresh squeezed lime juice

Sip & Enjoy; Cheers!

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