Heartbroken
Field Notes on a Constant Condition
Failed to add items
Add to basket failed.
Add to wishlist failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
£0.00 for first 30 days
Buy Now for £12.99
No valid payment method on file.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Laura Pratt
-
By:
-
Laura Pratt
About this listen
Imbued with longing, erudition and hard-earned wisdom, Heartbroken dares to delve into a universal ordeal—perhaps the one that makes us the most human of all.
When Laura Pratt’s long-distance partner of six years tells her “it’s over” at a busy downtown train station, she is sent reeling, the breakup coming out of the blue. He, meanwhile, closes himself off, refusing to acknowledge Laura and her requests for explanation.
In the following days, months, and then years, Laura struggles to make sense of this sudden ending, alone and filled with questions. A journalist, she seeks to understand the freefall that is heartbreak and how so many before her survived it, drawing on forces across time and form, and uncovers literary, philosophical, scientific and psychological accounts of the mysterious alchemy of how we human beings fall in love in the first place, and why, when it ends, some of us take longer to get over it, or never do. She weaves this background of cultural history with her own bracing story of passionate love and its loss, and offers some hope for arriving—changed, broadened, grateful—on the other side.
©2023 Laura Pratt (P)2023 Random House CanadaCritic reviews
“Pratt candidly takes us through the throes of heartbreak.... Her language is raw and emotional, her journey entirely relatable. She tempers this emotion with a journalistic approach to dealing with heartbreak, including data, quotes, studies and cultural references about love, loss, grief and moving on. I’m sure many of us can see ourselves in Pratt when we too were at the lowest of our low following a split.” —The Toronto Star
“With lyrical prose and startling honesty, Laura Pratt writes about a familiar condition. Who among us has not been heartbroken? But despite the common thread running through this memoir, I’ve never read anything like it. There is such rare beauty in the candid generosity of Pratt’s words as she invites us to indulge our broken hearts, then take the pieces and build something new with the knowledge she has shared. Many will feel seen and comforted by this beautiful work of emotional art.” —Marissa Stapley, New York Times bestselling author of Lucky
“Laura Pratt is a marvelous writer. If you’re reeling from a fresh heartbreak—or still mystified by the impact of ancient one—Heartbroken will help you heal it. This is an astonishingly generous and profoundly intelligent book filled with arresting insights. It lets you in on the author’s own exquisite heartache and reckoning with it, while allowing you to more deeply understand your own relationship with loves lost. I devoured it.” —Haley McGee, author of The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale
What listeners say about Heartbroken
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- FreyaG
- 14-02-23
Fascinating study of a breakup.
This is a fascinating book, a very personal study of a relationship breakdown and the despair of being ghosted. I did not find the author’s voice an easy listen. It does hold you as you really want to know if her lover will ever respond to the, what some might term, harassment of the emails, texts & the gifts that the author persists in sending to her ex for longer than the 6 years that their relationship lasted.
I can relate to this - her longing to reconnect and I did enjoy her references to literature and psychological studies of heartbreak but I found one thing disingenuous; throughout the book the author states that her ex never contacted her after saying they were over but in the final chapters we learn that there was in fact an email from him to her shortly after he split that she says she has only read once. She quotes many of his love notes but we don’t get to hear the full content of this final email. Perhaps if we knew what he wrote we’d learn more of his feelings; perhaps if she reread it she’d understand more.
I feel the problem with this book is that it’s the author’s view of her experience and it’s written without her ex’s permission or input so you are left feeling uneasy and that you’ve intruded on their privacy.
Wishing them both peace.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!