Attachment 4 The People

By: Michael Ashenfelter LPC-S & Michael Leach PhD
  • Summary

  • Welcome to a conversational and educational podcast that brings together the world of mixology and attachment science. Join two therapists in dialogue as they explore all things attachment while infusing a touch of pop culture into the mix.

    In each episode, our seasoned therapists take you through the depths of attachment theory, unraveling its various concepts and shedding light on its impact on our relationships and need for personal growth. They blend their expertise with relatable pop culture references, making complex psychological concepts accessible and enjoyable for everyone.

    Through thought-provoking conversations, real-life case studies, and practical advice, "Attachment 4 The People" aims to empower listeners with a deeper understanding of attachment science and how it shapes our lives. Whether you're a therapist seeking new insights, a psychology enthusiast, or simply someone interested in personal growth and building healthier relationships, this podcast offers a refreshing and engaging perspective.

    So grab your favorite drink or mix our episode’s featured drink and join us as we mix together the fascinating worlds of mixology, attachment science, and pop culture, all in the name of helping you forge stronger connections and find fulfillment in your relationships. Cheers to "Attachment 4 The People"!

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Episodes
  • Dismissive Avoidant Dynamics | The Bear S02E03 Sundae
    Oct 28 2024

    We help you understand the nuances around attachment theory.

    Dismissive avoidant attachment. Do you understand what that means? Don't worry, we have you covered! We are looking into childhood-rooted emotional dynamics and coping strategies, showing how these lead to an attachment that affects personal and professional relationships. I

    02:51 Episode Discussion: The Bear - Season 2, Episode 3
    03:48 Themes of Attachment in 'Sunday'
    08:31 Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Explained
    12:47 Strategies and Childhood Experiences
    18:54 Ibra's Journey and Struggles
    25:42 Exploring Cousin and Eva's Relationship
    27:21 Eva's Struggle with Adult Concepts
    28:27 Cousin's Tenderness and Eva's Discomfort
    31:51 Carmi and Sid: Partner or Sous Chef?
    35:02 Sid's Perception of Failure
    42:07 Carmi's Dilemma: Claire vs. Sid
    49:12 The Challenge of Dismissive Attachment
    52:14 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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    53 mins
  • Exploring Second Chances | The Bear S02E02 Pasta
    Oct 14 2024

    Are you confused with Attachment Theory? We Can Help.

    There is a Buddhist parable of life as a game of hide and seek, emphasizing the importance of being found and the delight in being discovered. Our discussion covers various relationships focusing on themes of second chances, attachment repair, and the significance of secure bases.

    We talk through challenges of collaboration and self-awareness in attachment disturbances and the differences in repair strategies across various dynamics—highlighting both direct and indirect forms of repair.

    Thanks for sticking with us!


    01:37 Episode Discussion: Pasta and Sid's Backstory
    04:17 Attachment Theory and Second Chances
    06:44 Exploring Lifelong Attachment Needs
    09:33 Tina and Ibra: Different Reactions to Opportunity
    17:53 The Trio: Cousin, Fac, and Marcus
    20:42 Understanding Attachment Disturbances
    22:15 Challenges in Collaboration
    23:18 Hypothetical Therapy Session with Fak
    27:02 Richie's Struggle for Connection
    31:06 Repairing Relationships
    32:59 Cultural Perspectives on Repair
    35:09 Bro Culture and Repair
    38:18 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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    39 mins
  • Value in Vulnerability | The Bear S02E01 Beef
    Sep 30 2024

    Are you confused with Attachment Theory? We Can Help.

    We are back in "The Bear," Season 2, Episode 1 "Beef." Our discussion begins with an emphasis on vulnerability and authenticity, noting how such openness is often reciprocated and can foster a deeper connection. Struggles with belonging, purpose, and insecurity are create some helpful starting points for deeper conversation.

    We also touch on themes of collaboration and how resources impact attachment and relationships. We discuss how collaborative efforts within the show's context reflect deeper levels of attachment security. We draw parallels between the fictional dynamics and real-life scenarios, offering insights into improving collaboration and security in personal relationships.

    We are excited to have you and hope you enjoy!


    01:34 Defining Purpose and Focus
    04:33 Discussion on Episode Title 'Beef'
    05:48 Cousin's Vulnerability in the Basement
    07:05 Carmi's Attunement and Support
    10:04 Exploring Insecurity and Attachment
    18:09 Marcus's Embodiment of Purpose
    20:21 Exploring Themes of Collaboration
    21:34 Resources and Attachment
    23:41 Security and Resource Discovery
    25:45 Real-Life Implications of Collaboration
    36:40 Collaborative Parenting
    45:59 Cultural Perspectives on Collaboration
    48:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    49 mins

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