• How to be Prime Minister with Christopher Luxon
    Dec 14 2024

    This week, for the last episode of the year, Paula is joined by Prime Minister Christopher Luxon to discuss his first year in office and what he's learned in the country's top job. He also discusses where his values come from, how he keeps being PM separate from his family life, and how he copes with criticism.

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    26 mins
  • How to entertain this Christmas with Chelsea Winter
    Dec 7 2024

    This week, Paula's guest is celebrity chef, Chelsea Winter. They discuss how Masterchef changed her life, life in the public eye, and her move towards plant-based diets and the backlash she got for that. Chelsea shares her advice for having a stress-free Christmas when it comes to those big family meals.

    Her new cookbook, Tasty, is in stores now.

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    39 mins
  • How to master The Block and home renovations with Scott Cam
    Nov 30 2024

    This week, Paula's guest is Scott Cam, the host of The Block Australia. They discuss the latest season, airing now on Three, and his thoughts on how contestants have changed over the years, before Scott gives his advice for those planning their own home renovations.

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    36 mins
  • Mea Motu on surviving domestic violence - and choosing to forgive
    Nov 23 2024

    Warning: This episode discusses domestic violence and suicidal thoughts.

    This week, Paula's guest is boxing champion Mea Motu for an emotional interview as Motu discusses her experiences with domestic violence, why she got out for her children's sake, and why years later she learnt to put their feelings first in order to forgive her ex-husband.

    FAMILY VIOLENCE
    How to get help:
    If you're in danger now:
    • Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours or friends to ring for you.
    • Run outside and head for where there are other people. Scream for help so your neighbours can hear you.
    • Take the children with you. Don't stop to get anything else.
    • If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay.
    Where to go for help or more information:
    • Women's Refuge: Crisis line - 0800 REFUGE or 0800 733 843 (available 24/7)
    • Shine: Helpline - 0508 744 633 (available 24/7)
    • It's Not Ok: Family violence information line - 0800 456 450
    • Shakti: Specialist services for African, Asian and Middle Eastern women and children.
    • Crisis line - 0800 742 584 (available 24/7)
    • Ministry of Justice: For information on family violence
    • Te Kupenga Whakaoti Mahi Patunga: National Network of Family Violence Services
    • White Ribbon: Aiming to eliminate men's violence towards women.
    How to hide your visit:
    If you are reading this information on the Herald website and you're worried that someone using the same computer will find out what you've been looking at, you can follow the steps at the link here to hide your visit. Each of the websites above also has a section that outlines this process.

    Suicide and depression help services:

    If it is an emergency and you or someone else is at risk, call 111.

    For counselling and support:

    • Lifeline: http://www.lifeline.co.nz, call 0800 543 354 or text 4357 (HELP)
    • Suicide Crisis Helpline: www.lifeline.org.nz/services/suicide-crisis-helpline, or call 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)

    Youth services:

    • Youthline: Call 0800 376 633 or text 234
    • What's Up: Call 0800 942 8787 (11am to 11pm) or webchat (11am to 10.30pm)
    • Depression helpline: Call 0800 111 757 or text 4202 (available 24/7)
    • Helpline: Need to talk? Call or text 1737
    • Aoake te Rā (Bereaved by Suicide Service): Call 0800 000 053

    For more information and support, talk to your local doctor, hauora, community mental health team, or counselling service.

    The Mental Health Foundation has more helplines and service contacts - click here for information

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    46 mins
  • How to be a great CEO with Rhiannon McKinnon
    Nov 16 2024

    This week, Paula's guest is the CEO of Cassiobury, Rhiannon McKinnon. They discuss her pathway through the business community and moving to New Zealand, including her time as CEO of KiwiWealth, before getting her advice for the next generation of CEOs and business leaders.

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    44 mins
  • How to live an adventurous life with Sir Graeme Dingle and Jo-anne Wilkinson
    Nov 9 2024

    This week, Paula is joined by her longtime friends, adventurers and humanitarians, Sir Graeme Dingle and his wife Jo-anne Wilkinson. They discuss their many adventures together, Sir Graeme's mountaineering and the important work they are doing through the Graeme Dingle Foundation. They also share their advice on how to improve the lives of our young people, how we can better support those who are struggling and why boot camps might not be the answer.

    Sir Graeme's book, The Promise on One Tree Hill, is out now.

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    44 mins
  • How to get through a health crisis with Barry Soper
    Nov 2 2024

    This week, Paula's guest is a familiar name - Newstalk ZB senior political correspondent Barry Soper. He's Ask Me Anything's first returning guest, but Soper has a story to tell after a year of health difficulties. He discusses what he went through after heart surgery last year, and gives his insights and advice on being a parent, his expectations ahead of his seventh child arriving in January, and his thoughts on the coalition government.

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    37 mins
  • How to run an ethical brothel with Antonia Murphy
    Oct 26 2024

    This week, Paula's guest is Antonia Murphy, known for running the ethical brothel 'The Bach' in Whangarei from 2017 to 2019. They discuss how Murphy got into this line of work, and what the whole experience taught her about sex work, consent, and the lives of the women she came across. She also discusses her advice for moving on after losing a child.

    Madam, Murphy's memoir, is out now.

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    43 mins