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Nobody Will Tell You This but Me

By: Bess Kalb
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A brilliantly original memoir of a grandmother speaking to her granddaughter from beyond the grave, telling the story of her life with hilarious candor and love.

Bess Kalb has saved every voicemail message her grandmother - her best friend, her confidante - ever left her until the day she died.

In this wildly imaginative memoir, Bobby Bell's voice is still in Bess's head. Stubborn, glamorous, larger than life, she gives Bess critical advice on everything and tells the history that made them both. Beginning with her mother's escape from the pogroms of Belarus in the 1880s to the rambunctiously cramped Brooklyn apartment where Bobby was born, it swings through her loving marriage, blazes over the rebellious youth of her daughter and finally - falls madly in love with her granddaughter, Bess. 

Nobody Will Tell You This But Me are the truths - full of devotion, killer instincts and hard-won experience - that Bess's grandmother tells even when they hurt - and even though she's gone.

This unusual love story celebrates the bond of women across generations and the personalities that live on through grief and love. Told through documents, photographs, and verbatim dialogue, it's a memoir like none you've ever read before.

©2020 Bess Kalb (P)2020 Hachette Audio UK Women Witty Funny Heartfelt Inspiring Memoir

Critic reviews

I LOVED THIS BOOK MORE THAN I CAN SAY - NIGELLA LAWSON

I HAVE NOT BEEN AS PROFOUNDLY MOVED BY A BOOK IN YEARS - JODI PICOULT
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Loved every minute of this. Such a beautiful story, well told and narrated. I'd recommend to everyone.

Fabulous!

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I decided to read Kalb's novel as it was recommended by Nigella Lawson. I can now see why she commented it was one of her favourite books.
The story is a personal oral history of two lives- that of a grandmother and granddaughter- told from the perspective of the late grandmother.
the story made me reflect on my own life, my own relationships, the oral history that I pass down to my children and that which has been passed down to me.
The story is simultaneously hilarious and moving and i got to the end to realise I had tears streaming down my face.
now that I have listened to it, I shall add it to my list of books to buy and I shall likely read it over and over.
In addition, Kalb's reading of her own novel is a piece of art in and of itself .
"keep moving forward".

hilarious and moving

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Beautifully-written evocative, moving and hilarious matrilineal love story between a granddaughter and grandmother, which will make you laugh and cry in turn. Immediately after finishing I brought this for my own mother and grandma.

Favourite book of the year!

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My mother bought me this book at the start of lockdown and having read it once I realised I wanted to be able to listen to it again and again. This is a moving, poignant, funny and brilliantly written account of a daughter, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. It’s also wonderfully narrated by the author.

Brilliant

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This is a love story between a Jewish grandmother and her grandchild which is sensitive; funny w self deprecating humour and “schmaltzy”. As a biography it charts a family’s progress, as (one of) a reflection of the history of Jews in America; escape from oppression to opportunity and from poverty to wealth. It doubles as a cherished memoir, celebrating and immortalising an inter generational relationship The book’s appeal is both universal and niche and one identifies easily with themes of continuity and heritage. The author, as narrator, provides a nuanced authenticity, complementing the piece but the American accent was occasionally annoying . Nevertheless, it stayed amusing and didn’t go on too long !

A sensitive tribute

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