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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist

Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse

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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist

By: Debbie Mirza
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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused.

These people are well-liked; they are often the pillars of the community. Parents, spouses, bosses, and friends who are covert narcissists come across as the nicest people. They can be spiritual leaders, they are moms who bring over casseroles to needy people, they are the bosses who everyone loves and feels so lucky to work for.

These relationships are incredibly confusing and damaging. They leave you questioning your own sanity and reality. Even though they are treating you terribly, you wonder if you are the problem, if you are the one to blame. You are filled with constant self-doubt when it comes to these people in your life. When you are around them, you feel confused and muddled inside. You have a hard time seeing clearly.

These relationships can bring you to a state of deep depression and complete depletion of energy. You may wonder if you will ever see clearly and heal from these destructive and debilitating relationships.

This audiobook will give you hope that you can heal and feel alive again, or maybe for the first time. You will learn what the traits of a covert narcissist are, as well as how they control and manipulate. Your eyes will open, and your experience will be validated. You will also learn ways to heal and actually enjoy life again.

Debbie Mirza uses decades of her own experience with covert narcissists as well as her years of practice as a life coach who specializes in helping people recover and heal from these types of relationships.

©2017 Debra Mirza (P)2018 Debra Mirza
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Very helpful, but repetitive

well thought through, and inspirational, but does cover the same ground over and over again without the level of depth I would really have liked

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Thank god I found this book!!!

This book has been a complete eye opener for me!! It helped me putting together all the missing pieces and confirmed everything I was feeling. After this ,everything made sense and my confusion disappeared. I’ve never come across a book,where every single word made so much sense. If you’re looking for answers about covert narcissists,you‘ll find them in there!!! An enormous help!! Thank you Debbie Mirza!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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Very validating

So glad I read it, has given me hope and insight. Thank you very much!

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Incredible

This book resonated all of my experiences entirely, and perfectly. It’s undeniably brilliant. And to have the author narrate was absolutely superb.

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So much insight ans wisdom!

This is such and important and poorly understood topic. Essential reading for anyone going through or recovering from covert abuse.

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The most beautiful and inspiring book

This book is absolutely amazing. Debbie fills her book with insights and wisdom that are totally compelling. She has a way of communicating that is full of love and understanding. I cannot fully give credit to the depth and compassion that she embodies in this healing and wonderful book. Anyone who has suffered emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissist must read this, it is life changing. Thank you Debbie so much.

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I really related to Debbie Mirzas writing ❤️

Debbie Mirza writes from the heart, her own personal experience as well as from others who have experienced Covert Narc abuse. I found it very clarifying of my own experiences. Unlike any other book on Narcissistic abuse, which I found never really accurately related to, this really spoke to me. As a therapist I feel it has given me a broader deeper understanding of Covert Narc abuse. If you believe you have experienced an unhealthy relationship and are struggling to understand it all, give this a read and it might clarify things for you as well as be comfort, to know you are not alone. Debbie also goes on to help with some ways in which heal and move forward.

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very educative

loved it, it is very educative, the examples make it really interesting to listen to

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Excellent

Really enjoyed reading this book. As a previous psychiatric trainee doctor I can’t believe that I didn’t see the narcissists in my life. It’s given me the reassurance that resection was the only way forward.

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Excellent book about covert narcissism

Very helpful in clarifying concerns regarding certain relationships and people in my life. Wish I had found it sooner.

Debbie has a very easy to listen to voice and explains everything about covert narcissism in a way that reassured me I was not imagining things.

Already listened twice and will listen again.
Thank you for this important book Debbie.

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