What inspired you to write about your experiences?
Writing a book had come up a few times over the years, but it never felt possible. I could barely sit down, let alone be still long enough to complete such a task. But now is different, and it felt like the right time to take this on. There are an infinite number of ways to be queer and trans, and my story speaks to only one. The act of writing, reading, and sharing the multitude of our experiences is an important step in standing up to those who are trying to silence us. I don't have anything to say that hasn’t been said before, but I know books have helped me, saved me even, so perhaps this can help someone feel less alone, seen, no matter who they are or what journey they are on.
How has writing your memoir impacted your life?
This book has impacted my life significantly, it has been cathartic and healing to write. But really this newfound strength, joy, and connection is because of countless people. There are many people in my life who have created space in this world for me to exist. I don’t have enough words to express how fortunate I feel.
