• Synopsis: Romance isn’t just for the dating stage. This episode provides practical tips for men to become romantic and loving partners again, despite years of emotional drift. From date ideas, spontaneous gestures, and how to emotionally reconnect, all are discussed in this episode.

Episode Guide:

• Practical date ideas and small romantic gestures to reignite love.

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• Discuss how to rebuild emotional intimacy before physical intimacy.

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• Explore the impact of daily affection and attention.

Attention means deep listening, being totally present, having empathy, trying to see from our partner’s perspective.

It means we’re not in a hurry to give advice and react; not in a hurry to interrupt.

Our body language actually shows we are deeply listening.

Appreciating our partner has a direct effect on their health and well-being. Recent interesting data from Gallop shows the following statistics:

• If a manager criticises his or her subordinates then disengagement grows to 25% and people who work for that manager get sick

• If the manager ignores them, disengagement grows to 45%

• But if a manager notices a single strength and appreciates that strength, disengagement falls to less than 1% and people stay healthy.

(Aside from the disastrous effects on the couple relationship, which is our focus here, economically this is said to cost $280 billion to the U.S. economy.)

Affection is deep caring and knowing that we are there for the other person.

In the language of neuroplasticity, we can say this kind of engagement in relationship rewires the brain in a direction where love actually becomes a healing force. It influences hormones, cell repair, homeostasis (biological self-regulation and self-repair).

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