Ever felt like you're hitting a brick wall when trying to use logic to solve emotional problems? You're not alone. Many of us have been conditioned to lean on logic, yet emotions don’t abide by the same rules. We explore how childhood stories of self-worth create emotional blocks that logic alone can't dismantle. By learning to embrace and process emotions, we can transform these blocks into breakthroughs, moving toward true self-acceptance and shedding the illusion of being broken.

Facing resistance and fear when striving for important goals is a common struggle. But instead of pushing harder, Wendy suggests a different approach: pause and observe the emotions that surface. Shifting focus from productivity to curiosity about our desires allows for personal growth. This episode invites you to sit with your feelings without judgment and see what unfolds. As always, Wendy encourages listeners to engage with these insights, sharing them with others who might benefit from a deeper understanding of themselves. Reach out to Wendy via email or Instagram for further conversation and support.

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Curious about the transformative power of cacao and plant medicines? Join me, as I chat with the remarkable Ifey a doctor-turned-herbalist who founded Eight Within, an online apothecary. Ifey's journey from a conventional medical career to embracing the spiritual essence of plants offers invaluable insights into self-discovery. Her story of a life-altering experience in Costa Rica reveals how cacao became a catalyst for unlocking infinite wisdom within, with her mission being to empower individuals to tap into their inner potential.

Throughout our discussion, we delve into the fascinating relationship between spirituality and plant-based remedies, sharing personal stories that highlight the profound impact of these natural substances. We explore the spirit of plants, from passion flower to trees, and how they can transform perceptions and enhance well-being. Ifey opens up about the challenges of maintaining authenticity in the business of plant medicine, while ensuring these powerful tools remain accessible and enjoyable for everyone.

Discover how cacao can serve as a grounding force for those with fiery astrological influences, promoting emotional resilience and healthier responses to life's complexities. Ife shares insights into the biochemical wonders of cacao, offering long-term benefits such as improved heart and brain health. We also touch upon embracing vulnerability and trust, transitioning from hyper-independence to collaboration. Don't miss this episode!

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What if the very armor you wear to guard your emotions is what’s holding you back from true connection? Join me, as I challenge the misconceptions around vulnerability and hyper-independence. Many caregivers and fixers, like myself, often find it difficult to open up to receiving love and help, creating barriers to deep connections and self-expression. In this enlightening episode, we redefine vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness, enabling genuine communication and curiosity. We unpack the internal chaos that stems from maintaining a facade of self-sufficiency and explore how these behaviors can lead to unspoken fears of rejection and not belonging.

By reconnecting with our youngest selves, we can address the roots of hyper-independence and bring to light what this present version of us needs to express. Throughout the episode, I share personal insights and stories that highlight the importance of letting go of the emotional masks we often wear. We look at how embracing our emotional blocks and imperfections can lead to deeper relationships and a stronger connection with others. Listen in to explore how acknowledging these shared insecurities can foster growth and intimacy, transforming the way we relate to ourselves and those around us.

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Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of just getting by, always in survival mode? Join me as I unravel the journey from surviving to thriving. In this episode, we tackle the distinction between these two states and explore how embracing emotional agility and openness can lead to growth and positive change. Through personal anecdotes and insights from my own transition out of survival mode, discover how shifting your mindset and becoming more flexible in thoughts and actions can break rigid patterns and foster a thriving life.

To maintain this thriving state, we dive into practical daily practices that are essential for well-being. From ensuring basic needs like sleep and nutrition to integrating movement and nature, self-care is a vital part of living a fulfilling life. I share the transformative power of mirror work and affirmations like "I love myself, I trust myself, I am enough," which help in developing self-awareness and recognizing when to make changes or pause to address unmet needs. With a curious and non-judgmental approach, we'll explore how to move beyond rigid self-improvement norms and embrace agility to create momentum for lasting change.

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Think resilience is the ultimate strength? Think again. Discover why clinging to rigid behaviors in the name of control might be stunting your personal growth and limiting your emotional experiences. Join me as I challenge the glorification of resilience and guide you towards embracing emotional agility. We'll reframe your understanding of emotions—from perceived threats to mere data—and help you identify where rigidity is holding you back.

Reflect on your own life: Are your repetitive actions a shield against uncomfortable emotions? Through this episode, you'll learn to shift from a rigid mindset to one of adaptability, feeling, and true strength. Stop focusing on fixing perceived flaws and start accepting the full spectrum of your humanity, both messy and joyful. Tune in to uncover how emotional flexibility can lead to genuine transformation, and don't hesitate to reach out with your thoughts or share this episode with someone who might need it.

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What if avoiding our true desires is just another way of avoiding vulnerability; because we fear vulnerability as weakness? When in reality if we shift and reframe vulnerabilty to honesty, we can see where we are kidding ourselves, being dishonest out loud and ultimately, sneakily lying to ourselves?

Discover the courage it takes to practice self-honesty and how emotional agility can pave the way for meaningful connections. We delve into the fears of rejection and conflict that drive our avoidance tendencies, leading to self-censorship and disconnection. Learn how honest communication, even when uncomfortable, serves as a catalyst for personal growth and stronger relationships. Reflect on your own challenges with honesty and be inspired to engage in open dialogues, despite uncertainties, for a more authentic and connected life.

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Can the relentless drive for success actually stem from childhood loneliness? In this eye-opening episode, I dig in the to the lesser-talked about emotional roots of Type A personalities. We'll trace the origins of these traits back to the 1950s when cardiologists first identified them, and discuss how their outward continuous drive is often an internal struggle for validation and emotional support. Through my extensive work, I've seen how these individuals' high ambition, perfectionism, and fear of failure are coping mechanisms for feeling unseen during their formative years. This episode sheds light on the true motivations behind their productivity and sense of urgency—offering a fresh perspective on what really drives Type A behaviour.

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What happens when clarity and passion slip through your fingers? Join me as I recount my battle with burnout and feeling suffering both personally and professionally. Discover how paralyzing it can be to lose sight of what you want and need, and how seeking the right kind of help can reignite your passion.

In this episode of "And What Else," I delve into the intricate dance between passion, clarity, and action. Learn how gaining clarity can rekindle your passion and drive, transforming uncertainty into renewed DRIVE and passion. I'll walk you through my journey of questioning my career choices and how finding clarity brought me back to podcasting with a fresh perspective. If you've ever felt stuck this episode offers might be just what you need! Especially if you have somehow tied suffering with part of who you are and what success costs!

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