Harrowing, humorous & ultimately filled with hope

Having read and loved several of the author’s books, I didn’t hesitate to download her memoir. Written with the same consummate skill, it drew me in immediately. A life laid bare, littered with trauma, tragedy and a heartbreaking sense of missing out on what so many of us take for granted. A mother’s unconditional love.
When a shocking event rocks both Louise and her family’s lives, the reader begins to understand the deep-rooted damage caused over decades. Yet … like the titular daffodils, resilience shines through and strength is gained from the knowledge that some people cannot be *fixed*. In the end, we can only do so much. Happiness is something we all seek. Finding it can be hard.
Although I enjoyed the narration, as an audio book newbie I missed the chance to take notes on my device. Because there are so many memorable lines - often darkly comical - that my brain could not retain. Suffice it to say that the author has again proven herself not only a genius with words but a true survivor with a heart of solid gold.

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Simply incredible

Moving, funny, beautifully told. This is an incredibly inspiring memoir. I adored every moment even those that broke my heart.
This is not simply a story of a narcissistic mother, but of the incredible, enduring bond of love between siblings with a dark wit and immense generosity of spirit.
I applaud Louise Beech's bravery and vulnerability in sharing this story.

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Emotional memoir

I’m a sucker for pathos, and this book is chocka block with it. Heartbreaking, funny, candid, and brave throughout, it is the story of how committed siblings - with the help of their uncle - steer their way through their mother’s neglect, abuse, mental health crises, alcoholism, and attempted suicides. It’s Louise’s story, but the voices of her siblings and uncle add a whole new layer of depth to the story, which she manages to tell from a foundation of strength and survival. Never is it whiny or self-pitying. And yes, I laughed out loud in places, although the afterword brought tears to my eyes. Highly recommend.

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Brilliant

Louise has bravely written her story of childhood neglect and abuse and it’s reverberations in adulthood. This is a warm story with the close bonds of siblings at its heart. The dark humour of survivors is a real balm. It will be helpful for anyone struggling to end a relationship with an elderly or vulnerable mother. And particularly if they suspect their mother has narcissistic personality disorder. Thank you Louise and family for sharing your story.

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I can't find the words!

Oh my goodness,so relatable, Louise and family you deserve happy ever after now and I hope you get it . Amazing memoir but painful, having grown up with an alcoholic parent I could really relate and this is so brilliantly written and narrated I have listened all night I couldn't stop! There are so many things I want to say but I just can't find the words! I just wish Louise and her family so much love and hope that their lives are full of joy, serenity and love now.

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Moving and powerful

A brutally honest story, written and performed brilliantly. I'll look out for more books with this narrator - I already look out for Louise Beech's books!

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Just stunning!

Beautifully written and narrated. Such a powerful story.

Resonated with me on a far deeper level than I ever expected. Our lives were similar but totally different. Thank you Louise for the insight into parents with NPD and for sharing your difficult but equally uplifting story. Your often overwhelmingly emotional and traumatic story is beautifully counterbalanced with powerful sibling love and connections. I LOVED the WhatsApp group dialogues which were both supportive and amusing - the ability to retain a sense of humour through the darkest of times. Just fantastic.

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Wow

Beautifully written. Once I started to listen I was hooked and finished the book in a couple of days. Congratulations Louise. Wishing you and your family the happiness you all deserve.

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A memoir both sad and inspirational

Louise Beech didn't have a straightforward childhood with reliable parents to make her feel safe and as this memoir reveals the consequences can reach well into the future. What I loved was that Louise, and her three siblings show a tenacity and sense of humour that many others in her type of situation use to 'make it through.' I like that because all too often tales of quite frankly horrid childhoods intimate that once the die is cast. Let's just say some of the humour resonated with this listener.

This memoir covers her mother's attempted suicide in 2019 and Louise's writing of the book during lockdown in 2020, but the roots go way back into the past, the uncovering of social care records and reveals some of the gaps in memory that lie within us all.

A brave and honest reconstruction made all the more powerful by the tone of the retelling.

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Wow so honest and powerful

I can’t begin to find the words to describe this book but just wow! From the first chapter I was hooked! The honesty of such a traumatic life and how you kept going and became the person you are is amazing thank god you had your siblings! You are all so strong to even talk about it and loved that you could still find humour through it. Thank you for sharing I am sure it will help other people who have/are experiencing the same issues in life! It shows so much strength and resilience that children have but also how things can affect you in older life! Would highly recommend this book!

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