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We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

By: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
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 After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20PolicyAshley Gavin & Studio71 Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319

    When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319
    Apr 13 2026
    This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through Chelsea Cutler. Emily has a crush on Ashley. FOLLOW CHELSEA CUTLER: Listen to “Sorry I’m Obsessed With You” RIGHT NOW: https://chelseacutler.lnk.to/SORRY Videos and More: https://linktr.ee/chelseacutler Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelseacutler/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chelseacutler Twitter: https://x.com/chelseacutler FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW EMILY WILSON @therealemilywilson See her live in Austin, TX: https://www.therealemilywilson.com/ Watch her special, “FIXED,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/ PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/MoEMTkLqzKE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318

    Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318
    Apr 6 2026
    This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. Ashley needs sex therapy. Lizzy gets strapped down (poorly). FOLLOW ANDREA ALLAN: Listen to “Respectfully” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/@respectfullypodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreacomedy69/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andreacomedy69 Weekly Stand-Up Show: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bitches-brew-free-comedy-stand-up-and-variety-show-tickets-172309360937 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/fhaGOHz09J4 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” for 50% OFF and FREE daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317

    Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317
    Mar 30 2026
    This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance. FOLLOW FRANCHESCA RAMSEY: Listen to “Lemme Fix It!” NOW, on all platforms: https://www.youtube.com/@FixItpod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chescaleigh/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@franchesca_leigh Threads: https://www.threads.com/@chescaleigh FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_Apr0VftjVw ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FEELD: Try Reflections by downloading the Feeld app or visiting https://feeld.co/reflections Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 12 mins
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