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Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't

By: Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
Narrated by: Dick Fredricks
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Summary

Safe People will help you discover why good people can get tangled in bad relationships, how to avoid repeating your own mistakes, and how to pick safe, healthy people for the friends you make and the company you keep.

Too many of us have invested in relationships that have gone wrong. Maybe you've been judged, manipulated, or controlled. Or maybe you've trusted the wrong people in the past. It's easy to make the same mistakes of judgment over and over - or, worse, to give up on trying to have great, authentic relationships again. But it doesn't have to be that way.

In Safe People, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend teach you that being with an unsafe person can be damaging to your confidence, your trust in others, and even your health. You'll learn that you have the power to surround yourself with accepting, honest, and safe people who draw you closer to being the person God intended you to be.

Drs. Cloud and Townsend, authors of the New York Times best seller Boundaries, are here to share the lessons they've learned in their years of practicing psychology and studying the patterns and practices that support clear, biblical boundaries. In Safe People, they offer guidance for making safe choices in all of your day-to-day relationships, from family and friends to colleagues and partners.

Safe People will give you the tools you need to recognize what makes people relationally safe, form positive relationships, and even become a safe person along the way. Drs. Cloud and Townsend share expert insights that will help you ask important questions:

  • How can I learn to pick better friends?
  • Why do I choose people who let me down?
  • How did I end up with this critical boss?
  • How do I attract irresponsible people?
  • Why did I invest money with that unscrupulous person?
  • What is it about me that draws the wrong types of people to me?
  • Why am I drawn to the wrong types of people?

It's time to revitalize your connections and finally start enjoying the healthy, balanced relationships that you deserve.

©1995 Henry Cloud and John Townsend (P)2009 Zondervan
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Beautiful and great. It is a must listen to for everyone. We all need safe people in our lives.

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Exceptional!

Useful for building meaningful relationships. Good, sound advise built on biblical truths. A must read.

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For anyone who is hoping to get the best out of this book. Please read the whole book.
Thank you Holyspirit for revealing such truths to men in order to help the broken

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I enjoyed this book, it really highlights the difference between safe and unsafe people, in a variety of settings no matter how subtle. I will refer to this book on creating the ability towards find attracting more safe people.

I recommend this book if you've struggled with relationships.

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one of the best books I've ever read. A must read

This book is like getting counselling, in book form. I only wish i had read this years ago, as a child or teen. i could have avoided so many unsafe relationships, or known how to deal with them.... and how to find good friends. If time travel was possible, I'd go back to read this! and I'll be reading it again, soon

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I found this Audiobook very interesting and helpful and easy to follow. I'm glad I chose it.

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The narrator wasn’t right for me

Unfortunately I’m returning the book. Above everything I found the narrator too animated for the subject matter which really affected how I was able te receive the content.

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If you can ignore the very annoying God God God talk, there is Great wisdom there.

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