• The 9-C Life Part 3 "Curiosity" Season 4 Episode 3
    Jan 27 2025

    It was a wild week, wasn't it? I, for one, am ready for a fresh start. The question is, what do I want this week to look like? I can choose any one of the '9 C’s’—curious, calm, compassionate, clear, creative, courageous, confident, or choice. They are all qualities that ground and center me.


    I especially love the idea of curiosity, though, and it creates the week I yearn for.


    For me, curiosity cures a multitude of evils.

    • When I judge my neighbor, I can instead choose curiosity about what kind of day they’ve had and feel more compassionate towards them.
    • When I judge myself, I can alleviate self-pity or discouragement by wondering what part of me was protecting or defending myself that I chose the regretful actions I just carried out. I can get curious about what’s going on inside.
    • When I’m having a day where everyone just plain seems stupid (it’s not about ya’ll at all, it’s all about me) I can entertain myself out of that bad mood with curiosity. Telling funny stories is one of my favorite pastimes.


    The bottom line is that curiosity is my 1st line of defense against judgment, and judging others never brings me happiness.


    There are many other benefits of curiosity. Willingly opening your mind to put your own opinion in the background while exploring another’s perspective can help you feel less stressed and anxious and even foster a sense of compassion or understanding. That’ll bring your blood pressure down.


    Physically, curiosity keeps your brain active and reduces cognitive decline as we age. Remarkably, there is a correlation between being curious and feeling more positive. (https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1207/s15327752jpa8203_05). Seth Godin(https://www.wholegraindigital.com/blog/curiosity-is-the-key-to-solving-problems/ )even says it’s the key to solving problems. He suggests trying to see more gray than black and white by engaging your curiosity skills.


    Curiosity brings growth.

    Curiosity brings delight.

    Curiosity can bring forgiveness.


    There’s a reason curiosity is part of a centered self.

    So this week, if you find yourself feeling extra judgy or off-center, pause, breathe, and choose curiosity instead. See where it takes you—it might just surprise you.


    You’ll see the difference.


    All my love,

    Beth


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    36 mins
  • Season 3 Episode 3 A Conversation on Clarity and Creating
    Jan 20 2025

    Boost your energy, find clarity, and embrace peace with this quick and powerful podcast—designed to inspire and uplift you!

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    11 mins
  • Faith Fueled, Creator Led; The Secret to Accomplishing More with Less
    Jan 13 2025

    Happy January! Are you longing for the cozy, slow vacation life of the holidays yet? Now that we are full swing into 2025, and vacation is simply a memory, the idea of living a "faith-fueled, creator-led" life could sound like a happy illusion. I know the to-do list is long, and the time seems short. We’re all a little swamped.

    But consider this: What if the secret to creating balance and fulfilling your purpose isn’t about doing more but doing less and expecting more?

    You know, I promised that we would learn more about the power of mindfulness this quarter, and leaning into the principles of Creation in this backward law will do just that. In this 9-part series, we’ll explore what I like to call our ‘9C Life.’ Dick Schwartz and his IFS System inspired me. Dr. Schwartz organized nine aspects of the authentic self. They are Calmness, Clarity, Curiosity, Compassion, Confidence, Courage, Creativity, Connectedness, and Choice. Using these nine principles in the Creator-based® Way, we will bring energy up this winter and accomplish your goals in these long, dark days of snow and ice. Trust me, this stuff is powerful.

    The Creator-Based® Way: The Power of Five Principles

    Before we dive into the *9Cs*, it’s important to understand the foundation upon which we’ll build this series. The Creator-Based® Way is a holistic approach to living that centers around five core principles that allow us to live with purpose, presence, and power. Remember these? You are the creator of your life experience. You have within you light and truth, all the power you need to grow and progress. Happiness is most likely to be achieved when founded on faith, compassion, mindfulness, and hope. We are different by design. And, of course…Change is a gift.

    With these principles in mind, let’s look at the first ‘C’ in our ‘9C Life’ series—Calmness.

    How can you be calm when your to-do list feels bottomless? When there are bills to pay? Things to watch or keep up with? Cars to fix and snow to shovel? Ah, my friend, no worries. Pause and enjoy a long, deep breath. Okay, maybe this one is short and in your chest, but try a second deep breath. It's better, right? Okay, now, the third breath is long and deep with a good, long exhale. That calm you just created is a faith-fueled gift!

    Calmness allows us to tap into our inner wisdom, think clearly, and make choices aligned with our chosen goals and purpose. At first glance, calmness may seem like the opposite of productivity. After all, don’t we need to hustle, act quickly, and achieve results to be successful? It’s a common falsehood that busyness = productivity. The ‘backward law’ of mindfulness suggests something different: Do less. Expect more.

    It’s true. When you slow down and choose to be more present, you accomplish more because you can see all of those little things you would typically skim by. Slowing down makes you more productive. We create more space for clarity, creativity, and meaningful action. It’s in the stillness between our breaths we often find the answers and the solutions we’ve been seeking. We become more focused, intentional, and present- and y’all, it’s wild when you deliberately slow your walk, your hand movement, or your breathing. You make fewer mistakes, leave space for our Creator to Communicate with you, and become substantially more effective in your life.

    Besides the truth of a Faith-fueled, Creator-led life, here’s why this works: When we are constantly rushing or running on autopilot, our minds are scattered, and our energy is fragmented. We may appear productive, but it’s all on the surface. Our thoughts lack depth and connection. Conversely, when we slowly and deliberately approach life with calmness and mindfulness, we create space for deeper thinking and clearer decision-making, and remarkably, by slowing down, our productivity increases. It is an act of faith to Do Less and Expect More- and that faith is richly rewarded.


    All my love,

    :) Beth


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    35 mins
  • Season 3 Episode 17 3 Gifts of Christmas
    Jan 6 2025

    "The 3 Gifts of Christmas: A Holiday Surprise You’ll Want to Unwrap" Merry Christmas- see you in the New Year!

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    48 mins
  • Season 4 Episode 1 Self- Respect?
    Jan 6 2025

    Trevega BookClub - Meet the Authors this week, Wednesday at 1:30CST- here's the link! https://us02web.zoom.us/j/175298686. See you there!You know those mornings when you wake up feeling grumpy for no real reason? That was me today. So, I did what I’ve learned to do in those moments—I carved out some quiet time to study, pray, and ponder. I was searching for answers, trying to figure out, *How can I feel better? How do I shift this mood?* As I sat there, with my scriptures open and my thoughts swirling, something gentle but clear came to me—like a whisper to my heart: *self-respect.* It wasn’t loud or dramatic, but it stopped me in my tracks. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Self-respect, rooted in respectus (Latin for "regard" or "looking back"), is the regard for one’s inherent worth. It requires recognizing your divine potential, setting boundaries, and making choices with personal integrity. Self-respect is the beginning of confidence, resilience, and an enduring sense of value, essential for personal growth and healthy relationships. It’s less about what you do or achieve and more about valuing yourself simply because you are you.“Self-respect”, that quiet reminder that I had forgotten my personal importance in existence, helped me realize that I can practice right in those moments when I’m not at my best. It’s about choosing kindness for myself, even on the grumpy mornings. Recognizing my value in the world, simply because I am who I am. So I asked myself, What’s one small thing I can do right now to honor and respect myself? For me, it was as simple as gratitude, letting go of the negativity, connecting with my Creator, and deciding to take the day one small step at a time. Feeling a little convicted, like I was? Here are some ideas for course correction- you are so worth it!Create Hope. Start with Baby Steps: Self-respect grows incrementally. Begin with simple actions, like affirming your worth daily. For example, each morning, look in the mirror and say, “I deserve love and divine help. I am important.” Take small steps toward aligning your actions with your values. If health is a priority, start by drinking more water or walking 10 minutes daily. These manageable actions reinforce your sense of personal control and build confidence. Besides, exercise in however small a form is a natural antidepressant. You’ll feel better.Embody Compassion: Treat yourself with the kindness you would extend to a dear friend. When setbacks occur, instead of criticism, offer grace. Remind yourself, “I’m learning and growing. Progress, not perfection, is what matters.” Give yourself permission to be human.Practice Mindfulness: Being present and out of your head makes all the difference. In a present state, your curiosity helps you notice patterns and make conscious choices that reflect self-respect. Ready for a mini vacation? Take five minutes to breathe deeply. Meditation allows you to reflect on your emotions and create peace. Ask yourself, “What do I need right now to feel supported?” Maybe it’s havening touch, maybe a hug, or smelling something lovely. Answer your question and do it. That’s soothing self-care at its finest.Self-respect isn’t just for the good days—it’s also the key to navigating the harder ones. Let’s make this week about baby steps toward the life you want to create. You’re worth it.So here’s my challenge: What’s one small step you can take today to honor the gift to the world you are? Maybe giving yourself grace, choosing a kind thought, or pausing for peace. You’ve got this, and I’m cheering for you every step of the way!

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    38 mins
  • Season 3 Episode 16 The Plumb Line
    Dec 9 2024

    Feeling a little wonky during the holidays? We can help. join Beth, jenn and Jaycine as they share tools on methods to bring yourself back "plumb" with vertical thinking. Remember to join us on Saturday for Jaycine's Year End Review Workshop. Register by clicking here! https://cmhbeth.myflodesk.com/gvjiwmklpf


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    56 mins
  • Season 3 Episode 15 Do a Little Good
    Dec 2 2024

    Join Jaycine, Jenn, and Beth as they lead you toward accomplishing more during the holidays!


    And- remember to register for Jaycine's Jumpstart Your Life Class on Dec 14!

    Check it out here!

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    47 mins
  • Season 3 Episode 14 Gratitude Sips and Coping with Company
    Nov 26 2024

    Join us for Jaycine's Jumpstart Class, "Year End Review, Whole New You!" Saturday, Dec 14 at 9 am CST on Zoom-

    Sign up here

    Thank you. Two tiny, powerful words that, when combined, heal wounds, open doors, and create hope.


    Thank you for who you are.

    What you bring to this world is vitally important.

    I am humbled and grateful to be a part of the world you inhabit.


    It has been said that you are never happier than you are grateful.

    That’s true.

    Gratitude is a superpower.

    It is a stepping stone to joy.


    So, how does that apply to today?

    Well, friend, what would you think of trying a little experiment with me this week?


    Every time you take a drink of water or whatever it is you love to drink, have a silent thank you moment with our Creator.


    Could you do that for the next few days in preparation for Thanksgiving? It’s a busy time of year, I know.

    Pausing to be grateful will give you that added peace and strength you’ve sought.

    (It’s a backward law, but slowing down helps us get more done! An added perk for this overflowing season.)


    Try it- Call it a Gratitude Sip.

    We can’t live without water.

    We can’t live well without gratitude.


    Supercharge your life this week- try the Gratitude Sip.


    All my love,

    Beth

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    44 mins